FabSwingers.com forum: Copy / Paste messages..here is why..!!

By *RTHURXXL OP Man
25 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

Women get annoyed when they recieved a copy/ past message on the initial contact (I dont blame them). and am talking about proper message not "hi how are you'..

They ( women) think it reflects some laziness, or not putting effort or not caring..

I disagree with that.

I think the main reason is: some women ( I would say most) Do Not Reply at all.

Spending time to write a long message to each person we like and then we recieve no reply at all is really annoying.

We are all adults and we can deal with rejection

Simple reply like ( Thanks for the message , but not my type) takes seconds and we ( men ) would understand.

I am not sayng tibreply to everyone who says hi. but if you see a long message that show the person interest in you, at least say something.

Therefore, Please do not blame us ( men) for copy/ paste long messages..

Thank you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

It's not about blaming, from what I've seen here. But people will have preferences, including who and what they like,as well as how they prefer to be communicated with. It's human nature and trying to assume that we don't make instant assessments on others,is unrealistic, I think.

I think it would help you OP to understand the messaging protocol unique to Fab. No reply is a reply - it's no thanks. Please read the site FAQ,as you could potentially be more apprised of the Fab norms etc.

When people get a message, they will visit the sender's profile and read it. This is the main message they'll see, alongside your pics. Profiles speak volumes

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By *hisfuckingguyMan
25 weeks ago

Bradford

Copy and paste messages are generic and show that you're not interested in other person and are just looking for anything to shag

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By *eroLondonMan
25 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, you really shouldn't be sending any messages if you're going to be somewhat emotive about such things on here.

If I were you I would just sit back and let women message first. From experience that approach can be extremely rewarding.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
25 weeks ago

norwich ish

It’s not just a copy/paste messsage, it’s a copy/paste essay which shows no consideration to the profile.

People want genuine messages and to see that you’ve read the profile, they don’t want a “I’m really nice, I’m all about the woman’s enjoyment, I’m respectful” and the worst part of a copy/paste message.

“I’ve read your profile and it’s interested me and I think we could hit it off”

When in reality if you’d read the profile, you wouldn’t even be bothering.

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By *acedInLuxuryWoman
25 weeks ago

Scotland

Copy and paste messages for me means you haven’t taken the time to read my profile to write a couple of lines based on it or ask any further questions. So why should I take the time to read the copy and pasted message and form a reply? Double standards

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
25 weeks ago

If you're going to copy and paste at least edit and pick something from each profile you send to, Hoe many messages do you send daily for the need to copy and paste ?

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