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age gap does it mater ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

during the short time we have been on this site we have been contacted on more than one occasion by couples who are at least 25 years younger than ourselves, has any other couple out there experienced meets with couples young enough to be their children and visa versa ? and what was the outcome ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few younger couples contact us, obviously not having read our preferred age range, while it is flattering we have turned them down, like you say it could be like meeting your kids in some cases!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you should take it as a compliment. We did. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mmm didnt look at it that way thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met couples from 18 to 60 and everyone brings something different to a meet so for us age is no issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have a problem if the lady looks young. Met a couple 33 and 37, but the lady looked like a teenager, with a girly figure, she looked like a schoolgirl, and I just couldn't go there. Prefer ladies 40-60. Kate don't mind young guys, but has an age cieling of 10yrs her senior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because Sasha is in her twenties we get lots of mails from younger couples.

Because I am in my mid fifties I am always surprised that they consider playing with me.

Over the years at the clubs we go to the number of younger couples playing with us has always been high, but that is, as on here, Sasha being the initial attraction, I find it a compliment that those same people decide on meeting me that I am "acceptable" too.

It does surprise me though that those who haven't met me will so readily accept my age, surprise me yes, but its a nice surprise.

We have found most younger couples to be more fun than older couples (over 48 that is) just our experience and probably not the norm.

The younger couples we have met seem to have thier heads screwed on, they seem to have put a lot of thought into what they are doing and the big jealousy factor has never reared its ugly head, despite them often being accused of having such problems.

Thats in our experience and I am sure others have found things different.

As for giving any thought to people being younger than my children - personally when I think about sex of swinging my kids are the last thing on my mind, the two things have nothing whatsoever in common and I would worry more if I was with a young woman and had any thoughts at all about my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will always get varying views depending on individual points of view.

For me I prefer playing with people my own age that's what I'm comfortable with.

At almost 50 I wouldn't want to play with a 20 year old or an 80 year old.

PERSONALLY I find it a little sad getting messages from 19 year olds. Before some people get off on one for me expressing MY opinion, sad because they are in the first flush of youth so why contact a much older woman who is NOT seeking them?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to meet people around 5 years either side of our own ages, some people feel the need to question this, on the same token others question large age differences, this tells us that yes age certainly does matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t think it matters if you get on and have the banter and attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, for us it's similar ages only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes to me age matters, as im not going to get hold of a 20 yr old and hit him with a lot older women , not fair in my books ,, we share ,, thats the whole point ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age dose not bother me

every 1 to there own preference

if there an attraction then its a yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of messages from young guys, id say about 70% are from men under 25, i dont think age matters so long as everyones happy with it, i personally dont go for guys that young but i dont see anything wrong with it if women my age do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will always get varying views depending on individual points of view.

For me I prefer playing with people my own age that's what I'm comfortable with.

At almost 50 I wouldn't want to play with a 20 year old or an 80 year old.

PERSONALLY I find it a little sad getting messages from 19 year olds. Before some people get off on one for me expressing MY opinion, sad because they are in the first flush of youth so why contact a much older woman who is NOT seeking them?!! "

Your views are the opposite of mine and that's great, that's what makes Man (pc version Man and Woman) different to animals, we think different, we like different things, we do different things.

I respect your view long may you enjoy what you enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one profile on this site that states "don't want to be contacted by people with age differences as that is just sick"

Ok each to thier own but that's a pretty broad damnation of people, I did wonder what type of age difference it had to be for it to become "sick"

I am 55 next month (birthday plug) if I was with a woman of 45 or a woman of 65 is that really sick ?

A 40 year old with a 30 year old sick ?

I don't think you can pre-judge anyone because of an age difference, yes it sometimes makes it difficult for them to have a relationship but that's thier business not ours, we have age of consent and senility to safeguards against extremes.

A 20 year old woman is normally 5 years more mature than a 20 year old male so a 20 year old female with a 25 year old male would seem pretty much a good match to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no under 30s for us , but still get the mails from people who cant read lol. and nope mrs mids wants fun not end up giving lessons .but each to their own we think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is one profile on this site that states "don't want to be contacted by people with age differences as that is just sick"

Ok each to thier own but that's a pretty broad damnation of people, I did wonder what type of age difference it had to be for it to become "sick"

I am 55 next month (birthday plug) if I was with a woman of 45 or a woman of 65 is that really sick ?

A 40 year old with a 30 year old sick ?

I don't think you can pre-judge anyone because of an age difference, yes it sometimes makes it difficult for them to have a relationship but that's thier business not ours, we have age of consent and senility to safeguards against extremes.

A 20 year old woman is normally 5 years more mature than a 20 year old male so a 20 year old

female with a 25 year old male would seem pretty much a good match to me."

Personally I wouldn't feel it necessary to put that on my profile: that's what the age filter is for, but again, people can express their views in whatever manner they see fit.

I come across profiles all the time stating we are a slim attractive couple and won't play with ugly lard arses: ok I'm gilding the lily a little. My point is good for them! I don't feel the need to constantly defend myself as a bbw I'm not going to appeal to everyone and not everyone finds May and December relationships appealing: c'est la vie!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

PERSONALLY I find it a little sad getting messages from 19 year olds. Before some people get off on one for me expressing MY opinion, sad because they are in the first flush of youth so why contact a much older woman who is NOT seeking them?!! "

thought that was obvious, they afrer experience and they not going to get that from another 19 year old are they? we all after learn somehow and i guess going with older people is just the express route

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I am always flattered when I get mail from much younger guys and recently I relented and started meeting them

I am so glad I did

They are often so lush and better than a lot of people give them credit for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

PERSONALLY I find it a little sad getting messages from 19 year olds. Before some people get off on one for me expressing MY opinion, sad because they are in the first flush of youth so why contact a much older woman who is NOT seeking them?!!

thought that was obvious, they afrer experience and they not going to get that from another 19 year old are they? we all after learn somehow and i guess going with older people is just the express route "

Absolutely: the pertinent part of my comment is "not seeking them". Plenty of older women who like younger men I don't so pointless contacting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as everyone can deal with the age difference .... every decade that passes the older moves to 60's and 70's and 80's the younger one may still be in their sexual prime...

each to their own tho.

wishing everyone fun times..

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

I can't help but adore the young guys I have met. They are so open and honest about what they want. They learn so quickly - even if I am not really teaching them - and they feel soooo good. I am 55 and I have met 20yo guys. It doesn't feel anything but great !!

( btw I have 3 kids )

Each to their own.

Jane x x

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By *thletic gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Funky

Well you shouldn't be such a sexual goddess now should you ! lol xxx hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't help but adore the young guys I have met. They are so open and honest about what they want. They learn so quickly - even if I am not really teaching them - and they feel soooo good. I am 55 and I have met 20yo guys. It doesn't feel anything but great !!

( btw I have 3 kids )

Each to their own.

Jane x x"

Lol good for you!

I prefer my playmates older but it's refreshing to come across an "oldie" who celebrates their young playmates and don't feel the need to insult those of us with differing views!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

PERSONALLY I find it a little sad getting messages from 19 year olds. Before some people get off on one for me expressing MY opinion, sad because they are in the first flush of youth so why contact a much older woman who is NOT seeking them?!!

thought that was obvious, they afrer experience and they not going to get that from another 19 year old are they? we all after learn somehow and i guess going with older people is just the express route

Absolutely: the pertinent part of my comment is "not seeking them". Plenty of older women who like younger men I don't so pointless contacting me "

well thats because no bugger reads profiles on here lol

I have selected only man option on my profile yet i still get countless messages from couples

I think most of us get pointless contacts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

easier for a guy

as you get older whole tranches of new women come into view

when i was 20 - only wanted close to age - but as got older the 20yr olds still looked nice but kept adding till now at 46 i like 20-46 women

hard life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think most men on here care so long as the answers yes lol

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I tend to look at the person/people and what they are like rather than the age.

I've had both good and bad experiences with people both older and younger than me - everyone brings something to the part, so to speak, it just depends what you're looking for.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"i dont think most men on here care so long as the answers yes lol"

haha

that made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think most men on here care so long as the answers yes lol

haha

that made me chuckle

"

LOL - me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think most men on here care so long as the answers yes lol"

you're spot on there, most guys couldn't give a hoot about looks or age as long as they've got somewhere warm and wet to shove their finger, their tongue or their cock.....but some do, not many I'd wager, but some do

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Put me down as one of the "some" not one of the "most" - there are people on this site i would run a million miles from....!

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

age is but a number.............do m all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like older women, they really know how to enjoy themselves!

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By *ockwell DominusMan
over a year ago

Birstall

I used to think the age gap did matter but have been fortunate enough to have met some really nice ladies of all ages.

The youngest being 18 and the oldest was 59. I wouldn't turn someone down just because of their age I think personality shines through no matter what age a person is.

I do admit that I tend to feel more comfortable when the age gap is no more than 15 years but it's not a hard and fast rule.

I shall now wait for all the dirty old man jokes to start lol

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