FabSwingers.com forum: Veri's.......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it a good thing to show all your verifications, or is it better to show just a few.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've nothing to hide and thankfully all have been good, in fact even better than good

Some are put off if there's loads, but i have had no end of people approach me since I started getting them as they can see I'm not a timewasters who will let them down, I'm genuinely out for the social side and that I can handle being in and around others and not get overwhelmed by the situation so for me hell yeah!!!!!

By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

I think it's sensible to try and strike a balance with verifications: as said above, they can help let people know that you are genuine, likely to turn up etc., but I try not to show loads of 'repeat veris' from people I have seen on more than one occasion.

There was a recent thread that described how a list of veris from one person can look a bit like 'peeing on their territory' - it can actually have a negative effect as it can look like someone is kind of saying 'this one's mine'..

As with all things, find an approach that suits you, and stick to it (for instance I tend not to display veris that are particularly graphic/crude). Some people will like it, some won't. Such is life! Good luck

By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I think it's sensible to try and strike a balance with verifications: as said above, they can help let people know that you are genuine, likely to turn up etc., but I try not to show loads of 'repeat veris' from people I have seen on more than one occasion.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different folk have their own take on this.

Some hark on about quality over quantity and don't want to meet those with lots of veri's .

Others see lots as a means of understanding the folk are up for it and are open .

So it's up to you