FabSwingers.com forum: Just a thought!

By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

Do you ever look at someone's profile and they seem so good to you. But you dont text or interact coz you know they wont reply. ?

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By *udelawfsMan
20 weeks ago

A pristine town

100% it's more common than you think mate.

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By *r SproutMan
20 weeks ago

M54

Every single day

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By *avexxMan
20 weeks ago

cheshire

my age puts me off sending any messages

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By *harAndBryCouple
20 weeks ago

Downham Market

"Do you ever look at someone's profile and they seem so good to you. But you dont text or interact coz you know they wont reply. ?"

We have the longest Hotlist....purely full of couples and single women who are far out of our league so we're too scared to message or wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

All the time, but sometimes I do think what if, you don’t know it you try and you may live to regret it

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By *umagain58Man
20 weeks ago

London

"Do you ever look at someone's profile and they seem so good to you. But you dont text or interact coz you know they wont reply. ?"

Yes plenty I admire, I don’t message them if I am not what they are looking for even when very good. Wasting their time is not good and I respect them. Have however had a few nice surprises when I have been on cam and been contacted by them. Some nice surprises

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not messaging is a sure fire way to a self fulfilling prophecy.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"Do you ever look at someone's profile and they seem so good to you. But you dont text or interact coz you know they wont reply. ?

We have the longest Hotlist....purely full of couples and single women who are far out of our league so we're too scared to message or wink."

You should message a few what have you got to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

What's the worst that could happen? You never know your luck. Away from Fab, the very attractive sometimes bemoan that they sometimes feel (not often) isolated because too many assume they would not be interested in them.

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By *uriousCorvidMan
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Do you ever look at someone's profile and they seem so good to you. But you dont text or interact coz you know they wont reply. ?"

All the time...

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By *inkPomPomWoman
20 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Location location for me so i often dont message even if i dig someone

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By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

"Do you ever look at someone's profile and they seem so good to you. But you dont text or interact coz you know they wont reply. ?

We have the longest Hotlist....purely full of couples and single women who are far out of our league so we're too scared to message or wink."

Thats exactly what i mean but sometimes they might be expecting us to initiate but its an arrow in the dark if it lands or miss

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By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

"Location location for me so i often dont message even if i dig someone "

Yes sometimes i would not initiate because the ones you dig are like 200 miles away

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By *earditallWoman
20 weeks ago

Lancaster

You don't know unless there is something that stands out to say they wouldn't

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By *earditallWoman
20 weeks ago

Lancaster

But no I don't ive initiated messaging if I've been interested but then again i don't look at profiles all that often unless prompted by something

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Personally no as i don't think anyone is too good for me, it's usually stuff in the bio or pics that stop me from messaging

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By *vaRoseWoman
20 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Nope

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By *ixenFoxCouple
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

There are some very hot profiles, which can be intimidating, but our advice is "shy kids don't get any sweeties"... if you fancy someone and fit the criteria on their bio then go for it.

Swinging is more fun when when you all get on and have a laugh! X

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By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

"There are some very hot profiles, which can be intimidating, but our advice is "shy kids don't get any sweeties"... if you fancy someone and fit the criteria on their bio then go for it.

Swinging is more fun when when you all get on and have a laugh! X"

Noted: i will definitely try to communicate in a very respectful manner

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I do message but don't get many replies so getting despondent.

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By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

"I do message but don't get many replies so getting despondent.

That is very common on her mate. Better be graceful about not getting reply and just move on i think. There is plenty others who would fancy giving a reply.

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By *abs9Man
20 weeks ago

driffield

Every day I look & think “ yup their too good for me “ & jog on.

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By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

"Every day I look & think “ yup their too good for me “ & jog on. "

You should write a lovely text and shoot it , you never know they might be expecting it. Xx

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Round the bend

The worst that can happen is that that they say no. Live dangerously and have some fun.

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By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

"The worst that can happen is that that they say no. Live dangerously and have some fun. "

Absolutely 💯, it's just some has to learn that one No means a no and dont be pushing or get aggressive

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By *harAndBryCouple
20 weeks ago

Downham Market

"The worst that can happen is that that they say no. Live dangerously and have some fun. "

Actually there's a worse scenario....we think their pics are hot and their profile is a match and we wink and they wink back and we message and then they send us face pics. And we have to find a nice way of saying no.....

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Round the bend

"The worst that can happen is that that they say no. Live dangerously and have some fun.

#awkward

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By *rypticKindness OP Man
20 weeks ago

kii

"The worst that can happen is that that they say no. Live dangerously and have some fun.

And again i believe a single no should be enough. And nobody has to be all abusive or aggressive about it. I have heard from women on here that guys actually start to abuse or get aggressive when they are said no

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By *ily WhiteWoman
20 weeks ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

No, I've never thought that...if I find them attractive and nothing in their profile has put me off then I'll message. What's the worst that can happen? Even if they say no, you're no worse off than if you hadn't messaged...but they might say yes.

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By *hinstrapMan
20 weeks ago

sheffield

Being a chubby middle aged guy. I know my level and theres ....

A. Far too many sexy women or couples who are way out of my league. I'm a realist.

B. Who prefer anything but me.

C. And they seem to all gage great 20:20 eye site.

D. There are mega odds on here. Something like 20 billion men to 1 sexy lady.

E. I thought I'd save server use .. I'm too nice and helpful.

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By *rasshopper201Man
20 weeks ago

kendal

"my age puts me off sending any messages"
well you should because you don’t look that age that’s not from a guy wanting to meet you but a guy to guy comment what have you got to lose

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By *rNightMan
20 weeks ago

Coventry

"Do you ever look at someone's profile and they seem so good to you. But you dont text or interact coz you know they wont reply. ?"

Haha daily

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

Nope. He who dares, Rodney!!!

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By *0nn1Man
20 weeks ago

Ellesmere Port

Usually I sent messages and I don't get any answers or in the best case I will get a no... Very frustrating

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By *orbidden eastMan
20 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

It happens all the time OP. But I will still message and most probably its a no but that how it goes 🤷‍♂️😂

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By *infullyObedientWoman
20 weeks ago

Woodley

You never know until you try. Ive been surprised by some replies ive received recently when ive taken the plunge and messaged, expecting no reply. Worst that can happen is they aren't interested and block you so you cant perv their pics anymore from a distance, but there's plenty of others for that 😄

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