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"I'm straight, and I'm attracted to femininity. It doesn't matter to me what's between their legs. As such I've spent some time with trans women and had some great times. I'm open about it, and if people don't like it, it's a problem for them, not me." Interesting response | |||
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"I adore sensual fun with trans women and TVs. I love the sensuality and sexual frisson that often ensues. I really love it. " Yes! | |||
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"Nope!....never have, never will." Most completely straight men would answer the same | |||
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"Just to echo what everybody else is saying; 90% of the men that message me are straight " but in their defense you are very hot | |||
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"No. I’m straight and it’s more than just a label. It’s what I am and sex with a bloke holds no attraction. Whether he is wearing lipstick or not. " Mate thats a bit of a poor take, just saying | |||
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"A fair few years ago a woman I was seeing on here wanted to invite a trans person along. We found someone who was very convincing and feminine, so invite sent and night planned. I'm open minded, so the idea was for the person to maybe use hands/mouth on me and if I found it enjoyable it could lead to me potentially penetrating them. But I didn't like it, so a minute into receiving a blowjob I stopped as it didn't feel right. But I tried, and no harm in that! Was still a great night tag teaming my lady. Something that stuck in my mind was when the trans woman came, there was so much and it FIRED. She said since taking all the hormones it made the load 5 times more than ever, and watered it down a fair bit so would shoot whereas before the change it was always a dribble. Interesting to see if that's happened to anyone else on hormones?" Unfortunately not i had the complete opposite lucky to get a tiny drop now | |||
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"Then your not straight Read the definition of straight. " ZZZZ boring | |||
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"I get a lot of messages that start “I’m straight but….” , I’m not actually bothered by their sexuality just that they find me attractive and want to meet up. Also I don’t message profiles that don’t have TV/TS as a preference but it’s 50/50 on the profiles that have it showing when they contact me. " Yes it’s interesting isn’t it | |||
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"I get a lot of messages that start “I’m straight but….” , I’m not actually bothered by their sexuality just that they find me attractive and want to meet up. Also I don’t message profiles that don’t have TV/TS as a preference but it’s 50/50 on the profiles that have it showing when they contact me. Yes it’s interesting isn’t it " I would much rather they were honest about it, at least then I could make the first move with some really sexy guys. | |||
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"What about otherwise straight women who find transwomen sexy? " They are also very welcome | |||
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"Yes, I’m attracted to some trans women. Not met any from here but wouldn’t say never" Fair enough x | |||
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"I love full time Trans girls who live as woman. The problem here is fab categorises Cross dressers and Trans girls in the same group. This need to be separated really. There is big difference between a guy who likes to dress and a real TS girl going through a transition." Yes, I agree, it is confusing for all concerned. | |||
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"I love full time Trans girls who live as woman. The problem here is fab categorises Cross dressers and Trans girls in the same group. This need to be separated really. There is big difference between a guy who likes to dress and a real TS girl going through a transition." I wonder if there should be pre-op and post-op TS categories. As I read this thread and the many men who say they are attracted to ‘trans women’ I no longer know if there’s a distinction between cross dressing and folks who have undergone gender reassignment surgeries. In my mind there is a distinction as one is arguably just a fetish while the other is an identity. | |||
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"I love full time Trans girls who live as woman. The problem here is fab categorises Cross dressers and Trans girls in the same group. This need to be separated really. There is big difference between a guy who likes to dress and a real TS girl going through a transition." Indeed!... c'mon fabswingers.co.uk get a grip... it's 2026! | |||
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"I love full time Trans girls who live as woman. The problem here is fab categorises Cross dressers and Trans girls in the same group. This need to be separated really. There is big difference between a guy who likes to dress and a real TS girl going through a transition. Yup very very different! Indeed!... c'mon fabswingers.co.uk get a grip... it's 2026!" | |||
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"I love full time Trans girls who live as woman. The problem here is fab categorises Cross dressers and Trans girls in the same group. This need to be separated really. There is big difference between a guy who likes to dress and a real TS girl going through a transition." A cheetah doesn't need to prove it's speed... use your eyes | |||
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"I love full time Trans girls who live as woman. The problem here is fab categorises Cross dressers and Trans girls in the same group. This need to be separated really. There is big difference between a guy who likes to dress and a real TS girl going through a transition. A cheetah doesn't need to prove it's speed... use your eyes" Certainly... nicely put! I often have couples tell me once they've plucked up the courage to approach me... that they fear I am outta their league for goodness sake lol! | |||
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"No, because I'm straight." Same as What this gentleman said 🤙🏻 | |||
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"No, but I have painted a room with one. " Fabulous... such artistic talent! 👏 | |||
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"No, but I have painted a room with one. Fabulous... such artistic talent! 👏 " Clearly I used her as a paint roller. No - I borrowed her painting gear and it's still in my car.. | |||
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"No, but I have painted a room with one. Fabulous... such artistic talent! 👏 Clearly I used her as a paint roller. No - I borrowed her painting gear and it's still in my car.. " You haven’t returned it!?! 😮😮😮 | |||
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"I love full time Trans girls who live as woman. The problem here is fab categorises Cross dressers and Trans girls in the same group. This need to be separated really. There is big difference between a guy who likes to dress and a real TS girl going through a transition. A cheetah doesn't need to prove it's speed... use your eyes" I am trying to say that fab needs to help with categories, I am not being disrestful here. It's sometimes very hard to understand how people identify by just looking at photos. | |||
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"And how did you find it? I don’t care about labels of what you consider to be straight. I just know many men out there have now probably at least dabbled with a blowjob And maybe they loved it, maybe they didn’t just curious. So many straight men are open about giving ladyboys a try when they visit Thailand to see what it’s like. Even being open about it with friends and encouraging each other to say it’s like going to a candy shop and not any sweets. So it’s a shame that in the UK, when they’re all home, they’re very secretive and hide it from each other when they dabble. They could have so many experiences of sharing a willing trans or tv, getting amazing blowjobs, getting their asses licked and having a willing hole to pound with their friends. Although, it seems more and more men are giving it a try, it’s realty a shame they don’t talk about it to their friends and consider group meets in the same way they would Thailand or other places abroad. I’d love to get used by a group of male friends! " I have indeed dabbled and absolutely loved it. A soft curvy body with a beautiful big cock is so fucking sexy. | |||
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"No, because I really am straight." It's getting rarer on here! | |||
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"I think people are uncomfortable with trans gals like us in society, as don’t really fit into any boxes that people want to label us with. My gay ex boyfriend who I was with ten years loved me a lot, he’s still my best friend. He didn’t want to be with me once hormones made me mega girly, because he’s a gay man. He wants to be with men. Obviously. But then some straight guys won’t want to be with me as I have a dick. Traditional labels and boxes to put people in stop working and I think that makes people uncomfortable. Attraction isn’t just this super narrow thing that is immovable. You aren’t gay for wanting to be with me when I’m feminine and soft, probably not even interacting with that part of me. And am sure other people would argue it isn’t straight either. Labels kind of just don’t matter." I think that you have put it very well; I know a lot of gay men who are lovely and friendly but I am fairly sure that none them (or not that I know of) or hardly any (perhaps some who are actually bisexual) see me as a man sexually or have any sexual interest in me. They see me more as a type of woman even if not a real one, or at least a feminine person whom they like and whose femininity they enjoy, much as they would with women. | |||
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"I’ve given quite a few blowjobs to straight men lol" Of course they are. Lol | |||
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"If a member of fab describes themselves as gay, bi or bi curious I believe them 100%. If however they describe themselves as themselves as “straight” I take some convincing. Given the level of (self)deception on this site it makes perfect it’s the sensible position." A lot of men on here are obviously married or living with someone and cheating by pretending to be single. Some are at least honest enough to say so. I won’t knowingly have sex with married people without their partner’s knowledge and consent, but it is not always as easy to be sure. Many of them are ‘heterosexual’ men whose profiles say that they are ‘straight’ but are actually wanting sex with transvestites or trans-women even though their profiles don’t say that. | |||
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"If a member of fab describes themselves as gay, bi or bi curious I believe them 100%. If however they describe themselves as themselves as “straight” I take some convincing. Given the level of (self)deception on this site it makes perfect it’s the sensible position." True! Bring a trans-woman hotwife I've had a few BJs from "staight" couples myself 🤣 Oh, and thanks guys for blocking me... I do love it when couples read my profile and block me as instructed... it saves us all time! 💋 💋 | |||
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"If a member of fab describes themselves as gay, bi or bi curious I believe them 100%. If however they describe themselves as themselves as “straight” I take some convincing. Given the level of (self)deception on this site it makes perfect it’s the sensible position. True! Bring a trans-woman hotwife I've had a few BJs from "staight" couples myself 🤣 Oh, and thanks guys for blocking me... I do love it when couples read my profile and block me as instructed... it saves us all time! 💋 💋 Your right it does | |||
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"I'm straight, and I'm attracted to femininity. It doesn't matter to me what's between their legs. As such I've spent some time with trans women and had some great times. I'm open about it, and if people don't like it, it's a problem for them, not me." I agree with this response, I hate labels and generally find them unhelpful - if I'm attracted I'm attracted end of. As this poster states I'm also attracted to feminity but I've given up saying whether I'm straight/bi/gay/alien and prefer if I have to choose a label hetero flexible | |||
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"I only date supposedly straight men. I know they love it lol As a trans-woman my primary play partners are women... lesbian + bi love it... but a fair few of the "straight" one's love too!🫦🤭 Why are we not friends? 💋💋 | |||
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"Interesting how this long thread was started by someone who hasn't got a single clear face pic And this for me is indicative of the main issue with this post. There's a massive spectrum on fabs of people called TGirls. Ranging from hairy blokes who dress a bit to absolutely stunning TS's who outshine most natural females. Cd TV Tg Ts All mean so many different things. It's an unfair question " Thanks but what's REALLY unfair is how this site in 2026 cannot get its labeling sorted out! That's why the very first word you see on my profile is TransWoman. I'm here for fun with women and cuck couples NOT sorting out FAB's IT issues FFS! | |||
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"I only date supposedly straight men. I know they love it lol I am not surprised, you really do look lovely! | |||
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"The not being separated by actual transgender gals issue is annoying, such a wide net to put everyone in. We can’t even post couples pictures on this, as we thought it was bad manners to put us as f/f couple when some guys take issue. Feel like wouldn’t be that hard to give other options. For all we know we could be the only trans lesbian couple on the site. As there is absolutely no way to search for more friends like us really. And we find trans guys hot but there would be no hope of finding them on here amongst all the tv/cd." EXACTLY this 💯 hunni! You listening FAB?... you get your categories sorted out for us TRANS people and we can then search for each other much easier... and that means you would most likely get more PAYING members from the FAB TRANS community! | |||
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"Nope!....never have, never will. Most completely straight men would answer the same" Yet there’s a huge, and I mean a LOT of ‘straight’ guys that do this though. | |||
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"The TV/TS category could easily be solved just remove the TS and replace with CD. Trans Women/ Men then can either have a new category which states TS or actually just add themselves as a woman or man with some sort of tick box that states CIS/Trans. (An opt out offered as well) I actually do think we should separate the TV/TS we are completely different. I agree a million % but I don't know if the site mods will change it | |||
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"The TV/TS category could easily be solved just remove the TS and replace with CD. Trans Women/ Men then can either have a new category which states TS or actually just add themselves as a woman or man with some sort of tick box that states CIS/Trans. (An opt out offered as well) I actually do think we should separate the TV/TS we are completely different. Highly doubt it as it gets asked fairly frequently | |||
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"The TV/TS category could easily be solved just remove the TS and replace with CD. Trans Women/ Men then can either have a new category which states TS or actually just add themselves as a woman or man with some sort of tick box that states CIS/Trans. (An opt out offered as well) I actually do think we should separate the TV/TS we are completely different. Agree, the TV/TS option will always remain on here as endless threads and comments hasn’t changed minds by the site owner. | |||
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"Should I try dressing?" I think only you can really answer that. | |||
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"It's a grey area for me. I have no interest in fucking or being fucked by a trans, but given my voyeur kink there could be room there with the right convincing trans and their partner. For me, and no offence to anyone, would have to be very feminine and convincing. I do have a kink for lying on the ground and watching a blowjob happen right above me, even have a mate up for it who is bi and has no problems with trans, I'd do this too if the right person came along. But yet to happen. And prob largely due that I only look to biological women and couples for this fantasy. But I do have the odd look sometimes. Messaged a few in past but it's an odd fantasy I know. " That's the problem, you guys message even if it's just an "odd fantasy "... | |||
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"Some trans women are fitter than some of the biological women I’ve shagged 🤣 depends how far down the line we are…😅" There's some trans men fitter then you guys... did you like that? | |||
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" You listening FAB?... you get your categories sorted out for us TRANS people and we can then search for each other much easier... and that means you would most likely get more PAYING members from the FAB TRANS community! I think the code on this site is so old the owners do not want to touch a thing as it will bring the whole house of cards down! One simple thing is you cannot even search meets that are looking for "TV/TS", you can only select the category of the person that posted it. Oh well. | |||
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"...I believe I was trying to create/become that woman that I’d always found attractive. It was then the thrill of dressing up and having straight guys finding me attractive, which then became a real turn on and then made me want to get intimate with guys to kind of finish off the process xx" I am totally with you on that one. I have been dressing since I was 12 and borrowed my mums lingerie and babydoll nighties | |||
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"Nope!....never have, never will. Most completely straight men would answer the same" Think all straight men would give that answer. | |||
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"With convincing T-girls, it’s always nice to just suck it and see" 🫦 👄 🤭 | |||
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