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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seem to have spoken to an awful lot of couples that are not really couples... they are seperate entities with other partners.. that are really fuck buddies .... Is this normal!?

Love n licks

ck

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup pretty much a few of them...but loads of real ones also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have meet lots of real couples and become really good friends with them

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By *estless in batterseaCouple
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Most interracial couples on here... not really couples just fuck buddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ( waves ) we are very much a real couple! Live together and everything!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a real couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We're a real couple - married, 4 kids, etc etc - but as the poster above said, does it matter if they're just fbs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly real couple here , argue and fall out like married couples do all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a real couple and I think it does matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly real couple here , argue and fall out like married couples do all the time "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most interracial couples on here... not really couples just fuck buddies."

Based on what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter? "

Yes.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Does it matter?

Yes.

"

Not to everyone it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really matter to me just so long as people are honest.

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By *anfiona2Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

We're a real couple and it does matter to us

Don't ask me why though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are also a real couple but have lost count of the couples we have met who are not .

It used to bother us but we are grateful for what we get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most interracial couples on here... not really couples just fuck buddies."

Really???? Would love to know where you got that from.

We beg to differ!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most interracial couples on here... not really couples just fuck buddies."

wow big brush and lots of tar

Define a 'real couple'

a couple that dont live together because he works hours away but have a child?

a couple that have been together for years but cant live together?

a couple that have met on here but are not ready to live together but only swing together?

I actually personally agree fb couples should state they are just that, as they wont know each other like a long term committed (residentially/civil/married) couple, but it is really just definitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (p) know of a " couple " who have been together 21 years, yet have never lived together. their choice but they know each other inside out, so are they real of just fbs???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a fuck buddy couple and it states in my profile that we are fuck buddies everyone we have spoke to have no issues with us as we state it and tell them when we speak to others on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess we could at one time have been described as fb's but are now a happily married "real couple".

Not sure what difference either description really meant in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a real couple are particular about meeting single men who don't have their partners approval then it does matter because FB's normally have a partner at home as well.

Personally I think as long as everyone is happy what's the problem.

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD


"We are a real couple and I think it does matter "

we are a real couple, we prefer other couples not fb couples, I think with real couples they have a better connection with each other and seems to want to live out fantasies etc, ( fb couples and not all of them ) tend to be there more as individuals experiencing the same thing but not much interaction between them

just our experience.

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By *relaineMan
over a year ago

whitchurch/shropshire

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By *relaineMan
over a year ago

whitchurch/shropshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a real couple and I think it does matter

we are a real couple, we prefer other couples not fb couples, I think with real couples they have a better connection with each other and seems to want to live out fantasies etc, ( fb couples and not all of them ) tend to be there more as individuals experiencing the same thing but not much interaction between them

just our experience. "

Guess you need to bear things on a case by case basis!

I've met many real couples - married, cohabiting, long term partners living separately - as well as many a FB couple.

One thing I've never experienced with FB couples is any hint of jealousy or a sense of 'superiority' over me as a single guy!

It doesn't bother me what a couples status is - so long as everyone is happy and respectful and has a good time!!

Oh - and I speak as someone who set up a FB profile yesterday! But it's abundantly clear as to our status as a 'non-couple' - trust me!!

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By *relaineMan
over a year ago

whitchurch/shropshire


"We are a real couple and I think it does matter

we are a real couple, we prefer other couples not fb couples, I think with real couples they have a better connection with each other and seems to want to live out fantasies etc, ( fb couples and not all of them ) tend to be there more as individuals experiencing the same thing but not much interaction between them

just our experience. "

We are a real couple married 33 years and agree but have met some lovely fb

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"I seem to have spoken to an awful lot of couples that are not really couples... they are seperate entities with other partners.. that are really fuck buddies .... Is this normal!?

Love n licks

ck

Xxx"

Part of the problem depends on what people consider a REAL couple:

1) Married to each other = Real.

2) Married to each other but play only with singles = Not Real.

3) Married but play separately with other couples (ie he in MFM and she in FMF as the 3rd roles) = Not real.

4) Married but play with singles (or, fuck buddies) in same room full swap = Real.

Now, complicate the above if they:

5) Are not married

6) Don't have a couples profile.

My personal experience: being told TattooedHB and myself are not a real couple despite living together, attend socials together, leave together (despite choosing not to have a couples profile), by a couple who don't live together and are both married to other people who don;t know about their swinging.. but hey, they have a couples profile so they must be real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met real couples who have issues and have been complete idiots in the way they treat a single fem....not all but some.

Ive met fb couples who don't do this never had an issue with a fb couple ever always been fun.

And ive played with a guy where we have met ladies and played with couples and always had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are a real couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter?

Yes.

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Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been a couple for seven years, but choose not to live together.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

As a couple and local to you we can confirm there are plenty of other live together/married couples in/around Cheshire/North Wales and surrounding areas.

To us couples we look for are just that. No fb's, we'd rather not take the risk of being part of a possible homewrecking situation if one or both are involved with partners and playing away.

It's the same for singles male or female, if they have partners/husbands/wives it's not for us, consenting or not.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

At least they have the decency to have a couples profile, and not just a single fem profile, so you get the old "i've got a fb and we only meet as a couple" curveball

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been married 18 years. We do prefer to meet other established couples as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're a real couple and it does matter to us

Don't ask me why though!"

what about those that don't have partners elsewhere but just are not in a relationship together... I know for a fact of a few couples that unless they told you, that you wouldn't have a clue due to how close they are and how they interact.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

Im part of a couple but we are dom/sub couple we dont just live bdsm we do normal things together like gardening and diy shopping etc. We dont live together as i had just got out of a messy relationship when we met we see each other most days and sometimes we just chill and watch tv together does this mean we arent a real couple????? We have been accused a few times of just being fbs especially if i have said im not interested in the couple but he is we have been honest but then get accused of being a fake couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to have spoken to an awful lot of couples that are not really couples... they are seperate entities with other partners.. that are really fuck buddies .... Is this normal!?

Love n licks

ck

Xxx"

We're a real couple, been together 14 years,(since we were 15) and married for 4(nearly). Most couples we come across on here, only the man seems to be playing. Lots of fakes couple profiles on here

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By *imsamkissCouple
over a year ago

Loughton

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

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