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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, i cant always accomodate as i dont live on my own and only on rare occassions is it possible for me to do so.

Personally, i prefer meeting at a hotel - there is a certain naughtiness about it and the mess..well you dont need to explain to anyone lol.

Would you prefer hotels? Or yours? Or at their's?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

My ideal is to meet a guy at his place. If he cant accom and I really want to meet him then we use a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate by choice, as life is too short for housework!

I don't like to go to a stranger's home not knowing what I may find.

Hence I only play at hotels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah. I agree with the latter. How shall i say this without sounding like an arse. I prefer houses to be well looked after..smell nice, to not be messy.

For me, a house represents how a person is. And im a clean freak..so wouldnt be comfortable in the unknown. But all depends on the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have only met in a hotel once with a group of guys I trusted well.. I would not meet a guy in one unless I knew them very well..

I don't meet at others houses either or at mine.. so it's clubs for me mostly.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I used to love it though the amount of time it takes to set a meet up concerning a hotel meet its a lot easier if one can accom. I think timewasters have a lot to do with it, essentially they make people more aprehensive that youre gonna book one for them not to turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When squames goes out for her meets it's almost always to a guys hotel room.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm not a hotel meet kinda girl, I like my home comforts too much!

Plenty of wine, plus I smoke, so I can smoke in my own home, but I understand where pearl is coming from, sometimes I don't meet because I really can't be arsed doing all the housework malarkey and changing bedding

And yes I am a lazy biatch at times, so therefore, whilst my home is always clean and tidy when I do meet, I do sometimes think your not really worth my effort

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well, i cant always accomodate as i dont live on my own and only on rare occassions is it possible for me to do so.

Personally, i prefer meeting at a hotel - there is a certain naughtiness about it and the mess..well you dont need to explain to anyone lol.

Would you prefer hotels? Or yours? Or at their's?

"

My house, my name on the Deeds so I don't have to explain anything to anyone. My house is always tidy I'm not a slob and disorder unsettles me.

My brackets, chains, restraints etc are in my home, I like playing with my things in my own environment. I have a portable kit I take to playmates home, but I prefer mine.

That said, for me playmates should be able to accommodate. If they can't/wont, that's not a problem at all, they'll just never see the inside of mine.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yeah. I agree with the latter. How shall i say this without sounding like an arse. I prefer houses to be well looked after..smell nice, to not be messy.

For me, a house represents how a person is. And im a clean freak..so wouldnt be comfortable in the unknown. But all depends on the situation.

"

You can't accommodate but being picky about other people's homes. Sounds about right. A prime example of why I do not, under any circumstance invite those that don't accommodate into my home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to use hotels purely because we have grown up kids at home so peace is a rare thing.

Will meet at others houses if we feel comfortable with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My meets so far have been at other people's houses or clubs.

I'd love a naughty hotel meet but have not had that opportunity yet.

It's even naughty when staying in a hotel with my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet in hotels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah. I agree with the latter. How shall i say this without sounding like an arse. I prefer houses to be well looked after..smell nice, to not be messy.

For me, a house represents how a person is. And im a clean freak..so wouldnt be comfortable in the unknown. But all depends on the situation.

You can't accommodate but being picky about other people's homes. Sounds about right. A prime example of why I do not, under any circumstance invite those that don't accommodate into my home! "

Well, im a traditional kind of guy. Whoever i meet, i will treat them like guests and be made to feel welcome. If the house doesnt feel welcoming...it will be hard to have a good time.

Im not judging anyone according to their house but in the instances i can accomodate, i will make sure my house looks presentable. I dont want them going back thinking negative about me.

At the end of the day, it is their house and i have no right in saying what it should be like.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't mind meeting at a guys house if he can accommodate but prefer to book a nice hotel local to me with decent facilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love hotel meets simply because they feel....naughtier somehow...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a hotel meet kinda girl, I like my home comforts too much!

Plenty of wine, plus I smoke, so I can smoke in my own home, but I understand where pearl is coming from, sometimes I don't meet because I really can't be arsed doing all the housework malarkey and changing bedding

And yes I am a lazy biatch at times, so therefore, whilst my home is always clean and tidy when I do meet, I do sometimes think your not really worth my effort "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet at his

I do enjoy the occasional hotel but I hate the 'I'm passing by offers' so usually I end up at hotels if I've booked it for travelling to a club or met with someone at a club and gone on/back to a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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That said, for me playmates should be able to accommodate. If they can't/wont, that's not a problem at all, they'll just never see the inside of mine. "

this

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm not a hotel meet kinda girl, I like my home comforts too much!

Plenty of wine, plus I smoke, so I can smoke in my own home, but I understand where pearl is coming from, sometimes I don't meet because I really can't be arsed doing all the housework malarkey and changing bedding

And yes I am a lazy biatch at times, so therefore, whilst my home is always clean and tidy when I do meet, I do sometimes think your not really worth my effort "

Glad it's not just me then!!!

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

When we play here in Guernsey its either at ours or their place.

When we play in the UK we do not have a choice it would either be theirs or a hotel.

Only once have we played at someones home, when in the UK and no one has ever said they would not meet us at a hotel so far anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels my house is my personal space and i don't want people knowing where i live or to get disturbed if someone wants me to go to theirs i would but on a first meet i prefer a hotel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love hotel meets simply because they feel....naughtier somehow...!"

..ditto! Especially with all your work gear..the anticipation of whats next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer hotels as we normally book them and stay overnight.

We get a break from home , a good shag and loads of showers and chill out.

Love em

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"We prefer hotels as we normally book them and stay overnight.

We get a break from home , a good shag and loads of showers and chill out.

Love em "

That all depends on who is with you in the hotel room, of course!

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON


"My meets so far have been at other people's houses or clubs.

I'd love a naughty hotel meet but have not had that opportunity yet.

It's even naughty when staying in a hotel with my wife. "

Just perfectly said. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have kids at home so never meet there. We play in hotels where we can relax before our meet arrives.

We will.meet at with those who can accommodate if all are comfortable, although we did walk out of one because it was really bad x

The hotel we use has reception that doesn't face the door, so our visitors don't get seen.

And we get a nice relaxing time away from the kids x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, im looking to arrange a meet in a hotel soon in Kensington. I love those hotels. Amazing light, scenery and the beds are so comfortable.

..i always love booking a hotel to help unwind and just relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hotels, I don't like going to peoples home, I feel more relaxed in a hotel and even if the guy can accommodate id still sooner get a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its hotels for us especially if meeting a single guy. if we really click with a cpl then we would go to their house though

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"Well, im looking to arrange a meet in a hotel soon in Kensington. I love those hotels. Amazing light, scenery and the beds are so comfortable.

..i always love booking a hotel to help unwind and just relax.

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The scenery on the Cromwell Road?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Either ours or someone's home for us....find it much more relaxed and comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loooove hotel meets but would never do one the first time I met someone.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I tend to use hotel for first meet.its neutral so no one feels like host or guest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to use hotel for first meet.its neutral so no one feels like host or guest x "

That's why I like hotels, I like the fact its neutral, if I want a drink I want to just get a drink, if I want a pee I want to just go have a pee, if I want a shower I want to just get up and go for a shower, you cant do that in other peoples homes, you have to respect its their space so wouldn't dream of doing any without asking first but I don't want to be asking if its ok every time I want a pee, to use their loo, or asking if they mind getting me a drink etc, id sooner use a hotel so I can just do as I like when I like

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