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"no bloody chance x" yip this seems to be the general consensus | |||
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"i aint getting on a horse again, no chance ![]() ![]() there's laws against that anyway!!! Z | |||
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"jesus !!!! was only asking a simple wuestion and somehow the world thinks that if your asking somehting then ur approve of it !!!!!! bloody hell " Well... if you ask a question about an emotive subject, then you're likely to get some heated replies! | |||
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"Yes OP we love bareback, but only did it with our first thousand meets though, but we've used condoms on our last five. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What's a condom? Some sort of Fake-BDSM-master? | |||
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"now how many of you people who said....no way on this earth.... have put an unprotected cock or flange in you gobs? lol " ME, and won't even consider doing it with a condom on one either, but thats not what he asked ![]() | |||
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"now how many of you people who said....no way on this earth.... have put an unprotected cock or flange in you gobs? lol ME, and won't even consider doing it with a condom on one either, but thats not what he asked ![]() oral sex is still part of sex and if you dont use protection its a bare back bj lol STIs are spread thro oral as well ![]() | |||
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"now how many of you people who said....no way on this earth.... have put an unprotected cock or flange in you gobs? lol ME, and won't even consider doing it with a condom on one either, but thats not what he asked ![]() ![]() Yep, your right, but its a reduced risk, but someone actually has to have something to pass on anyway, and we all assume everyone does anyway or there would be no need for condoms. | |||
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"jesus !!!! was only asking a simple wuestion and somehow the world thinks that if your asking somehting then ur approve of it !!!!!! bloody hell " And people only answered the simple question? ![]() | |||
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"my point is this seems to be a very taboo subject within swinging which to me is ironic as swinging is taboo in mormal society , i know people who have done this , and as far as aswers go thats fine im just asking not to be judged for asking a question , just curious about how honest people would be and their general thoughts on it . " It isn't taboo at all - in fact it's something that CAN'T be taboo for obvious reasons! I don't think any one was judging you for asking the question though but I'm sure you must have known the reactions of people before you posted. Z | |||
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"There are numerous threads on this one the question gets asked at least once a month and its the same old question and same old answers Just scroll through the pages to find the other threads" Wasn't going to post on this as this question gets asked EVERY week... ![]() | |||
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"There are numerous threads on this one the question gets asked at least once a month and its the same old question and same old answers Just scroll through the pages to find the other threads" look through the swingers chat forums , iv been through them and dont see this anywhere , i odnt see anything wrong with a helathy debate about it , as for knowing peoples responses if i did i wouldnt have asked , only one person who has posted has actually seen what im getting at , which is worrying either people dont think or are too busy trying getting on the hobby horse about it all . | |||
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"There are numerous threads on this one the question gets asked at least once a month and its the same old question and same old answers Just scroll through the pages to find the other threads look through the swingers chat forums , iv been through them and dont see this anywhere , i odnt see anything wrong with a helathy debate about it , as for knowing peoples responses if i did i wouldnt have asked , only one person who has posted has actually seen what im getting at , which is worrying either people dont think or are too busy trying getting on the hobby horse about it all . " you are right, there is nothing wrong with any debate. Even if the subject has been done before, you may not have seen it, you may not have been posting on the forums at the time to see it, you may well want to start another. The only time a mod will steer you to another thread is if the subject is already live on another thread. If you do want to read other threads on the subject the search button should bring some up. | |||
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"Bareback is listed as an interest by reverse ie people who dont do it click on the "safe sex" option, the alternative is to have every other option listed twice IE swingers clubs no swingers clubs BDSM no BDSM Anal sex no anal sex Safe sex Bareback sex Voyeur dont like being watched phone sex no phone sex cyber sex no cyber sex dressing up no dressing up roleplay no roleplay oh it goes on and on like me " Why not just ask before judging others or deciding for yourself ![]() | |||
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"ok 4 mins to find the bareback threads cant see that as a waste of time really its well worth knowing who does and who doesnt as said above some dont click the right buttons My advice is to do as we do and take the time to go through those who are into bareback and block them so you dont run the risk of ever meeting them if you dont want to play with those who do. http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/15004 = 52 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/16546 = 96 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/11994 = replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/8477 = 16 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/7087 = 1 reply http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/6584 = 7 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/1235 = 1 reply http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/3725 = 4 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/3252 = 46 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/142 = 218 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1817 = no replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1582 = 11 replies http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/262 = 12 replies" we must look awful small from up there , same old usauall story honestly sometimes trying to get any sense out of people without turning into a major thing is beyond me . obviously you must live in your own little state or something where freedom of speech and freedom of of opnion is strictly regulated by yourselves , rest assured ill keep my mouth shut in future just to avoid situations like this one makes me sad but needs must if this is a sign of things to come . ![]() | |||
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"rest assured ill keep my mouth shut in future just to avoid situations like this one makes me sad but needs must if this is a sign of things to come . ![]() Don't do that Honey, the forums are a fabulous place, lots of very very good people here .................... Just ignore those that annoy or wind you up, post what you want when you want and enjoy the positives (there are plenty) As to the original post, I think my views are quite well posted but I will repeat lol Safe sex is a total must, can't think of a situation where passion or drink would make me change my mind.........although I do have to say that now I've got Furry and we have been through all the tests etc since we stopped playing with others and can play bareback together its really not such an issue any more lol Lucky me xxx Raz xxx | |||
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"Why are so many people on here looking for the bad in people. Someone asks a question, you try to help by directing them towards previous threads where the subject has been discussed, you search out the threads for them but some people see that as a bad thing. Most of the time, when someone asks a question previously covered in threads they get nothing but a torrent of abuse with comments like "same old same old" or "here we go again", I tried to be helpfull so the abuse came my way. Y'know what, stuff your forums and your stalinistic views that everyone is out to get you, I have better things to do with my time." wow... thats offically a "flounce"..... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why are so many people on here looking for the bad in people. Someone asks a question, you try to help by directing them towards previous threads where the subject has been discussed, you search out the threads for them but some people see that as a bad thing. Most of the time, when someone asks a question previously covered in threads they get nothing but a torrent of abuse with comments like "same old same old" or "here we go again", I tried to be helpfull so the abuse came my way. Y'know what, stuff your forums and your stalinistic views that everyone is out to get you, I have better things to do with my time." Jed I for one would be sorry if you werent to post on the Forums. I have found much of interest in your posts, not least because of your knowledge of the scene from your times at Chams. I dont always agree with you or your posts, but they are always well worth reading and the Forums would be poorer for you not contributing. | |||
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"If you got told a certain lady was happy with bareback would you assume every guy they had been with went along with it? " Of course you couldn't assume that....but am sure that it would be a fair bet that some have. | |||
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"If you got told a certain lady was happy with bareback would you assume every guy they had been with went along with it? " Yes we would, we know we might be wrong about it but our policy is "better safe than sorry" We don't play with anyone who plays bareback even using condoms ourselves because condoms can break - when we see profiles or people at clubs or someone advertising in the Events section etc for a bareback meet we not only block them but we block thier friends and thier verification people just so we don't make the mistake of meeting anyone in the chain, some would consider this excesive but as has been said many times - each to thier own ![]() | |||
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"If you got told a certain lady was happy with bareback would you assume every guy they had been with went along with it? Yes we would, we know we might be wrong about it but our policy is "better safe than sorry" We don't play with anyone who plays bareback even using condoms ourselves because condoms can break - when we see profiles or people at clubs or someone advertising in the Events section etc for a bareback meet we not only block them but we block thier friends and thier verification people just so we don't make the mistake of meeting anyone in the chain, some would consider this excesive but as has been said many times - each to thier own ![]() I don't play bareback and for some of my meets there's no penetrative sex involved at all. However how can you be certain everyone you play with is as careful as you? Although I agree with your sentiment it reminds me of a post a little while ago from a couple who said they'd never play with a black person or anyone that had! How would they know? How would you know? All we can do is try to keep ourselves safe but the very nature of swinging means we open ourselves to all sorts: literally and we could get paranoid! | |||
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"If you got told a certain lady was happy with bareback would you assume every guy they had been with went along with it? Yes we would, we know we might be wrong about it but our policy is "better safe than sorry" We don't play with anyone who plays bareback even using condoms ourselves because condoms can break - when we see profiles or people at clubs or someone advertising in the Events section etc for a bareback meet we not only block them but we block thier friends and thier verification people just so we don't make the mistake of meeting anyone in the chain, some would consider this excesive but as has been said many times - each to thier own ![]() That is not only paranoid to an ultimate level, it is also incredibly disrespectful to all those you block without ever even asking the question. Believe it or not, people are quite capable of independant thought and action, such as using condoms even if someone they are playing with doesn't always. Using the condom can break argument is ridiculous, but that risk is there regardless of their friends list or verifications. You have no way of knowing who they have been with outside of this site, so if you really want to be safe the only options are abstinence, or insisting on a current std test. Everything else is just an excuse, or illusion. | |||
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"If you got told a certain lady was happy with bareback would you assume every guy they had been with went along with it? Yes we would, we know we might be wrong about it but our policy is "better safe than sorry" We don't play with anyone who plays bareback even using condoms ourselves because condoms can break - when we see profiles or people at clubs or someone advertising in the Events section etc for a bareback meet we not only block them but we block thier friends and thier verification people just so we don't make the mistake of meeting anyone in the chain, some would consider this excesive but as has been said many times - each to thier own ![]() Sounds a bit silly, after all, blocking them will only mean they're off your radar, you wont/cant see who they are now meeting so the "better safe than sorry" goes out the window once you've blocked them. You'd be as well deleting your profile, because every profile should be taken with a pinch of salt on here, anyone can tick a box or tell you want you want to hear. | |||
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"many people dont show their faces in case people see them on a sex site... so may shy away from sex clinics... and I repeat MAY ....." C,mon view, even you should know that all you have to do is tick the safe sex box and you become invincible and clean ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"many people dont show their faces in case people see them on a sex site... so may shy away from sex clinics... and I repeat MAY ..... C,mon view, even you should know that all you have to do is tick the safe sex box and you become invincible and clean ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"bang on ..it seems the more times this subject is raised the better ,as people still keep saying they only do "safe sex" .wearing a condom does not mean your "safe" ...just safer than without . the statistics are on another thread called bareback from about 6 or 7 months ago pd" hijacking the thread to say hi to my mate and to tell him he aint seen my tatt. yep pussy got a tatt. crisis time | |||
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"bang on ..it seems the more times this subject is raised the better ,as people still keep saying they only do "safe sex" .wearing a condom does not mean your "safe" ...just safer than without . the statistics are on another thread called bareback from about 6 or 7 months ago pd hijacking the thread to say hi to my mate and to tell him he aint seen my tatt. yep pussy got a tatt. crisis time" i can only imagine what it is lol will pm you x | |||
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"many people dont show their faces in case people see them on a sex site... so may shy away from sex clinics... and I repeat MAY ....." Chameleons often get the sex clinic to visit the club so that people can get checked in what is to them a comfortable and discreet establishment. Now I know that not everyone can get there but if the clinic do it for Chameleons, surely they will do it for all clubs, perhaps those who frequent other clubs could have a word with the management | |||
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"many people dont show their faces in case people see them on a sex site... so may shy away from sex clinics... and I repeat MAY ..... Chameleons often get the sex clinic to visit the club so that people can get checked in what is to them a comfortable and discreet establishment. Now I know that not everyone can get there but if the clinic do it for Chameleons, surely they will do it for all clubs, perhaps those who frequent other clubs could have a word with the management" thats a great service .. well done to Chams and the local authority. | |||
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"there are some cocky fu@#ers on this site !! ![]() Why you say this??? everyone has a right to there own opinion on this topic ther eis no right and wrong whe t comes to bareback Who was you refering to ?? | |||
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