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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has "

Personal preference perhaps?

A bit like you setting your ages from 48-99 really!

Why worry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see similar questions asked by guys of my age (just substitite the 50 with a 40)

The short answer is 'because they can'

If their preference is for men younger than you or I, then let 'em get on with it.

I don't believe they are missing out and neither do I believe that I am.

We are simply not compatible - either on one of our behalves or both.

As I have said in another thread today, work with what you have got and not what you haven't and you won't go far wrong.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

My dad is 55.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Exactly what Obi and Bussy said

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Oops.posted too quick... It has nothing to do with being overweight or the actual number. I just am generally attracted to young looking guys. My previous 2 boyfriends have been 9 years younger than me. Obviously there's a few exceptions to the rule but generally 35 is my cut off x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"My dad is 55. "

Same here *Shudders*.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We're not all overweight"

I didn't realise there was an assumption that at 50 you suddenly plump up a little.

Is that a man thing ?

If it is I am an early starter :D

There are certainly more than a few 50+ ladies on here who are in excellent shape (and plenty of sub 50s that aren't) and I dare say the same goes for fellas too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops.posted too quick... It has nothing to do with being overweight or the actual number. I just am generally attracted to young looking guys. My previous 2 boyfriends have been 9 years younger than me. Obviously there's a few exceptions to the rule but generally 35 is my cut off x"

Phew!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is quite usual for members to have their own preferred age group. For example I would feel awkward playing with ladies young enough to be my daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 46 in July and lots off people have a cut off point at 45, so it looks like I'm buggered! Still I've had a fab time so far so and I'm not complaining !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has "

Nice pics. People have preferences and likes and dislikes. Would you meet a 99 year old or an 18 year old? Got to set the number somewhere I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has "

suppose its the same as the older fella has age ranges up to 50 cos they want younger fems lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have a preference for guys younger than me have been like this since I was 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many couples cut off at 40 and it makes us feel old and over the hill

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm 47 and I'm shagging a 21-year-old bird (God bless the Welsh) who at 17 was engaged to a 40-yr-old

Different strokes for different folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cut off is 60 but they do have to look young for their age as I have been with some who just weren't all that anything else though is sort of irrelevant as I don't mind guys with a bit of padding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our own preferences and they vary accordingly. The bigger worry is when all your preferences lead to no meets.

Is there a club for that! Might just start one as I'm sure there will be many applicants. All members must be confirmed as too old or have used up all their preferences. Any takers?.....

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I'm 46 in July and lots off people have a cut off point at 45, so it looks like I'm buggered! Still I've had a fab time so far so and I'm not complaining ! "

I'm 46, 47 this year and I do think it might affect the amount of messages we get as people always seem surprised when I say we hardly get any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 46 in July and lots off people have a cut off point at 45, so it looks like I'm buggered! Still I've had a fab time so far so and I'm not complaining !

I'm 46, 47 this year and I do think it might affect the amount of messages we get as people always seem surprised when I say we hardly get any."
im suprised . I'm 37 don't get hardly any messages on here . But such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we are in better shape than many younger people. Give us a chance!

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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I'm 46 in July and lots off people have a cut off point at 45, so it looks like I'm buggered! Still I've had a fab time so far so and I'm not complaining !

I'm 46, 47 this year and I do think it might affect the amount of messages we get as people always seem surprised when I say we hardly get any.im suprised . I'm 37 don't get hardly any messages on here . But such is life "

Well I don't feel so bad now..hang on does that mean I was over the hill 10 years ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 46 in July and lots off people have a cut off point at 45, so it looks like I'm buggered! Still I've had a fab time so far so and I'm not complaining !

I'm 46, 47 this year and I do think it might affect the amount of messages we get as people always seem surprised when I say we hardly get any.im suprised . I'm 37 don't get hardly any messages on here . But such is life

Well I don't feel so bad now..hang on does that mean I was over the hill 10 years ago?"
haha no way I'm havin most fun at min than Iv had in years

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I'm 46 in July and lots off people have a cut off point at 45, so it looks like I'm buggered! Still I've had a fab time so far so and I'm not complaining !

I'm 46, 47 this year and I do think it might affect the amount of messages we get as people always seem surprised when I say we hardly get any.im suprised . I'm 37 don't get hardly any messages on here . But such is life

Well I don't feel so bad now..hang on does that mean I was over the hill 10 years ago?haha no way I'm havin most fun at min than Iv had in years "

Ahh but you're a mere youngster...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 46 in July and lots off people have a cut off point at 45, so it looks like I'm buggered! Still I've had a fab time so far so and I'm not complaining !

I'm 46, 47 this year and I do think it might affect the amount of messages we get as people always seem surprised when I say we hardly get any.im suprised . I'm 37 don't get hardly any messages on here . But such is life

Well I don't feel so bad now..hang on does that mean I was over the hill 10 years ago?haha no way I'm havin most fun at min than Iv had in years

Ahh but you're a mere youngster..."
age is just a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And how many people once they reach a certain age , 'massage' their age on their profiles ?.....Ive been doing it for years !

Dave Birchanger ....age 76 and a half !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op how can u questions others age preferences when u have age preferences of ur own?

Just cos someone puts 50 doesn't mean they haven't already stretched that age limit and haven't ever met anyone older than 45.. But have already made an allowance in the age range and therefore made a cut off!

If u say ur only 51 then why not if they state 50, but then that's why not 52 or 53 or 54 and so on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has "

I don't, I stop mine at 45

simply because I'm not attracted to older guys, I don't like looking at my own wrinkles i'm sure as shit not looking at other peoples while i'm shagging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well there were some good replies there, its just a question I thought id ask, thanks guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?"

I feel your pain mate, got the t shirt. Thing is us young uns would give the 50 year old a run for there money lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is one of those strange things. Whilst attraction is a basic need, and that declines with age, physical pleasure comes from what we do to one another and surely that is what we are there for?

In this respect a 26 year old with 7 years experience with 20 partners is unlikely to match the skill and experience of a 56 year old with 200 experiences. Although the 26 year old could probably cum a hell of a lot faster lot faster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?"

Yes you are old enough but at 30 yrs younger than me, that is a definite no way not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

I feel your pain mate, got the t shirt. Thing is us young uns would give the 50 year old a run for there money lol "

Youth doesn't imply that you are better than someone older, there are equally some older ones that could give you the run for your money. And there are good and bad in all ages, it for me is purely age

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why do people focus their energies on those not interested in them, instead of those that are?!! What is it with this sense of entitlement?

I'm 52 and my lower age limit is 45. If I wanted to be inundated with meets all I need do is remove my age filters, meet bi, married men and those that don't accommodate.

I can be discerning at my age and size because I'm here for my hedonistic pleasure with playmates of my choosing and I respect other members right to do the same, without the need to start petulant threads because I'm excluded in some way!

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"My cut off is 60 but they do have to look young for their age as I have been with some who just weren't all that anything else though is sort of irrelevant as I don't mind guys with a bit of padding "

See you just have to go with peoples preferences as just tried to wink this lovely lady & no cpls!

No histrionics just move on x

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By *uss4321Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't have a limit i find an age difference a turn on.

You've gotta love a sexy dilf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I slot right in the middle at 41 this year. My age range is 18 to 99, lol I like to keep an open mind.

I must admit to feeling a little disheartened when blocked from messaging other users who's cut off is 39... It seems a little odd, but I respect that they have their reasons....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I like to think I slot right in the middle at 41 this year. My age range is 18 to 99, lol I like to keep an open mind.

I must admit to feeling a little disheartened when blocked from messaging other users who's cut off is 39... It seems a little odd, but I respect that they have their reasons...."

Why do you think other peoples preferences odd if they exclude you?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Why do people focus their energies on those not interested in them, instead of those that are?!! What is it with this sense of entitlement?

I'm 52 and my lower age limit is 45. If I wanted to be inundated with meets all I need do is remove my age filters, meet bi, married men and those that don't accommodate.

I can be discerning at my age and size because I'm here for my hedonistic pleasure with playmates of my choosing and I respect other members right to do the same, without the need to start petulant threads because I'm excluded in some way! "

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By *dward and WallisCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

Whilst we appreciate that an age preference is a matter for each individual it does not begin or stop at a specified age. Looking at couples,who enhance their profile with pics, over the age of 55 there are over 300 in our area alone so there must be well over 1000 on this site.

We are and hopefully for many years to come swingers We treat every message we receive on its merits and without this addition to our lifestyle we would not have met so many different people some of which are now very good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just turned 61 three weeks ago n until then no shortage of meets but I am aware that these 'older ' bodies DON'T have the charm n appeal of say a 40 year old

It's something u can live with cos us oldies can say we've BEEN 20/30/40/50 n as long as we made the most of it at the time that's all u can do. Time moves on n we all age - it's no big deal. Not many 30 year olds want an old body clambering all over them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think I slot right in the middle at 41 this year. My age range is 18 to 99, lol I like to keep an open mind.

I must admit to feeling a little disheartened when blocked from messaging other users who's cut off is 39... It seems a little odd, but I respect that they have their reasons....

Why do you think other peoples preferences odd if they exclude you? "

It's not about me being excluded,... More like I think it's odd to have a cut off age as something like 39..... I mean,.. would they notice a difference if they were 41..??

But don't mistake my thinking it's odd for not respecting a persons preferences...

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Every time I read a thread about age I seem to adjust my age perimeters, I guess age isn't really that important to me, not on its own anyway though it would probably be taken into concideration along with everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think I slot right in the middle at 41 this year. My age range is 18 to 99, lol I like to keep an open mind.

I must admit to feeling a little disheartened when blocked from messaging other users who's cut off is 39... It seems a little odd, but I respect that they have their reasons....

Why do you think other peoples preferences odd if they exclude you?

It's not about me being excluded,... More like I think it's odd to have a cut off age as something like 39..... I mean,.. would they notice a difference if they were 41..??

But don't mistake my thinking it's odd for not respecting a persons preferences... "

That seems to be our issue at the minute..the 39 age cut-off point filter.

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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

Yes you are old enough but at 30 yrs younger than me, that is a definite no way not interested"

May I ask why not please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

Yes you are old enough but at 30 yrs younger than me, that is a definite no way not interested

May I ask why not please?"

As I said there is a 30 yr age gap, find the thought gross, just not for me

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We dont lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 45 my age limit is 35 to 65 I've even left message filters off but I keep getting 20 odd year olds messaging me grrr xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has "

I like older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than seeing 25 to 50 .. Im 51 and think shit 1 year out .I blame my parents x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has

I like older men "
Im older

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The years you've been on the planet is of little consequence (mostly) to me.

What sort of person you are, is.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

why do people always make the complaints about the things that exclude them....

thread after thread after thread

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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"why do people always make the complaints about the things that exclude them....

thread after thread after thread "

Because they want to know why someone wants to exclude them.

"Why?" will always be the oldest question in the book

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"why do people always make the complaints about the things that exclude them....

thread after thread after thread

Because they want to know why someone wants to exclude them.

"Why?" will always be the oldest question in the book"

They aren't owed an explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

Yes you are old enough but at 30 yrs younger than me, that is a definite no way not interested

May I ask why not please?"

i am actually very much attracted to young guys, however i wouldn't meet a guy your age even if i fancied the pants off him as i find them intimidating, its all about staying within your comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always found guys around my own age easier to get along with and more attractive thats why i have an age range.

A year or so either way i would relax it but its just preference

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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

Yes you are old enough but at 30 yrs younger than me, that is a definite no way not interested

May I ask why not please?

i am actually very much attracted to young guys, however i wouldn't meet a guy your age even if i fancied the pants off him as i find them intimidating, its all about staying within your comfort zone "

One of my favourite things about older women is that they are more comfortable in their own skin and they know how to get what they want.

So how can you be intimidated by little old me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the majority of you girls stop your age-range at 50?

Theres guys like me out there that find sex gets even better the mature you become.

We,,re not all overweight,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has "

cos they dont want some ald knacker

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"I see similar questions asked by guys of my age (just substitite the 50 with a 40)

The short answer is 'because they can'

If their preference is for men younger than you or I, then let 'em get on with it.

I don't believe they are missing out and neither do I believe that I am.

We are simply not compatible - either on one of our behalves or both.

As I have said in another thread today, work with what you have got and not what you haven't and you won't go far wrong.

"

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

The thing I find about the age diff,is why put your age range 18 to 99 when someone my age sents a message your range is suddenly 18 to 40 why and before you say its because Im to old wrong I have met ladies from 18 to 72 and we all have had great fun and still see some

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"why do people always make the complaints about the things that exclude them....

thread after thread after thread "
After thread

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs


". . We're not all . . . . . ,ok the hair might be gone, but nothing else has "

- And there-in lies the problem !!

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people always make the complaints about the things that exclude them....

thread after thread after thread

Because they want to know why someone wants to exclude them.

"Why?" will always be the oldest question in the book"

People just need to accept the fact that its all about attraction; what's attractive to you isn't to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Simply because they can.....

People are entitled to have preferences, concentrate on those who's criteria you do meet. No one is going to appeal to everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

Yes you are old enough but at 30 yrs younger than me, that is a definite no way not interested

May I ask why not please?

i am actually very much attracted to young guys, however i wouldn't meet a guy your age even if i fancied the pants off him as i find them intimidating, its all about staying within your comfort zone

One of my favourite things about older women is that they are more comfortable in their own skin and they know how to get what they want.

So how can you be intimidated by little old me? "

I don't feel intimidated by you

I feel intimidated by getting my flabby old body out next to a toned young guy

When I have sex I want to feel relaxed and comfortable with who i'm with so I can enjoy myself and let myself really go

I think lots of young guys have this older women fantasy of some MILF like Pamela Anderson and would be really disappointed when me and my stretch marks rock up on a meet

like I said its about staying within your own comfort zone, so I tend to just admire young guys from a distance and stick to meet guys more my own age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older guys.. but again, it's a preference thing and on my profile it say 55...

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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I actually have the exact opposite problem...most women say I'm too young because I'm 22.

Surely if you're over 18 then you're old enough right?

Yes you are old enough but at 30 yrs younger than me, that is a definite no way not interested

May I ask why not please?

i am actually very much attracted to young guys, however i wouldn't meet a guy your age even if i fancied the pants off him as i find them intimidating, its all about staying within your comfort zone

One of my favourite things about older women is that they are more comfortable in their own skin and they know how to get what they want.

So how can you be intimidated by little old me?

I don't feel intimidated by you

I feel intimidated by getting my flabby old body out next to a toned young guy

When I have sex I want to feel relaxed and comfortable with who i'm with so I can enjoy myself and let myself really go

I think lots of young guys have this older women fantasy of some MILF like Pamela Anderson and would be really disappointed when me and my stretch marks rock up on a meet

like I said its about staying within your own comfort zone, so I tend to just admire young guys from a distance and stick to meet guys more my own age "

I think I speak for us young guys on here when I say; we're not that stupid!

If we find you, and we go through your profile and we choose you then it means we want YOU silly

As long as your photos aren't cut out from a magazine then we have a pretty good idea of what to expect.

There's actually no chance of the guy being "disappointed"...I don't even know how this idea got into women's heads in the first place...I don't know what else to say except...grow a pair lol

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