FabSwingers.com forum: as a bull,what is your role?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

sits and takes good note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have gone round to a couples place,told the hubby to watch as i fucked his mrs for a hour all the while knowing he's watching me pleasure her and the only thing he got was to lick her pussy out after i pulled my cock out for the last time.

good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets? "

It's about cuckolding where they will help you humiliate your other half... if that's your thing

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets? "

isnt the male bull linked to the cuckold side of things

i wouldnt expect anything but would listen to what the wife wants from the situation after all its her choice

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

People are mentioning cucking a lot here. Being a Bull does not mean cuck scenarios - it is essentially about how you carry yourself personally or perform.

Bull performance between the sheets doesnt mean youre stepping into a mf relationship at all.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"People are mentioning cucking a lot here. Being a Bull does not mean cuck scenarios - it is essentially about how you carry yourself personally or perform.

Bull performance between the sheets doesnt mean youre stepping into a mf relationship at all."

but it can be linked with cuckolding surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bull is the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with,if you want to claim thats bull shit then fine but i know what the crack is and will stick to my guns here.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

bulls are unlucky if they meet a farmer with two bricks

Wolf

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"People are mentioning cucking a lot here. Being a Bull does not mean cuck scenarios - it is essentially about how you carry yourself personally or perform.

Bull performance between the sheets doesnt mean youre stepping into a mf relationship at all.

but it can be linked with cuckolding surely"

It can be linked to BDSM too.. ?

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

It can be linked to BDSM too.. ? "

How?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It can be linked to BDSM too.. ?

How?"

you regularly hear it used as a fertility marker

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Sorry, What are you on about?

Fertility Marker and BDSM?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Sorry, What are you on about?

Fertility Marker and BDSM?

if you look at my reply where I mention BDSM, you'll see a question mark at the end. I was pointing to the person I quoted, that a bull its not solely seen in cuck relationships, as is my first reply. It is not an exclamation and I was not making the argument that this is exclusively seen BDSM.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Sorry, What are you on about?

Fertility Marker and BDSM?

You know what fertility is yes? So what its there to guess around what I've said?

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

Although it has got a little bit derailed, I thought the OP's question was a good one actually and it would be interesting to see responces either from guys whom purport themselves to be bulls or from couples/single ladies whom have experience of a bull male as in what they expect from such a meeting.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

"Sorry, What are you on about?

Fertility Marker and BDSM?

You know what fertility is yes? So what its there to guess around what I've said?"

I'm just guessing the question mark in your original post and subsequent evasiveness means your talking complete twaddle.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

"Sorry, What are you on about?

Fertility Marker and BDSM?

You know what fertility is yes? So what its there to guess around what I've said?"

I'm just guessing the question mark in your original post and subsequent evasiveness means your talking complete twaddle.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I'm talking, in a discussion.. That's about it. Your contribution is......... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets? "

back on track the bull or lucky bastard as i like to call him gets to fuck some fellas wife and they usually are inferior to the bull/lucky bastard and are meant to feel worthless especially when the bull is a superior in shape and strenght height age etc.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Single women are not out of needing/fancying/looking for a 'bull' though... its not all about couples and cucking I don't think. Its about the guy himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever heard it in connection with cuckolding situations as I'm not into the s&m thing I wouldn't know.

Couldn't find any mention of it in the glossaries of bdsm though

Whilst definitions 3 and 4 in the urban dictionary seem to support the cuckolding explanations.

Maybe the guys that describe themselves as not cuckolding bulls think they're the Lamborghini of Lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might be considered a bull but I am part of a couple. How can that work?

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

"I'm talking, in a discussion.. That's about it. Your contribution is......... ?

Pointing out your "contribution" was irrelevant twaddle so othres are not mislead by your ignorance. Since your also still avoiding admitting your original comment was wrong, and in order to not derail the thread further, I will leave it at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me as in Jane think sum off these "bulls" need to check there masculinity with all this wanting the cuck so too speak to clean them up after, but they say there straight don't get it sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cuck doesn't always touch the bulls cock so nothing bisexual happens and neither does there have to be degradation it all depends on how far you go with the lifestyle but usually the bull fucks the guys wife and cums in her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm std nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

My take on it is:

A Bull is basically a Dominante man who to one degree or another shares a sexual experience with a hot wife in a cuckold situation.

Their role would be as discussed and agreed with the hot wife and I would think her cuck.

'Sometimes' this will involve humiliation of the cuck. Often times it will not.

It will vary what is required or desired depending on all three people involved.

Maybe their relationship is such where she Dominates him and therefore his thrill is in seeing her Dominated.

Maybe he likes to share his trophy wife.

Maybe he gets off on being made to feel inferior.

Maybe he likes to see his wife being fucked senseless.

I have only ever heard the term 'Bull' in this context when it involves cuckold relationships.

All that...... Was an educated guess lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Bull is basically a Dominant man who to one degree or another shares a sexual experience with a hot wife in a cuckold situation.

Kind of what I figured except the Hot Wife is the dominant in the cuck game... Not sure I totally understand it but there does seem to be as many varieties of Cuck relationship as there are any other branch of swinging, but as far as I can see the wife is the one in control and decides what the rules are.

Not a Bull, not in a cuck relationship, and strongly thinking the commonality of the term Bull is kind of down to being failed Mr Grey's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take off a bull is a guy who thinks he's over six foot tall , married in a crap marriage n wants too bully a guy because he couldn't do it in real life , before we get the wholly than I brigade its my opinion n freedom of speech is what I believe in

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"My take on it is:

A Bull is basically a Dominante man who to one degree or another shares a sexual experience with a hot wife in a cuckold situation.

Their role would be as discussed and agreed with the hot wife and I would think her cuck.

'Sometimes' this will involve humiliation of the cuck. Often times it will not.

It will vary what is required or desired depending on all three people involved.

Maybe their relationship is such where she Dominates him and therefore his thrill is in seeing her Dominated.

Maybe he likes to share his trophy wife.

Maybe he gets off on being made to feel inferior.

Maybe he likes to see his wife being fucked senseless.

I have only ever heard the term 'Bull' in this context when it involves cuckold relationships.

All that...... Was an educated guess lol."

I am so glad i read this post before i wrote anything !

It sums up what i think about the definition of 'Bull' totally.

It very much depends on what the agreed dynamics are, some cucks enjoy humiliation some dont... each to their own !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N maybe just a good threesum

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"N maybe just a good threesum "

You cant beat a good threesome... (unless its a good foursome or fivesome )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the terminology around it all is a bit silly... Why out labels on it, we don't all fit in boxes.

This that describe themselves as bull in my experience are on ego trip.... & dare I say it... Full of 'bull'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops, typos. Apologies grammar nazis. iPhone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true , men with problems with life

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

People label everthing when it come s to swinging though, and as this thread proves, we dont all use the same label for the same thing.

Communication, and discussion have to be better than relying on labels.

It has been said I am full of Bull (BS) so feel free to disagree with what i say !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont like pain but will give it mmm Wana do it accept it too, you cart accom so married I presume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Think the terminology around it all is a bit silly... Why out labels on it, we don't all fit in boxes.

This that describe themselves as bull in my experience are on ego trip.... & dare I say it... Full of 'bull'"

would agree that with some who describe themselves as such then yes with quite a few the closest they will ever get to being a 'bull' is the adding of shit to the end of it..

not all of course..

bit like the 50 shades tripe and the references to 'mr grey'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God so true on the fifty shades thing lol, suits n ya can see there at a wedding picture lmao n the, moody picture please or the toilet pic

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I'm talking, in a discussion.. That's about it. Your contribution is......... ?

Thanks for clearing that up. Hate to correct, buy on a thread about opinions, twaddle or just concepts beyond your reach does not make me wrong.

Reading between the lines you like bdsm and are a bit fetishistic about who dares to utter annoying about it.

But sad that you missed my point entirely on your quest for truth lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Anything about it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from reading this..basicaly a guy can just put..im a bull on there profile...whatever next

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets? "

it is an interesting question... because I am guessing more people who have "bull" on their profile haven't got a clue... but put it on there because it sounds good...

i think the key is to make sure you know the couple you are playing with and that dynamic, and that means talking to both!! so you get an idea on the turn ons and how they want to play...

to be honest it is really no different a plan as playing with any people, just the execution being different....

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By *ixen and RudolphCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

It can be linked to BDSM too.. ?

How?

you regularly hear it used as a fertility marker "

Not sure what you are saying, BDSM is used as a fertility marker !!!!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It can be linked to BDSM too.. ?

How?

you regularly hear it used as a fertility marker

Not sure what you are saying, BDSM is used as a fertility marker !!!!!

nope - not at all. As the thread was turning to a cuck stance, I suggested that I thought it was the guy and how he presents himself (but thats just my thought). When this was questioned I said I have also seen it across male bdsm profiles (spreading the debate of what a bull is)

To ans your q... From what I gather speaking to sub women the bull ((dom)) is showing that he would stand by the birth of a child should it happen.. Though someone threw my comments out of proportion.. for reasons as yet unknown other than for sake of sparking argument it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets? "

Bulls fuck heifers! Seen them in the fields do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my opinion and experience of the messages that we receive, its an ego thing. does nothing for us as we feel itll bring a pornstar attitude "tell your husband how big i am and also im the best fuck youve had" blah blah blah lol

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By *ixen and RudolphCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets? "

I really don't think there is one definitive answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets? "

Simply, a "bull" is expected to "seed" the girl , either in a 121 or MFM meet, giving her intense pleasure, with deep penetration. So, no condoms are used. Neither is withdrawal prior to cuming employed. The function of the "bull" is to donate his spunk, for whatever reason, deep inside the girl. The scenarios are varied, the reasons are varied ... but the outcome (pardon the pun) is the same. I've been a "bull" for several years, and thoroughly enjoyed the role. And all my meets have been very good, and have formed lasting friendships. I'd say that having a "bull" in a regular man/woman relationship is the most intimate 3some relationship that a couple can enjoy, based on my experiences.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"You see a lot of men profiles who call themselves bulls.

What is involved in the job?

What do you expect/do on meets?

Thanks... that's what I was pointing to. Nice to have someone on that will actually say what they do/what is expected (of sorts)

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

"My take on it is:

A Bull is basically a Dominante man who to one degree or another shares a sexual experience with a hot wife in a cuckold situation.

Their role would be as discussed and agreed with the hot wife and I would think her cuck.

'Sometimes' this will involve humiliation of the cuck. Often times it will not.

It will vary what is required or desired depending on all three people involved.

Maybe their relationship is such where she Dominates him and therefore his thrill is in seeing her Dominated.

Maybe he likes to share his trophy wife.

Maybe he gets off on being made to feel inferior.

Maybe he likes to see his wife being fucked senseless.

I have only ever heard the term 'Bull' in this context when it involves cuckold relationships.

All that...... Was an educated guess lol."

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By *incs.cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes

We would much rather meet a confident guy that can take control, who knows what he wants and knows how to deliver who calls himself a bull. Than a shy guy who as they say "wants us to show him the ropes

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