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By *uicyfruit3 OP   Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

Woo-hoo!

I'm so glad that FabSwingers are starting to take action about new members canvassing for verifications.

It's happened to me a few times now where I chat to someone on MSN for about 2 minutes (without cam) and they ask me to verify them (obviously I haven't)

I have to say I'm always very suspicious of new members who have been on the site for about 2 days and have managed to rack up verifications. Hopefully this will help to put an end to that!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


" ..........

I have to say I'm always very suspicious of new members who have been on the site for about 2 days and have managed to rack up verifications. Hopefully this will help to put an end to that!

"

It's not always that straightforward. Not everyone arrives here as an absolute swinging virgin. Some are recommended by existing members who they may have known/ played with for years. Surely an immediate verification, assuming it's genuine, is OK in that circumstance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ..........

I have to say I'm always very suspicious of new members who have been on the site for about 2 days and have managed to rack up verifications. Hopefully this will help to put an end to that!

It's not always that straightforward. Not everyone arrives here as an absolute swinging virgin. Some are recommended by existing members who they may have known/ played with for years. Surely an immediate verification, assuming it's genuine, is OK in that circumstance."

Quite right. I've verified platmates from other sites who are new members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mind u i do get confused when a member has been on for a week and got 40 veris and one of em is from me duh until i realised it was a name change silly me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woo-hoo!

I'm so glad that FabSwingers are starting to take action about new members canvassing for verifications.

It's happened to me a few times now where I chat to someone on MSN for about 2 minutes (without cam) and they ask me to verify them (obviously I haven't)

I have to say I'm always very suspicious of new members who have been on the site for about 2 days and have managed to rack up verifications. Hopefully this will help to put an end to that!

"

Ive verified a couple on here,they had only joined an hr when i verified them,but we have known them a long time and off another site too.

We wouldnt verify anyone genuine that were not, and we have never verified anyone just chatting on MSN.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


" ..........

I have to say I'm always very suspicious of new members who have been on the site for about 2 days and have managed to rack up verifications. Hopefully this will help to put an end to that!

It's not always that straightforward. Not everyone arrives here as an absolute swinging virgin. Some are recommended by existing members who they may have known/ played with for years. Surely an immediate verification, assuming it's genuine, is OK in that circumstance."

they should surely get the friends who told them about this site to verify them

I have done the same

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had verifications when i joined and i have verified other newbies. Why??? Cause ive known them from previous places.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I had verifications when i joined and i have verified other newbies. Why??? Cause ive known them from previous places. "

Tart

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

we were told about this site by a couple we never met/camd with,yes they verified us as did others because we ansewered all questions and other people knew the couples we had met,even on cam you need chemistry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I had verifications when i joined and i have verified other newbies. Why??? Cause ive known them from previous places.

Tart "

But in my defense have i ever said i wasnt

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I had verifications when i joined and i have verified other newbies. Why??? Cause ive known them from previous places.

Tart

But in my defense have i ever said i wasnt "

No need to get defensive!

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By *uicyfruit3 OP   Man
over a year ago

portsmouth


"I had verifications when i joined and i have verified other newbies. Why??? Cause ive known them from previous places. "

Thanks for the replies everyone. Maybe I shouldn't be so cynical Is it too late for a New Year's Resolution?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well it still new year for a while yet

Can't remember what mine were now

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

just a thought tho

if you get a request to verify a cpl on cam after they just joined the site

and you do it and say exactly that, they are a cpl and look like their photo's , there is no deception involved

Quite the contrary in fact

I am always reluctant to meet peole with hidden verifications

I dislike people with something to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We hide ours because its no-one elses business but ours who we meet

No deception involved just privacy

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Oh and I totally respect you for making that choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us a hidden verification is no verification at all.

Cam and phone are in our opinion a waste of time, yes it can prove a female is there but it doesn't prove they actually get off thier pc's and meet people, it doesnt mean they are not pushy, embarrassing, smelly, unable to hold a conversation etc

That said all 60 of our verifications are fake

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

we have one verification,and to us thats all we need,we dont come on here for verification,we come here to meet people,have fun and ost importantly sex,i dont need someone else to say yes we had sex with them,theyr real,

i was there,thats all the verification i need,

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

a verification proves to others that you were there tho xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a verification proves to others that you were there tho xxxx "

Yes it does,but people are well within their rights to hide their verifications,does not mean they are hiding something, just means like has been said it is no one elses business who they have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have verified many people whom i know personally who have jumped over from other sites, and they are all genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you see it all the time in chat rooms, women on cam offering to show their tits for a verfication lol

wouldnt class them as fake tho so long as they are only cam verified

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

lol,true,we show all and never expect or ask for verification,asking is wrong,if people want to then fine,we dont mind either way,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woo-hoo!

I'm so glad that FabSwingers are starting to take action about new members canvassing for verifications.

It's happened to me a few times now where I chat to someone on MSN for about 2 minutes (without cam) and they ask me to verify them (obviously I haven't)

I have to say I'm always very suspicious of new members who have been on the site for about 2 days and have managed to rack up verifications. Hopefully this will help to put an end to that!

"

hmm there are new and new , for example i left cameback again and my veri is from someone iv known for a hwile and played with so to to others who might not have known i was here it could look dodgy

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple
over a year ago

poole

We choose not to show our verifications, this is a personal choice. We don't wish to broadcast everyone we've played with, nothing to hide, we're just very discreet.

Does everyone think the same about people who choose not to show their friends list, or is it just verifications??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people join the site who are not new to swinging, when i joined i got about 5 met in person verfications with a week and id met none of them that week lol they was all from couples i knew from going to clubs or had met from other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you've had a cam to cam with someone, can you ask them to verify you or is verifcation just after meets?

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By *uicyfruit3 OP   Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you've had a cam to cam with someone, can you ask them to verify you or is verifcation just after meets?"

no you can do cam verification or phone as well, personally unless your female or a couple i cant see the point in it, to me all cam verfications are useful for are to say yes this is a woman or yes there really is a woman in this couple lol going on cam dont make you a genuine swinger tho does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We respect everyones right to choice but we don't hide ours. We chose to meet with some of the folk that have verified us and others we simply met socially.

In each instance we are pleased to have met them and as we are not in the least bit embarrassed about that fact we are happy to display their verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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no you can do cam verification or phone as well, personally unless your female or a couple i cant see the point in it, to me all cam verfications are useful for are to say yes this is a woman or yes there really is a woman in this couple lol going on cam dont make you a genuine swinger tho does it?"

but it does verify that the person isnt a fake, pic accurate etc, doesnt it. i think i'd want verification before the meet so i know its genuine. But i think a phonecall too would solidify it too maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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no you can do cam verification or phone as well, personally unless your female or a couple i cant see the point in it, to me all cam verfications are useful for are to say yes this is a woman or yes there really is a woman in this couple lol going on cam dont make you a genuine swinger tho does it?

but it does verify that the person isnt a fake, pic accurate etc, doesnt it. i think i'd want verification before the meet so i know its genuine. But i think a phonecall too would solidify it too maybe "

i suppose, tho most people do not have face pics on profiles so putting a cam on dont verify pics lol

Plus i dont do phone chat so no idea how that one works lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i suppose, tho most people do not have face pics on profiles so putting a cam on dont verify pics lol

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does that make me unique or odd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i suppose, tho most people do not have face pics on profiles so putting a cam on dont verify pics lol

does that make me unique or odd? "

ohh your just odd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of one gent who was referred to this site by a member that he met elsewhere.

Hence he got verified the moment he joined.

Therefore, it is possible for peeps to have verifications soon after they have joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i suppose, tho most people do not have face pics on profiles so putting a cam on dont verify pics lol

does that make me unique or odd?

ohh your just odd lol"

Cheers ... luffs you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We choose not to show our verifications, this is a personal choice. We don't wish to broadcast everyone we've played with, nothing to hide, we're just very discreet.

Does everyone think the same about people who choose not to show their friends list, or is it just verifications??

"

I understand where you're coming from. I only have a couple of verifications on my profile and have chosen not to show any more. As I posted on another thread you don't need hundreds of verifications to prove you're real and the ones I've shown are my "naughty" boys.

How people manage their verifications is a personal choice I think it's unfair to say however that someone has something to hide because they don't want to show they've played with all on site!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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I understand where you're coming from. I only have a couple of verifications on my profile and have chosen not to show any more. As I posted on another thread you don't need hundreds of verifications to prove you're real and the ones I've shown are my "naughty" boys.

How people manage their verifications is a personal choice I think it's unfair to say however that someone has something to hide because they don't want to show they've played with all on site!!! "

I would absolutely agree with you... but when you get people with the attitude of (which there has already been an example of in this thread) well hidden verification means no verification!, then I do understand where the pressure to show them comes from...

I took the decision to show mine reluctantly... not all the people that have verified me I have played with, some I have, some I have met in social surroundings....

I think the problem is, is that some people have forgotten what the purpose of verification is.... it is to show someone is genuine!!nothing more... nothing less

not to give a running scorecard of how many you have met.....

not to give a blow by blow of what happened.....

now if it takes someone having to read a verification from someone they don't know to prove that someone else they don't know either is genuine... how screwed and warped is that???? unless ya now going to play 6 degrees and see who had been playing with who.....

I think that says more about the people who demand to read them, then it does about people who hide them....

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"We respect everyones right to choice but we don't hide ours. We chose to meet with some of the folk that have verified us and others we simply met socially.

In each instance we are pleased to have met them and as we are not in the least bit embarrassed about that fact we are happy to display their verifications "

Spot on!! Same with us. If we meet a couple or single that we like, we will validate them and perhaps say we met socially or may leave out the social bit if we got down and dirty!

We did get asked once NOT to validate someone we met on another site. We were a little puzzled so we looked at their profile again and it read as normal. We had looked at the validations, but looked again... All of the people with validations were at least 15 years younger than they were.

When we next chatted in a pub at a social, I asked him why they didn't want a validation. He told me that although people their (our) age were a lot more fun to play with, they had an image to keep up! If we had validated them, they may not have got to play with the "pretty" people

At that time the validations on that site were automatic, that is they went on the site straight away and you had to ask for them to be removed.. Took about a week! So we validated them!!!

Strange though, they never spoke to us again.....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Gut instinct for us. We are old enough to figure out wether we want to meet someone or not. We don't need someone to tell us if they were a good shag, smell nice, can socialise.....as what one person thinks isn't the same as another.

We think the fun is finding out ourselves and up to now, we have been successful in who we have chosen to meet.

We don't have anything to hide other than we like our private life to stay private and that way we get to speak to people who make their own minds up too.

The only people who need to know we are real are the people we meet.

What other people do is entirely up to them and we don't make any assumptions of why they do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mail the verifiers and ask,done this a couple of times just to check,always had good feedback

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Woo-hoo!

I'm so glad that FabSwingers are starting to take action about new members canvassing for verifications.

It's happened to me a few times now where I chat to someone on MSN for about 2 minutes (without cam) and they ask me to verify them (obviously I haven't)

I have to say I'm always very suspicious of new members who have been on the site for about 2 days and have managed to rack up verifications. Hopefully this will help to put an end to that!

"

Back to the OP comments.

Yeah they are doing all they can to out any fakes

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