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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where do you stand on this? In the corner like the naughty slut/man whore that you are, or do you find it hard to get in the zone and lay there saying give it to me like a hot stud fuck machine as I I've been a bad girl and need my back doors smashing in by your huge love truncheon?

Does nothing for me personally, and whilst I understand its quite a turn on for some - on the odd occasions some wanton strumpet has asked me to bend her over the table, rip off her knickers and do her doggy like a wild filth beast til her arse is red raw - I've struggled not to die of hysterical laughter!!

So - turn on, like niagra falls after a months excessive rainfall, or turn off, quicker than a good wand session when you've run out of 50p's for the meter seconds after you've started?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I struggle to talk at all during sex so not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I struggle to talk at all during sex so not for me. "

Oh I can talk - I just struggle to recite the script of some 70's porn flick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things for me its a turn on if the woman likes it (and Mrs B loves it)

It is one thing women have to take the lead on though, I don't think it would be wise to call a woman a dirty bitch if she hadn't at least hinted strongly that she likes that kind of thing.

When I was a rather naïve and innocent 19 year old, I ewas seeing an older (only 23 but seemed old at the time) from work. The first time we had sex, she was sayuing things along the lines of 'I bet you think I'm a right dirty slut' and I was saying 'no, no I think you're lovely'

It sort of dawned on me over the years just what she was trying to say

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Talking dirty, name calling - turn off!

Eye contact, body talk - turn on!

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Hmmmmm this is a tricky one for me as can depend on the mood..........I'm not into a whole " dirty convo" but at the right time, for example my man knows when I'm near to cumming and he"ll sometimes say " you gonna cum for me baby? Which nearly always tips me over. Or if I'm on top being told I look a sexy bitch can go down well.............. But has to be short, to the point and genuine.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red-hot dirty talk isn’t just about the words you say it’s about your body language, your eye contact, the tone of your voice.

i myself like it at the right moment, a lady i know talked dirty to me how she would like me to fuck one of her older friends and how she wanted me to do it while we were at it which quite frankly shocked me and made me come sooooo good.

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By *o drama queenWoman
over a year ago

Abergele

love dirty talk especially if the man has an afrikaans accent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it.. but I am actually quite shy doing it.. even though I love to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youre both turned on and in the zone it can be really sexy if you say it in a post orgasmic voice ...but if youre reciting a script its fake and not natural and laughable .. x

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

never liked it til a guy I regularly met whispered something dirty as he was fucking me good and I was like wow, tell me more! loved it! Only him ever done it, not sure i'd feel with anyone else, i always think I'd laugh and not take it seriously.

I'm too shy to talk dirty and worried about saying the wrong things!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Red-hot dirty talk isn’t just about the words you say it’s about your body language, your eye contact, the tone of your voice.

this was how it was for me! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Red-hot dirty talk isn’t just about the words you say it’s about your body language, your eye contact, the tone of your voice.

this was how it was for me! "

like anything you have to know what your doing,you have to know when to seize the moment,i could scream and shout but i know at the right moment a few choice whispered words can tip a fair maiden over the edge !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to talk at all during sex so not for me.

Oh I can talk - I just struggle to recite the script of some 70's porn flick!

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge

I am pretty much silent during sex as is Mr B - it depends but in general I find talking off putting lol x

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

I agree with eye contact - its so sensual. My other half and i do talk at the right time but not a full blown conversation...mmmmm got distracted just thinking about it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can't do dirty talk.

I've got a funny bone about the size of my boobies and start doing a comedy routine instead. Whoever I'm with normally ends up pissing themselves laughing, which would be great if I were into watersports, but it does kill the atmosphere otherwise....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking dirty can be erotic I often say thinks like "my underpants are three days worn" or I take a shower once a month whether I need it or not" drives the ladies wild!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I don't like it, but the odd sentence whispered in my ear during sex is a turn on - I do like to give some back too - a lot of fellas find it spurs them on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its off putting if it sounds phoney.I went with a woman once who had the huskiest sexy voice I have ever heared,she knew her voice would have me cumming in seconds.I don't half miss her.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Love it, I wouldn't meet someone who wasn't into it. In fact I thought everyone talked dirty till I had it pointed out I had a mouth like a sewer. I definetly have sexual tourettes and a potty mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking dirty, name calling - turn off!

Eye contact, body talk - turn on!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on....but only if done well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't do it

Hate it when other people do it

I either want to laugh or cringe and (somewhat unattractively) usually manage a combination of the two, often leaving meets curious as to whether I have wind

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By *mandvinceCouple
over a year ago

London

Hmm.. I think I'm particularly sensitive to aural and vocal stimulation..

I don't think I talk dirty much, maybe just a little bit, to the level that I'm comfortable with. But I do find that I get turned on when I make moaning noises etc..

And when I'm watching porn, I usually think the vocal bit is more important than the visual bit..

I don't like being called terrible names or really dirty talk, but when told by someone I know that he's going to pound my pussy hard (and I know it's going to happen) it does stir something up in my loins so to speak..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im silent on a meet. maybe the odd moan. not because im not apprecative or the guy isnt any good - im just shy i guess, never really been vocal at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on my mood, sometimes it works for me, other times it will put me off.

I'm a bit of a screamer and am generally quite noisy during sex but I don't say much, if anything

Miss K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't work for me, you will most likely get an "oh my gosh/god" and the occasional "oh fuck" but that's a bad as it gets in dirty talk for me, even if a guy wanted me to say it, I'd struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very rarely and a little here and there to be honest I make too much noise to talk anyway xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Thank God for ball gags!

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

It makes me cringe and does nothing for me when I'm with someone - I'm definitely more of an eye contact girl

That said, I do quite like to hear it in porn?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with eye contact - its so sensual."

But you can't get eye contact when you've got a handful of her hair, pulling her head right back on to your shoulder so you can describe in the most filthy and intimate detail what you're about to do in the next hour or two

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