FabSwingers.com forum: Grrr!

By *allen Madonna OP Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's terrible! Hope your ok xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

He probably expected you to wear your avatar outfit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

I would of ripped my door off its hinges for you your HOTT xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he was just saying that as an excuse, maybe his bottle went, hope you're ok x

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

OMG! What a total tosser! Hope you are ok xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

thats not on is it .. drum him out of fabs

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge

Hugs xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

What an assole!!

Poor you hope your ok and you look gorgeous btw xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him for ur petrol money bk xx for waistin ur time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it

I would of ripped my door off its hinges for you your HOTT xxx"

A true gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is bang out ov order , what a cunt if u reading this whoever u r , u my friend are what I would call total twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats terribal tell him to shove of this site what about good manners .xxxhuggs to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's terrible........I hope you find the right guy soon. X

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

Incredibly sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame him. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them people like that ruin sites like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope his balls turn into bicycle wheels and back pedal up his ass ! Bang out of order !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

His loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame him. ...."

No that's just sinking to their level and get you a forum ban

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By *allen Madonna OP Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

aw thank you all for your best wishes. Yeah I'm ok, irritated especially as I meet once in a blue moon. Tough as old boots me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How rude...what a loser! His loss hun

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

His loss hunny and hope you've reported him. Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name n shame him honey

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

he bottled it..

gutless and also bloody rude to not even offer you a cup of tea as he knew how far you had driven..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what gives men a bad name on here! Sorry to hear this and I for one, would have been honoured that you travelled all that way to see me

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

maybe his wife was coming home earlier than expected from the bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changing his mind is OK, not opening the door to talk to you in person is just rude and fairly cowardly- you had a lucky escape really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss gorgeous.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

Hope you have reported his profile...

What an idiot.

I had a similar thing happen last Saturday, arranged to meet a guy in Liverpool, got loads of texts asking what I was wearing and where exactly where I was in pub, the guy was probably at home getting off on this, luckily had a back up plan and ended up to be a really good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with the post above you look gorgeous so his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i agree with the post above you look gorgeous so his loss"

Thank you

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Changing his mind is OK, not opening the door to talk to you in person is just rude and fairly cowardly- you had a lucky escape really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, it's his loss. It's annoying that it was a wasted journey and that he was rude to add insult to injury. There will always be those who don't understand what common decency is, but hopefully they will be outshone by those who do have some decorum and etiquette.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.

Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?

Just sayin'

Jane x

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Seeing as you have his address and mobile number, wouldn't it be funny if one night this asshole had 3 or 4 different takeaways arriving at his door that he didn't order.

Just sayin

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By *aybecoupleCouple
over a year ago

handlope

"Seeing as you have his address and mobile number, wouldn't it be funny if one night this asshole had 3 or 4 different takeaways arriving at his door that he didn't order.

Just sayin

How would that be funny? You'd just be doing the takeaway firms out of business. Not my idea of fun....

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By *allen Madonna OP Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

ooh I like that idea! Normally revenge is best served cold, but it could also be served in tin foil tins with sweet and sour sauce!!!

that's really cheered me up!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

He must be mad .i would have pulled you through the door..name and shame the pratt thats what gives guys a bad time on here .it happened to us once so wife only joins me at club meets,bis loss ps,we use jaydees for fin

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.

Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?

Just sayin'

Jane x "

Yes.

Bad manners is bad manners, regardless of gender.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Seeing as you have his address and mobile number, wouldn't it be funny if one night this asshole had 3 or 4 different takeaways arriving at his door that he didn't order.

Just sayin

Absolutely hilarious for the businesses concerned

The guy was rude and ill mannered take it put on him if you have to.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

send round an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he bottled it..

gutless and also bloody rude to not even offer you a cup of tea as he knew how far you had driven..

Was goin to say exactly the same thing, called respect . Just cause decide he didn't want to, does not mean he shouldn't treat you with respect you deserve . Cup of tea and a bit of a chit chat would have made situation all the better if he had decided to not go thought with it.

Instead he is a rude twat!

Had few similar experiences myself

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"aw thank you all for your best wishes. Yeah I'm ok, irritated especially as I meet once in a blue moon. Tough as old boots me!"

What a B*stard! If only you could shame and tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why camming is a good idea first.

But I wonder if it may have been a set up? Could he really tell you lOoked that different through the window?

Why be so rude as to say fuck off.. Why not just say sorry you weren't what I was expecting, goodnight. I think it would of been awkward if he let u in to say the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why camming is a good idea first.

But I wonder if it may have been a set up? Could he really tell you lOoked that different through the window?

Why be so rude as to say fuck off.. Why not just say sorry you weren't what I was expecting, goodnight. I think it would of been awkward if he let u in to say the same thing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a gent-not! I suspect he bottled it and didn't have the backbone to say so or his wife was home unexpectedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80 miles! Why travel so far? I'm sure you can meet more local people. If you're ever in sunny Wisbech I will open the door to you

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

This is a very sad story x hugs x

My advice , report , vent, forget revenge and planning revenge just consumes a person. Remember he could have invited you in , that would have been worse x you are safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
Dreadful behaviour sums up the vagaries of this site I am afraid. I always fear that ladies going to houses on their own will end up on the news. Personal safety is paramount. Single ladies take note!

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"This is a very sad story x hugs x

My advice , report , vent, forget revenge and planning revenge just consumes a person. Remember he could have invited you in , that would have been worse x you are safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there & got the tshirt.

In our early days we got burnt twice by guys from Dundee.

The lesson we learned is only play local & never play with anyone from Dundee ever again

I can sense the flood of protests from Dundee are already on the way

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.

Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?

Just sayin'

Jane x "

There is a similar thread running at the minute about a guy who cycled to meet and got stood up. He's getting told to improve his selection process, not getting a whole bunch of sympathy to be fair!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

Better than a shit fuck though.

I've turned away from people after doing more miles than that, though, their profile was a classy one; getting there and see them was a whole different story lol. You dont look 1/2 bad, though again.. better than a lackluster fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if he didn't like the look of you he could have invited you in, made you a drink, had a social etc.

Some of the girls on here should set him up with a few meets and get him to burn some miles to no avail, see how he likes it.

You look great, he's an ass and that's all there is to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing as you have his address and mobile number, wouldn't it be funny if one night this asshole had 3 or 4 different takeaways arriving at his door that he didn't order.

Just sayin

Only 3 or 4 should be the whole local directory for take away,s the arse!!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We cammed with a guy first .he even gave phone no. But the prick failed to show up at hotel we booked ,so we either play at club .or. friends partys,,,wife will not go to guys house unless i check it first,.have to be so careful on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry to hear this happened. Learn from it and review the way you choose meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!

Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"

how'd you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way out of order,must Of been feecking Blind,how the hell did you stay so calm,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of gender, everyone is entitled to decide that they don't want to play, once they've met in person. But he could have had the bottle to open the door, give you a cuppa, and THEN say that he didn't want to play.

What a twonk! Don't let his bad manners bring you down!

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By *allen Madonna OP Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Gosh guys, thank you all for your support. Thankfully I haven't taken it to heart, and I'll carry on regardless.

I didn't realise it would stir things up quite so much, and its been heartening and hilarious on your replies and thoughts.

I don't play often, thought I knew the guy well, see each other on web cam, done the whole bit, spoken on phone etc. Followed the rules and let others know where I was. All I can assume is that he bottled it, but still can't understand the rudeness.

Still I live for another day, still randy as fuck, but hopefully some proper quality fun tonight.

I've really appreciated your thoughts and some really kind private messages. Glad to have you guys around. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, do you look like your pics ?

Not excusing his behaviour at all (and echo many of the sentiments above), but did the guy have a point ?

We seem to have skirted over that bit.

Also, I am thinking the same as a couple of other posters that had the roles been reversed, the sympathy might not have been as forthcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bastard!

I'd of rolled out the red carpet!

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

and im only round the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly wouldn't slam the door on you.You are one hell of a sexy ladiy,I love full thighed ladies like you.If ever you are around my way,knock on my door,and you willl get the red carpet treatment from me.

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By *allen Madonna OP Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Yeah unfortunately i really do look like that in real life, no make up as such, wrinkles and absolutely no photoshop!

As others have said, and I've been on meets where in reality there's no spark, but we've enjoyed a social instead and left on good terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah unfortunately i really do look like that in real life, no make up as such, wrinkles and absolutely no photoshop!

As others have said, and I've been on meets where in reality there's no spark, but we've enjoyed a social instead and left on good terms."

You have a lovely smile and beautiful eyes- i'm fairly sure you'll be swamped with offers from blokes with a bit more backbone than Mr Muppet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.

Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?

Just sayin'

Jane x

There is a similar thread running at the minute about a guy who cycled to meet and got stood up. He's getting told to improve his selection process, not getting a whole bunch of sympathy to be fair!!

Yep!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.

Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?

Just sayin'

Jane x

There is a similar thread running at the minute about a guy who cycled to meet and got stood up. He's getting told to improve his selection process, not getting a whole bunch of sympathy to be fair!!

Yep! "

I totally agree, a guy will always get told 'that he is the common denominator and to change his selection process, and a female will always get the sympathy votes and the 'his loss' comments, go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a very sad story x hugs x

My advice , report , vent, forget revenge and planning revenge just consumes a person. Remember he could have invited you in , that would have been worse x you are safe x

Mate, seriously, she only got stood up on a meet, she wasn't meeting him a war-torn country! A little OTT don't you think?

Yeah, we've all been there and its bloody annoying, especially travelling a bit to get there and back but lets keep it in perspective!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, peeps, this OP had done her due diligence. She had cammed, spoke on the phone, got a full address etc. And still had her time wasted.

While I have every sympathy for the guy who cycled for 3 hours (and couldn't find his meet), I don't think he had done his due diligence. That's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair, peeps, this OP had done her due diligence. She had cammed, spoke on the phone, got a full address etc. And still had her time wasted.

While I have every sympathy for the guy who cycled for 3 hours (and couldn't find his meet), I don't think he had done his due diligence. That's the difference."

You beat me to it! Added to the above is that the guy told her to f*** off rather than offering her a cup of tea after a long journey and saying politely that she wasn't for him. If it had happened to a man, my response would have been exactly the same. No place for rudeness. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its why you really should rethink before you do a meet

meet half way - a place you no not his

do a social first then you wont get caught out in this again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame him. ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Name and shame him. ....

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you can't

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By *allen Madonna OP Woman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Gosh, this still rumbling on. I've forgotten about it and moved on. I only wrote at the time as I was annoyed, it was character building.

I did all the right stuff, he didn't have the back bone in the end. He has since apologised, turns out he was pissed as a fart due to nerves and he's realised that swinging is not for him. Too close since a recent break up.

So, please can we all move on and end the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy was very rude, especially if he was aware you had travelled so far.

But he can't be reported, he hasn't broken any rules, it is not compulsory to have sex with someone you arrange a meet with on here, you don't have to invite them into your home and you don't have to be polite when telling them no either. He was a rude and insensitive yes, but not everyone has

grace do they? Couldn't you tell from the way he wrote messages and spoke about people as to the type he was?

You can't name and shame either, he said no, rudely yes, but we are all allowed to say no.

As for the people who think revenge should be sought, and in particular the fast food deliveries, please be reminded this is an adult site.

Never mind OP, not a nice experience, I am sorry to hear it, I'm sure the next meet you have will be electric

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The End

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most likley bottled it and made up an excuse. Bit daft though to be so rude if you know his address though.

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