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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so my boyfriend is moaning its always single guys messaging us,but he doesnt put any effort in on here. i do all the pics and messaging, he wont even let me get more pics on here..well he says i can, but it never happens! f hes on here he looks at meesages and watches girls n couples on cam in chat rooms, and doesnt even chat in there! aDVICE PLEASE. APPART FROM BLOCKING SINGLE MALES OF COURSE XX

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

maybe take a break and discuss what you both want..

then come back with the same agenda..?

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah ty....been thinking the same...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"maybe take a break and discuss what you both want..

then come back with the same agenda..?

good luck"

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hv a single profile and play on yr own lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol cheers spangle, not allowed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you need to take a break, maybe hide your profile for a while, and agree on what you want from swinging and how you go about it. Hope you work it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately that's what you get on her. A majority of single guys and little to none single women. When and if a single woman contacts or responds it's a couple of message and then they disappear! Frustrating! Moreso when you put effort into searching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a different boy friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ditch the boyfriend "

dump him. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ditch the boyfriend "

Certainly made me laugh

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

OMG woman how many more sexy pics do you wanna put on here ? No wonder youve got a large male following!

Just tell the BF your a dirty little slut who needs a good punishing for being such a bad girl .

Else invite me round to give your pussy the punishing it needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he wants it all. Dump him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so my boyfriend is moaning its always single guys messaging us,but he doesnt put any effort in on here. i do all the pics and messaging, he wont even let me get more pics on here..well he says i can, but it never happens! f hes on here he looks at meesages and watches girls n couples on cam in chat rooms, and doesnt even chat in there! aDVICE PLEASE. APPART FROM BLOCKING SINGLE MALES OF COURSE XX "

A break may be a good idea, but maybe when you come back to it have him be the primary user of the account for a few weeks that way he has to make the effort if you're going to meet?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Not unusual for the female half to do the leg work on here.....

Do you message couples/women?

Or do you both expect to just sit and wait for others to message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not unusual for the female half to do the leg work on here.....

Do you message couples/women?

Or do you both expect to just sit and wait for others to message?

Really ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let him dictate to you

And don't sit twiddling your thumbs waiting for people to message you get out there and do it yourself!!!

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley

If you were after attracting the ladies, perhaps show photo's of you with other ladies ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we do have pics of us with other women, anyways im not ditching him, ffs weve been together for 16yrs!! and have 3 kids xx Weve decided too stay on here, but yes im gonna make hime do more of the leg work.. xx cheers all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we do have pics of us with other women, anyways im not ditching him, ffs weve been together for 16yrs!! and have 3 kids xx Weve decided too stay on here, but yes im gonna make hime do more of the leg work.. xx cheers all xx "

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