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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Bristol

A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

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By *ool and curvygirlCouple
32 weeks ago

Liverpool

We just wouldn’t go there, I could get very messy x

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By *rankie bricksMan
32 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Perhaps it depends on the guy involved and the dynamic between the two.

Happy and looking to chat about it

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Bristol

The dynamic is the guy dosent care and likes she is married and sneaking around and is letting her come to his place as and when it works for her to get secretly fucked.

The guy is leaning into the secretive taboo nature of it.

The husband has no clue his wife is getting fucked by said guy.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
32 weeks ago

Kirky

Not my circus, not my monkeys.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

It's hardly a scenario, it happens on a daily basis all over world, but if you've had an offer then enjoy being named on the divorce papers

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By *lackadderMan
32 weeks ago

Eastbourne

How fast can her partner run?....

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Bristol


"It's hardly a scenario, it happens on a daily basis all over world, but if you've had an offer then enjoy being named on the divorce papers"

It does indeed lol What would happen if said person was in a divorce paper if it blew up?..

said women doesn't even know said guys real name.. because they met on fab..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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32 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes, the guy is in the wrong because he's enabling and contributing to someone's pain. If you wouldn't want it done to you don't do it to someone else

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

32 weeks ago

East Sussex


"It's hardly a scenario, it happens on a daily basis all over world, but if you've had an offer then enjoy being named on the divorce papers

It does indeed lol What would happen if said person was in a divorce paper if it blew up?..

said women doesn't even know said guys real name.. because they met on fab..

"

I

Do they name other people in divorce papers nowadays?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
32 weeks ago

cahoots


"It's hardly a scenario, it happens on a daily basis all over world, but if you've had an offer then enjoy being named on the divorce papers

It does indeed lol What would happen if said person was in a divorce paper if it blew up?..

said women doesn't even know said guys real name.. because they met on fab..

"

"Said man's" address is known so easily identified but basically the shit hits the fan for the couple so it's their lives and children's lives (if any) that are affected directly both emotionally and financially. The man in this situation can just walk away so it shows no sense of care or morals.

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Bristol


"It's hardly a scenario, it happens on a daily basis all over world, but if you've had an offer then enjoy being named on the divorce papers

It does indeed lol What would happen if said person was in a divorce paper if it blew up?..

said women doesn't even know said guys real name.. because they met on fab..

"Said man's" address is known so easily identified but basically the shit hits the fan for the couple so it's their lives and children's lives (if any) that are affected directly both emotionally and financially. The man in this situation can just walk away so it shows no sense of care or morals."

The man can walk away becuse he isn't the one cheating.. the married women who decided to cheat is the root cause of the fallout

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Bristol


"Yes, the guy is in the wrong because he's enabling and contributing to someone's pain. If you wouldn't want it done to you don't do it to someone else"

The guy is only enabling the wife's pleasure..

It is the actions of the cheating wife that enables her husbands pain if he ever found out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

32 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Yes, the guy is in the wrong because he's enabling and contributing to someone's pain. If you wouldn't want it done to you don't do it to someone else

The guy is only enabling the wife's pleasure..

It is the actions of the cheating wife that enables her husbands pain if he ever found out. "

He truly is a saint among men.

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Bristol


"Yes, the guy is in the wrong because he's enabling and contributing to someone's pain. If you wouldn't want it done to you don't do it to someone else

The guy is only enabling the wife's pleasure..

It is the actions of the cheating wife that enables her husbands pain if he ever found out.

He truly is a saint among men. "

He is filling the gaps the husband isn't...literally.

He is making the cheating wife happy.. what if the intimacy with said guy is the one thing that brightens up her week?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

32 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Yes, the guy is in the wrong because he's enabling and contributing to someone's pain. If you wouldn't want it done to you don't do it to someone else

The guy is only enabling the wife's pleasure..

It is the actions of the cheating wife that enables her husbands pain if he ever found out.

He truly is a saint among men.

He is filling the gaps the husband isn't...literally.

He is making the cheating wife happy.. what if the intimacy with said guy is the one thing that brightens up her week? "

Well that all sounds very much like excuses and justification to me.

If said guy and said woman want to do what they're doing they in my opinion, should get on with it and keep it to themselves.

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By *triker0079Man
31 weeks ago

London

Love a good cheating wife

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By *d4funtimesMan
31 weeks ago

Cambridge


"Love a good cheating wife"

Even better, she is a naughty little troublemaker rather than good.

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By *inkybuggersCouple
31 weeks ago

leicester

Who said the said guy and the said woman said it would remain said only between them? If the said woman said anything to said husband said proverbial would hit the said fan. Or have I said it wrong? 🤔

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By *triker0079Man
31 weeks ago

London


"Love a good cheating wife

Even better, she is a naughty little troublemaker rather than good. "

Love to meet her then lol

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
31 weeks ago

North West


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

"

Not nearly as much in the wrong as the married woman imo, if it wasn’t this guys cock it’d just be another probably.

But he’s definitely playing with fire if he is also accommodating the cheating wife if hubby finds out. Won’t matter if he gets the better of hubby in a bout of angry fisticuffs either, he’ll know where you live & that knowledge is power.

If I was meeting a married woman it would be on neutral ground for these reasons.

Mr

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By *lasgowgent35Man
31 weeks ago

Glasgow

I absolutely love this scenario… as long as the hubby is on board… it’s a ‘taboo’ situation

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
31 weeks ago

North West


"I absolutely love this scenario… as long as the hubby is on board… it’s a ‘taboo’ situation "

OP says the hubby is unaware tho

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By *lasgowgent35Man
31 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I absolutely love this scenario… as long as the hubby is on board… it’s a ‘taboo’ situation

OP says the hubby is unaware tho"

I misread that part

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By *tandmanXXXMan
31 weeks ago

letterkenny

There's just something about them

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By *ustforfun8824Man
31 weeks ago

Limerick

Love if mine was

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By *evoncouple4funCouple
31 weeks ago

Exeter

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
31 weeks ago

North Oxfordshire


"Yes, the guy is in the wrong because he's enabling and contributing to someone's pain. If you wouldn't want it done to you don't do it to someone else

The guy is only enabling the wife's pleasure..

It is the actions of the cheating wife that enables her husbands pain if he ever found out.

He truly is a saint among men.

He is filling the gaps the husband isn't...literally.

He is making the cheating wife happy.. what if the intimacy with said guy is the one thing that brightens up her week? "

This sounds very like the OP trying to justify his own actions and to get public support for them, doesn’t it?

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By *lasgowgent35Man
31 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I absolutely love this scenario… as long as the hubby is on board… it’s a ‘taboo’ situation

OP says the hubby is unaware tho"

love the idea of a ‘indecent proposal’ scenario. the rough idea is I’d arrange the meet, I’d book a hotel room and arrange for us to meet at the bar. I’d have explained the outfit exactly that I’d like the woman to wear for meeting. Idea would be we meet for a few drinks, ease the nerves and have a few laughs together first. I’d love to (pretend) offer a fee for us to go to the room the the female has to do as I request. I’m not into anything weird or wonderful I’ll be clear about that lol. I just really love the idea of being in control and explore something they wouldn’t normally do. Discretion assured of course.

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

Not nearly as much in the wrong as the married woman imo, if it wasn’t this guys cock it’d just be another probably.

But he’s definitely playing with fire if he is also accommodating the cheating wife if hubby finds out. Won’t matter if he gets the better of hubby in a bout of angry fisticuffs either, he’ll know where you live & that knowledge is power.

If I was meeting a married woman it would be on neutral ground for these reasons.

Mr"

Exactly.. if it wasn't 'said guy' it would be someone else.

Hubby will never find out, it's impossible unless she literlly tells him which she won't.

and even if he did find out somehow.. said guy dosent care.

How can Hubby even be mad at said guy.. said guy just potentially saved him more years of being lied too.

The fact she's willing to risk it all just to comeover and get fucked by said guy... said guy likes this

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
31 weeks ago

Cheshire

There's only 1 person in this scenario that has the higher ground. And that's the one that'll feel the most pissed off if it gets discussed.

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By *owestoft ManMan
31 weeks ago

Lowestoft

It happens a lot in none swinging couple relationships, almost the norm lol.

The ex and I went to a few private swinger parties. One was meant to be a curious only party and the rules were, no sex at the house and any flirting had to be agreed with the females husband first. If by chance anything happened, it had to be with condoms. Sort of a strange set up but we went. Normal thing, the wives would dress to please but all covered, the men had to be naked. At the beginning of the night, a sort of committee meeting with all members there. The rules were read out to everyone highlighting the need to get permission before any flirting etc. and always use condoms. Afterwards, food and socializing etc. In the lounge, there was some porn on a large TV and others either in the kitchen or on the patio talking. The ex went to the lounge on her own and I was on the patio talking with other couples. One of the couples wives came to me and told me the club chairman and another guy were chatting the ex up in the lounge and did they ask me first. I said no but I would check it out. Went to the lounge and sure enough, one was snogging her and feeling her tits and the other had his hand in the ex's skirt. Both sporting impressively massive rock hard cocks. I walked up to them and they both very nervously stopped and tried to pretend nothing was happening lol. I just said to them, they were getting noticed. and then walked away. That wife came back to me and asked if I saw anything to which I told her they stopped when I went in. She said she saw that and when I left, the 3 of them left and went to a bedroom and closed the door and would I like to peep on them. I said yes and she took me round the back and we could see what was going on through the window. By then they had her naked and spit roasting her BB. Result was she was leaning against the window sill while I fucked her from behind.

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By *pforfun06Man
31 weeks ago

Shipston

Been here as a single guy and I don’t worry about it if they have approached me

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
31 weeks ago

North West


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Exactly.. if it wasn't 'said guy' it would be someone else.

Hubby will never find out, it's impossible unless she literlly tells him which she won't.

and even if he did find out somehow.. said guy dosent care.

How can Hubby even be mad at said guy.. said guy just potentially saved him more years of being lied too.

The fact she's willing to risk it all just to comeover and get fucked by said guy... said guy likes this

"

You say the hubby won’t ever find out, but you have said yourself:

‘It is the actions of the cheating wife that enables her husbands pain if he ever found out’

So that means hubby COULD find out….and why would Hubby not ever find out? Surely there is always the chance a cheater will be found out?

Imo as already said, the bit on the side is a lot less to blame than the cheating wife. However, this doesn’t stop the aggrieved party misdirecting their angst if the shit hits the fan.

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By *unner6969Man
31 weeks ago

Kent


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

"

Seems like a fairly standard Fab arrangement. As long as no one gets hurt.

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
31 weeks ago

Sussex

I've never been faithful to any partner I've had so I married a cuck to make it easier

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
31 weeks ago

North West


"I've never been faithful to any partner I've had so I married a cuck to make it easier "

Good girl. Bit like my Mrs, except she was faithful to me (first partner she has been faithful to, ever) then I planted the hotwifing seed

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By *ngels_DemonsCouple
31 weeks ago

Stafford

Wouldn’t be something we would get involved with.

We don’t judge and know that everyone here has a ‘reason’ but just doesn’t sit well with us.

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31 weeks ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

31 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Wouldn’t be something we would get involved with.

We don’t judge and know that everyone here has a ‘reason’ but just doesn’t sit well with us. "

I think the op asking for thoughts is an invitation for us to make some sort of judgement on the situation.

I don't really care what other people do with each other if it's not going to affect me but I don't like people absolving themselves of responsibility for potential fall out of a situation that could cause another person pain or even claiming that they're actually doing a good thing.

Oh, I only drove the getaway car from the bank robbery your honour and if I hadn't done it someone else would have.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

31 weeks ago

East Sussex

Mind you the husband might actually be very well aware and get off on it.

Woman will say anything to get a man into bed

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
31 weeks ago

southam


"Mind you the husband might actually be very well aware and get off on it.

Woman will say anything to get a man into bed "

my wife used to blatanty cuckold me with strangers when on holiday abroad but one time it turned out the guy was fairly local she insisted on us seing him but said it was just as a freind she seemed to enjoy being secretive about it but without saying anything definite he discretely teased me about it when we met. I found the whole thing novel but somehow very exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I’ve done a role play of this a few times. It’s fun. But I’ve also been caught in bed by a husband who didn’t know his wife was cheating (she told me he knew) this wasn’t so much fun.

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol

Husband has no clue, no roleplay, no cuck stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Its a great question, but a dangerous situation, if she got caught it would probably end her marriage, and the single guy would maybe it he got married in the future be wondering if his wife would cheat in saying that, the wife must have been thinking her sexlife wasent fulfilling or was just bored

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"Its a great question, but a dangerous situation, if she got caught it would probably end her marriage, and the single guy would maybe it he got married in the future be wondering if his wife would cheat in saying that, the wife must have been thinking her sexlife wasent fulfilling or was just bored"

Well the statistics show 40% of marriages are affected by cheating at somepoint. So better to just be ENM/swing...

No one really wants to be in a mono marriage.. monogamy is like going against 1000s of years of wired in human evolution.

Marriage isnt the one, just look how high divorce rates - over 42% fail and get divorced anyway..

It's literally a coin flip.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

31 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Husband has no clue, no roleplay, no cuck stuff."

As far as you know ...

Never underestimate the capacity of people to double bluff

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By *ellhungvweMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

“Wrong” is a loaded term. It can mean many different things.

In life you have to answer for your actions. I think the guy is guilty of getting involved with drama. I am not a fan of drama so it is not a decision I would take. The person who will have the biggest consequences to answer for is the wife but she willingly took that decision. She needs to own that and cannot dump the responsibility of that decision onto the guy.

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By *illxxMan
31 weeks ago

motherwell

If you play with fire expect to get burned

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By *eyeYCouple
31 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

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By *ools and the brainCouple
31 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

"

Just don't be surprised if there's a knock at the door one day and when you open it some geezer punches you in the hooter. KPOWWWW !

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By *eyeYCouple
31 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Something we've discussed recently as a friend of Y's is actively doing so and has confided in her, because of the knowledge of our 'activity'.

Both are complicit in their actions, however the one in the 'committed' relationship bears greater responsibility, by breaking the trust of their partner the other party not so much and whilst questionable morally it does take two to tango..

May not be the whole story we know, but our feelings, whether they be right or wrong.. 🤷👍

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses.

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses. "

Women signed up to fab to do one thing - cheat on her husband..

It is her own responsibility.

If hubby ever found out the only person he has to blame is his wife.

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses.

Women signed up to fab to do one thing - cheat on her husband..

It is her own responsibility.

If hubby ever found out the only person he has to blame is his wife.

"

And the person knowingly meeting her too, don't forget they always tend to get the blame from wronged spouses.

People can try to justify it all they like, but she's in the wrong yes, as is the person facilitating her cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago


"The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses.

Women signed up to fab to do one thing - cheat on her husband..

It is her own responsibility.

If hubby ever found out the only person he has to blame is his wife.

And the person knowingly meeting her too, don't forget they always tend to get the blame from wronged spouses.

People can try to justify it all they like, but she's in the wrong yes, as is the person facilitating her cheating. "

When I was cheated on, my initial reaction was to blame the "other guy". It was only some time later when cooler heads prevailed and with the benefit of time to reflect that I realised it was as much her to blame.

Now, with a lot of hindsight (this was 15 years ago when I was young and foolish), its obvious the relationship was already living on borrowed time. But that was not how it felt in the moment.

I offer this perspective because while we can all say "it's her sole responsibility," that isn't likely to be the immediate reaction of a spurned husband whose life has just been turned upside down.

If she really wants to sleep with other men, maybe she should own up to her husband and either open up the marriage if he's willing, or end it. Deceit is not a winning course of action.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

31 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses.

Women signed up to fab to do one thing - cheat on her husband..

It is her own responsibility.

If hubby ever found out the only person he has to blame is his wife.

"

That is true. It would be pointless blaming you because the problem lies between the two of them and you're as you say, just a discreet cock.

Although I've argued against a lot of what you've said when push comes to shove it's their marriage that's in trouble here, you're a symptom not a cause.

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By *asha86Couple
31 weeks ago

walsall

Thats a good way of putting it!

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses.

Women signed up to fab to do one thing - cheat on her husband..

It is her own responsibility.

If hubby ever found out the only person he has to blame is his wife.

And the person knowingly meeting her too, don't forget they always tend to get the blame from wronged spouses.

People can try to justify it all they like, but she's in the wrong yes, as is the person facilitating her cheating. "

Said guy isn't cheating, this is the main point imo.

said guy/99% of single guys do not care if you're single or married or whatever if she's DTF that I'd the reality..

Hubby would do the same thing if he was single and someone else's wife was on it.

IMO the only person who can be blamed if word got out is the wife.

Her marriage is nothing to do with said guy

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By *ergus1622Man
31 weeks ago

Dundee

If someone is going to cheat they will. Hopefully they go back and tell there partner that makes it hot. But its upto them not you.

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By *oonwitch_and_RainbowCouple (FF)
31 weeks ago

Bradford and Stockport

It's not his responsibility that she's cheating, but his choice to involved isn't an ethical one.

I certainly didn't have a high opinion of the married woman my husband cheated on me with. But she also actively encouraged and even pressured him to go ahead with it when he was pulling back from the idea.

Personally, I wouldn't want to be involved, morally and practically.

If I'd been my husband, I'd have been worried what might happen if her husband found out, for a start!

(MW)

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By *owestoft ManMan
31 weeks ago

Lowestoft

You see so many saying it not right and how bad it is, but as a matter of interest, how many none swinging couples do you know who cheat of their partners?

The ex and I were, so called cheating all the time from the word go. Still see many married women in pubs cheating on their husbands and although people say its wrong, so many have done them.

I think its worse in some social sports clubs. The ex and I were in many sports clubs including swimming, tennis and squash clubs. Many married men and women cheating on their partners in those.

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"You see so many saying it not right and how bad it is, but as a matter of interest, how many none swinging couples do you know who cheat of their partners?

The ex and I were, so called cheating all the time from the word go. Still see many married women in pubs cheating on their husbands and although people say its wrong, so many have done them.

I think its worse in some social sports clubs. The ex and I were in many sports clubs including swimming, tennis and squash clubs. Many married men and women cheating on their partners in those."

Humans aren't wired for monogamy, if we were we wouldn't have 1 of every 2 coupes cheating at somepoint and a divorce rate of 40% lol

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By *ebbie69Couple
31 weeks ago

milton keynes


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

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If it's the guy in the couple cheating and the woman he is cheating with knows the situation then I guess she is also wrong

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By *oonwitch_and_RainbowCouple (FF)
31 weeks ago

Bradford and Stockport


"You see so many saying it not right and how bad it is, but as a matter of interest, how many none swinging couples do you know who cheat of their partners?

The ex and I were, so called cheating all the time from the word go. Still see many married women in pubs cheating on their husbands and although people say its wrong, so many have done them.

I think its worse in some social sports clubs. The ex and I were in many sports clubs including swimming, tennis and squash clubs. Many married men and women cheating on their partners in those.

Humans aren't wired for monogamy, if we were we wouldn't have 1 of every 2 coupes cheating at somepoint and a divorce rate of 40% lol

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Even if that's true, it doesn't make lying and hurting people acceptable.

Being cheated on is the worst agony I've ever been through in my life, and I've been through some other awful shit. Though it was him saying he was in love with her that caused the greatest pain.

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"You see so many saying it not right and how bad it is, but as a matter of interest, how many none swinging couples do you know who cheat of their partners?

The ex and I were, so called cheating all the time from the word go. Still see many married women in pubs cheating on their husbands and although people say its wrong, so many have done them.

I think its worse in some social sports clubs. The ex and I were in many sports clubs including swimming, tennis and squash clubs. Many married men and women cheating on their partners in those.

Humans aren't wired for monogamy, if we were we wouldn't have 1 of every 2 coupes cheating at somepoint and a divorce rate of 40% lol

Even if that's true, it doesn't make lying and hurting people acceptable.

Being cheated on is the worst agony I've ever been through in my life, and I've been through some other awful shit. Though it was him saying he was in love with her that caused the greatest pain. "

The guy isn't cheating.. he is single man on fab, only the married women is cheating and therfore the only one 'in the wrong'

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

If it's the guy in the couple cheating and the woman he is cheating with knows the situation then I guess she is also wrong "

It's the wife cheating and the side guy knows she's married.

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By *ebbie69Couple
31 weeks ago

milton keynes


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

If it's the guy in the couple cheating and the woman he is cheating with knows the situation then I guess she is also wrong

It's the wife cheating and the side guy knows she's married."

Yes indeed, sorry I was basically asking the same question but swapping who is the cheat in the couple

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"A cheating wife with a family signs up behind her partners back to find someone to fuck in secret.

The guy she picks is well aware she is a cheating wife and agrees to meet and after the meet arrangements continue discreetly.

Is the guy in the wrong as she was going to cheat regardless, the guy is simply providing a discreet dick.

Thoughts?

If it's the guy in the couple cheating and the woman he is cheating with knows the situation then I guess she is also wrong

It's the wife cheating and the side guy knows she's married.

Yes indeed, sorry I was basically asking the same question but swapping who is the cheat in the couple "

Side guy/lady in either scenario not in the wrong imo as they are not cheating.

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses.

Women signed up to fab to do one thing - cheat on her husband..

It is her own responsibility.

If hubby ever found out the only person he has to blame is his wife.

And the person knowingly meeting her too, don't forget they always tend to get the blame from wronged spouses.

People can try to justify it all they like, but she's in the wrong yes, as is the person facilitating her cheating.

Said guy isn't cheating, this is the main point imo.

said guy/99% of single guys do not care if you're single or married or whatever if she's DTF that I'd the reality..

Hubby would do the same thing if he was single and someone else's wife was on it.

IMO the only person who can be blamed if word got out is the wife.

Her marriage is nothing to do with said guy "

You keep telling yourself that, to make yourself feel better

There are 2 sides to every story, you only hear hers. It's a bit crappy behaviour towards the other man,her husband.

I'm out, have a good evening.

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By *ustus5555Woman
31 weeks ago

Nottingham

It's not a case of if, but more a case of when it blows up.

As a side note. That's not swinging. 🤷

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By *ilva69Man
31 weeks ago

stockport


"It's not a case of if, but more a case of when it blows up.

As a side note. That's not swinging. 🤷"

Hence, an eye for an eye

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By *r_SWMan
31 weeks ago

Devon

I knew a couple that had this kink….well mainly the hubby.

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By *andkCouple
31 weeks ago

Wisbech

I like watching k fuck while I perv in another room and watch the fun on camera

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

31 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The well she was gonna cheat anyway line is just a cop out in my opinion.

Maybe she would have just cheated with someone else, but if you know she's married and still willingly meet her, you need to take some responsibility too.

If her partner ever finds out, you'd be the one he'd come lookomh for and if you knew he existed, you can't really make any excuses.

Women signed up to fab to do one thing - cheat on her husband..

It is her own responsibility.

If hubby ever found out the only person he has to blame is his wife.

And the person knowingly meeting her too, don't forget they always tend to get the blame from wronged spouses.

People can try to justify it all they like, but she's in the wrong yes, as is the person facilitating her cheating.

Said guy isn't cheating, this is the main point imo.

said guy/99% of single guys do not care if you're single or married or whatever if she's DTF that I'd the reality..

Hubby would do the same thing if he was single and someone else's wife was on it.

IMO the only person who can be blamed if word got out is the wife.

Her marriage is nothing to do with said guy "

You're right *their* marriage is nothing to do with 'said guy'. He literally has no idea what goes on behind their front door regardless of what she tells him.

The thing is they're the ones living the mundane life, discussing bills, picking up each other's rubbish, tolerating each other's bad habits. 'Said guy' is getting the fragrant, relaxed version of her who's unburdened by the minutiae of daily life and she's getting a little holiday away from routine.

It's a tale as old as time

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By *.hrisMan
31 weeks ago

Bath

I've recently met up with a cheating wife on here. I kind of found it a turn on to be fair

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By *risxbrisx OP   Man
31 weeks ago

Bristol


"I've recently met up with a cheating wife on here. I kind of found it a turn on to be fair "

One agrees.. lol

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By *un couple 2Couple
30 weeks ago

Tynemouth.


"I've recently met up with a cheating wife on here. I kind of found it a turn on to be fair

One agrees.. lol"

big turn on.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
30 weeks ago

norwich ish

It’s been amusing reading through the comments above.

Haven’t seen one person label “said guy” as a home wrecker.

Which is exactly the phrase that would be levelled at a woman sleeping with a man who she knows is married.

See what is happening there?

Being dishonest about sexual activity outside a marriage leads to all kinds of issues, what if it leads to an STI being brought home, what if the married couple do occasionally have fun, what if the partner being cheated on now catches that STI and wonders how the hell has that happened?

What if the person cheating is also cheating with others when “said guy” isn’t available. What if she now brings an STI into “said guys” home. How would he feel about her honesty and antics then? Of course i’m sure it’s always protected etc etc etc.

Cheating is not swinging, it’s not the lifestyle it’s not kink. It’s just cheating. And it’s dishonest and has no place in the lifestyle.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
27 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

Very controversial subject linked to judgements, ethos and etc, however we can’t turn the face out and saying that there are not cheating ladies on this place, some of them make their marital status public asking for discretion and some others just keep on silence pretending to be single.

Multiple reasons like high sex drive, no sex or simply… a fantasy, and yes, that’s an extended female fantasy to enjoy secret encounters with lovers and even practicing unprotected sex till completion, then get home as an exemplary wife and keep the fantasy on silent.

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By *penminded7Man
27 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv hearing cheating wife stories

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By *issMeKate2Woman
27 weeks ago

near the river medway

Some men enjoy the cheating wife thing

Sadly I found it incredibly hard not to cheat in the past and now but my current partner of 9 years, he knows what I do

This arrangement means I feel I can live with myself. I could have met guys when my partner was at work but it eats away at you.

In my time on fab only one guy has said no as it felt it was weird my partner allowed me to.

I get it would be easier to sneak around and not have the conversation I had x

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By *isterConfidentMan
8 weeks ago

edgware

I remember this one time, I had a fuck buddy that was married, she was naughty naughty, she’d pop out for “milk” and I would fuck her there and there in the Sainsbury’s car park and send her home to her waiting husband that was none the wiser.

Once I parked in-front of her house, she got in the car rode me untill I exploded inside her pussy and then walked back into the house to her husband. Fuck I miss the mischievous times

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By *penminded7Man
8 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv cheating wives scenarios

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By *ubyRonCouple
8 weeks ago

Lancs

One of my biggest fantasies in my fucked up head

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By *ack2backloadsMan
8 weeks ago

Loughborough

Who doesn't love a cheating wife. Absolutely feral

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By *icemember7Man
8 weeks ago

Worcester

I've met wife off here that are cheating behind their husband back, and wife's who's husbands are fully aware and join the fun sometimes, It was just nice meeting women that really enjoyed sex wherever they came from.

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By *aughty234Man
8 weeks ago

Manchester

I think its too sexy and every minute is like a movie ...you dont know whats gonna come at the next turn...turns me on

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By *aughty fingersMan
7 weeks ago

over here


"One of my biggest fantasies in my fucked up head "

This is also one of my biggest fantasies I absolutely love the idea of finding a very naughty cheating wife that wants what the husband isn't or can't give her 🫦 something I would love to make a reality 😈

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By *isub85Man
7 weeks ago

Bracknell

I’d love my wife to cheat on me then come home and tell me she had

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By *estiswestMan
7 weeks ago

glasgow

Love this idea

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By *lpine12Couple
7 weeks ago

BARMOUTH

Worked well for us !!!!

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By *343129Man
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

A cheating wife is one of the biggest turn ons, I've tucked quite a few, also my first serious girlfriend cheated on me, and though upset at the time and it led to break up, I was still massively turned on, knowing that she must have been going between us.

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By *endall_IronbridgeMan
7 weeks ago

Shropshire

I'm envious so many have the energy to worry about other people

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By *wodoswingCouple
7 weeks ago

swindon

I have had past girlfriends and wife cheat on me in the past, found it a massive turn on. It is how we got into swinging.

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