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By *ovkid66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Warwick

So im 46 and it seems one year over most of the prefered ages on most of the profiles i read, so if i like the couple or female i will still try to send a message or wink, but i am amazed how many people on here still do not have the politeness to say no thanks, i do get the message after all i am a grown up, but really is one year to much.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

To some people yes. Probably best to acknowledge their preferences and not message people who have set their preferred age below yours.

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By *ovkid66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Warwick


"To some people yes. Probably best to acknowledge their preferences and not message people who have set their preferred age below yours."

I would usually send a wink, if this is blocked i know not to try messaging but if not i always state at the start that i am one year over there prefered range, and let them judge then by my pics and the way i message them as to whether i am not suitable

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"To some people yes. Probably best to acknowledge their preferences and not message people who have set their preferred age below yours.

I would usually send a wink, if this is blocked i know not to try messaging but if not i always state at the start that i am one year over there prefered range, and let them judge then by my pics and the way i message them as to whether i am not suitable"

And if they don't reply, you're not suitable. Easy really.

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By *ovkid66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Warwick


"To some people yes. Probably best to acknowledge their preferences and not message people who have set their preferred age below yours.

I would usually send a wink, if this is blocked i know not to try messaging but if not i always state at the start that i am one year over there prefered range, and let them judge then by my pics and the way i message them as to whether i am not suitable

And if they don't reply, you're not suitable. Easy really."

Exactly, and i dont message them again, but i have been lucky i suppose that one couple did reply and a meet was arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....but i am amazed how many people on here still do not have the politeness to say no thanks...."

Sorry, but as the FAQs on here say, it's NOT rude to delete without replying.

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By *ovkid66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Warwick


"....but i am amazed how many people on here still do not have the politeness to say no thanks....

Sorry, but as the FAQs on here say, it's NOT rude to delete without replying."

FAQ's and my opinion are different, maybe as i was brought up to be polite and reply to messages even if it was with a no, but it seems in c computer driven society politeness has gone out of the window.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

As I said on the other post, you aren't entitled to a message or meet on here, and if the person you messaged chooses to show their displeasure at you ignoring their profile by not replying well, I can't blame them really.

I also ignore messages from people who choose to ignore my profile. Only fair to reward like with like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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FAQ's and my opinion are different, maybe as i was brought up to be polite and reply to messages even if it was with a no, but it seems in c computer driven society politeness has gone out of the window."

Maybe because sometimes a reply ends up with a bombardment of WHY???

Some even resort to abuse, so its easier and simpler to just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said on the other post, you aren't entitled to a message or meet on here, and if the person you messaged chooses to show their displeasure at you ignoring their profile by not replying well, I can't blame them really.

I also ignore messages from people who choose to ignore my profile. Only fair to reward like with like."

Well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single lady on here its most likely u will get quite a lot of mail, I am looking to meet the minority of men on here I find attractive,not the majority. So if one had to reply to every single meesage to say, thanks but no thanks, he messages why, u message back the reason, he messages back oh come on babe etc etc, u would have no life, no time for anything, and as I don't have the money to employ a full time secretary I will read/delete very happily. Unless u cant pay for a PA for me ?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dear oh dear .. not another moan about people not responding to mail that is of no interest to them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless you can pay I mean.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So im 46 and it seems one year over most of the prefered ages on most of the profiles i read, so if i like the couple or female i will still try to send a message or wink, but i am amazed how many people on here still do not have the politeness to say no thanks, i do get the message after all i am a grown up, but really is one year to much."

you do realise that you have an age preference of your own don't you..

I would hope that people give you the same respect to yours... and you would give to others.. or perhaps not!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age preferenes are set at 40 to mid 56 so if u say one year isn't making much difference I might as well go to 57,why not just 58, might as well go up to 65 its just one year more, at this rate my age range will end up 18 to 99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said on the other post, you aren't entitled to a message or meet on here, and if the person you messaged chooses to show their displeasure at you ignoring their profile by not replying well, I can't blame them really.

I also ignore messages from people who choose to ignore my profile. Only fair to reward like with like."

Absolutely, couldn't have put it better myself.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"at this rate my age range will end up 18 to 99"

And now we know why so many profiles have that as their preferences - they've just had to keep raising it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know its funny isn't it ? I always wonder why people have set it to 18 to 99, cannae be that fussed if its a teenager of the local granny in the nursing home

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Can't say I noticed any difference when I hit 46. Then again I do look 20

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Can't say I noticed any difference when I hit 46. Then again I do look 20 "

I thought you were 20!!

Must read profiles properly in future.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Can't say I noticed any difference when I hit 46. Then again I do look 20

I thought you were 20!!

Must read profiles properly in future."

Are you trying to say I'm immature?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Can't say I noticed any difference when I hit 46. Then again I do look 20

I thought you were 20!!

Must read profiles properly in future.

Are you trying to say I'm immature? "

A young outlook and fit body fooled me. Apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im 46 and it seems one year over most of the prefered ages on most of the profiles i read, so if i like the couple or female i will still try to send a message or wink, but i am amazed how many people on here still do not have the politeness to say no thanks, i do get the message after all i am a grown up, but really is one year to much."

Pff,just do what everyone else does and change your age lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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FAQ's and my opinion are different, maybe as i was brought up to be polite and reply to messages even if it was with a no, but it seems in c computer driven society politeness has gone out of the window."

You're entitled to your opinion, and the females/couples on here are entitled to use the site's FAQs as a reason not to respond.

If you had 100 messages a day, you would do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im 46 and it seems one year over most of the prefered ages on most of the profiles i read, so if i like the couple or female i will still try to send a message or wink, but i am amazed how many people on here still do not have the politeness to say no thanks, i do get the message after all i am a grown up, but really is one year to much."

You're having problems at 46..?? Wait till ya turn 50 mate.....

Ted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age limits are already stretched and its highly unlikely I would go with anyone at the top or bottom ends.. So yh one year is a lot!

As for ur view on politeness.. To me that's more head up arseness..

Best just to accept diversity

Why worry about those u will never chat to or meet

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