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Advice for a Club Newbie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What advice does anyone have (m/f)

For a club newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with no expectations, be yourself and just relax and enjoy

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

set your limits on what you want

be yourself, false-ness stands out a mile and relax and be friendly and enjoy

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Remember everyone is there with the same interests as you, so they won't be judging you.

I was as nervous as hell the first time and still get nervous (although more nervous anticipation)

Relax, try to chat to people first and don't put pressure on yourself, or others.

Then once relaxed... enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems one word stands out x RELAX tough when you are nervous as fuck

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

just sit back and watch, i have known couples that just done that for weeks and studied what's going on now they are party animals hehehehehehehehe

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

have no expectations but please carry condoms. Remember that no means no. For a 1st visit, just get used to the surroundings and chat to people.

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Chance is you wont be the only newbie and most are nervous in the beginning.

Enjoy your 1st visit and you may love it so much you get hooked to Clubs.

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to as many people as possible.

If talking to a couple, talk to BOTH of them.

Treat it as a night out meeting new people, enjoy yourself but don't drink too much, if you get lucky it's a bonus

Other than that, make sure that you have done your homework on the club you intend to visit, not good getting to a club and finding that you have to become a member online first or it's a couples only night etc!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brilliant all wise words

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

go with an open mind and no expectations of playing... take some comdoms, dont just stand there like a lost lamb and talk to people...

and dont drink too much.... thats a common one for newbies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good advice for the OP.

Just remember, we all have a first time.

I would not expect anything, that way you can't be disappointed. Never be pushy but always be respectable.

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By *absFrenchGentMan
over a year ago

stafford

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By *orethanplaymatesCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

and I was once told by a great fuck...it's bad manners to come in her mouth without checking before hand

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