FabSwingers.com forum: How was the first threesome?

By *at178 OP Man
37 weeks ago

bromley

Thinking of suggesting a 3 way with the girlfriend, guy or girl.

Had a feeling over the past few months after certain things she’s said while watching tv and talking etc that she’d be interested/fantasised but she’s being careful with how I’d feel.

Anybody else been in the same boat? Did you go through with it and how was it?

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By *rime meatMan
37 weeks ago

funky town

First 3 some was a ffm,went very well nice n steady no pressure and as cocky as men say they will be was damn nervous.can tell.more details in pvt if you like

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By *at178 OP Man
37 weeks ago

bromley

"First 3 some was a ffm,went very well nice n steady no pressure and as cocky as men say they will be was damn nervous.can tell.more details in pvt if you like"

More details pls mate

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By *rime meatMan
37 weeks ago

funky town

mail me

rather tell details personally and not bore others

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By *inky_RagnarCouple
37 weeks ago

Peterborough

I won't get bored

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By *onny PetersonMan
37 weeks ago

Harrogate

Very nerve wracking then very enjoyable. Mine was an mmf with a lovely couple. Make sure you kniw each others expectations and any 'red lines' begore you start.

Meeting strangers with the expectation of having sex shortly afterwards is exhilarating but can be awkward if there's no chemistry.

Be prepared to walk away if it doesn't feel right.

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
37 weeks ago

Barnsley

First one wasn't great, he didn't know what he was doing. But the scene I had planned went more or less like I wanted it to and my Mrs realised how much she liked it and wanted more.

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By *at178 OP Man
37 weeks ago

bromley

"mail me

rather tell details personally and not bore others"

You’ve blocked my sex so can’t message mate

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By *at178 OP Man
37 weeks ago

bromley

Thanks guys 👍

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
37 weeks ago

North Yorkshire Coast

We met with a guy we’d previously had a great social meeting with. We’d chatted on here for a while. Arranged drink in a bar then back to our hotel room. Had a great fun and definitely helped us to decide we wanted to organise more! Sometimes they don’t finish they way you’d expect them too, but great fun nevertheless. 😜

Mrs SW

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By *idlandiaMan
37 weeks ago

Birmingham

Pretty much a disaster lol.

Was my then gfs idea to try a threesome, specifically a ffm.

She chose the lady, a friend of hers and had the conversation. Her friend enthusiastically agreed.

So we arranged to meet at my gfs soon after. Small talk over a cup of tea, then gf took us to her bedroom.

We all kissed and undressed. Got on the bed, gf guided her friends hand onto my cock and they kissed as her friend stroked me.

Friend pulls away from gf and moves to take me in her mouth.

Aaaaand my gf suddenly got jealous and annoyed with her friend.

It got awkward very fast and turned into a 2sum with her confused naked friend watching.

I guess thinking you want something and the reality of it can be two different things.

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By *teve691000Man
37 weeks ago

West Midlands

That’s how I began my journey with my now x wife. We talked about it for ages. Our first 3some was unplanned with my best mate. It was amazing. The adrenaline buzz you get is unreal. We went on from there and eventually started going to the clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Thinking of suggesting a 3 way with the girlfriend, guy or girl.

Had a feeling over the past few months after certain things she’s said while watching tv and talking etc that she’d be interested/fantasised but she’s being careful with how I’d feel.

Anybody else been in the same boat? Did you go through with it and how was it? "

First ever wasn’t that good. It takes some getting used to. Ideally outside of a relationship dynamic first.

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By *ertcoupleCouple
37 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

Ours was lots of fun

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By *arand25Couple
37 weeks ago

Crowborough

Ours was great, S fancied a MFM after we'd had our first foursome, we found a nice guy - set boundaries & exchanged ideas etc and had a nice sexy evening.

Done it a few times since & looking forward to another this weekend

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By *attooedbbwandhubbyCouple
37 weeks ago

Dorset

Still waiting, had one man in here we got close to meeting but he disappeared. Sort of put F off looking as it took us long enough to get to that stage with him, whilst filtering off those chancers who cannot read profiles and then struggle to say anything other than boobs 😂

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By *ase4122Man
37 weeks ago

Lancashire

Only had the one 3 some, mfm. Was very good, f got plenty of attention and the bonus of double the cock lol

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By *ase4122Man
37 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Still waiting, had one man in here we got close to meeting but he disappeared. Sort of put F off looking as it took us long enough to get to that stage with him, whilst filtering off those chancers who cannot read profiles and then struggle to say anything other than boobs 😂"

I'm sure it will happen, probably when you least expect it. Especially with a yummy bbw

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By *elboy1978Man
37 weeks ago

Jarrow

Still looking for my first threesome

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By *eglegMan
37 weeks ago

Telford

I was cuffed and locked in chastity only allowed to serve by using my mouth.

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By *d mirerMan
37 weeks ago

lost

Spiffing

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By *rime meatMan
37 weeks ago

funky town

Open now

I can't message you otherwise would have

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By *omRachCouple
37 weeks ago

Wirral

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By *omRachCouple
37 weeks ago

Wirral

Our 1st (and so far only) 3some partner was one of my best mates. He joined us on/off for nearly 20 years before it kinda fizzled out and we became more interested in the hotwife lifestyle.

We had some very good experiences over the years and are still great friends to this day (we are going to his wedding next year) and cannot thank him enough for helping us scratch the itch that brought us to where we are today.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
37 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

My first threesome was my first fab meet haha. It was with an established couple and it was sublime.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
37 weeks ago

glasgow

To say we were nervous would be a massive understatement. It took place quite a few years ago now. My then brand new girlfriend (now wife) and I talked over limits and rules in advance.

The guy was a total gentleman however I was astonished to see my new and utterly respectable girlfriend rip all her clothes off within moments of this strangers arrival and immediately jump on the bed with her bum in the air and beg him to fuck her. Literally!

All prearranged limits were ignored. Anal. Rimming. Creampie. Everything. Lol

It was an awesome life changing experience

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Mmf fun , fantastic , spontaneous for us , unless it’s friends

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
37 weeks ago

between Donny/Scunny/Gainsborough

Our first ever one… was interesting. My boyfriend and I invited his best friend to fuck me too.

I’ve been married to the best friend for 19 years

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
37 weeks ago

Leicester

We’ve never had a threesome it’s always been 4 or more.

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By *oreplayer4uMan
37 weeks ago

mundford area

Absolutely brilliant met a few times after with every meet better than the last one ,

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By *otoncouple121Couple
37 weeks ago

southampton

Lots of fun and had more since

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By *etwife8230Couple
37 weeks ago

Newport

🥵

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
37 weeks ago

newcastle

Terrified for me! Only had hubby before. didn't have a clue. But enjoyable after xx

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By *iss DevilWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford

It was a bit strange but enjoyable in the end. We met the guy for a social in a pub first, seemed to get on well, but when it came to "sexy time", my then bf struggled to join. He did, eventually, but I could tell he wasn't fully into it, not as much as he thought he would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

All sound amazing.

I'd love to hear about ffm ones if anyone is willing to DM me?

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By *rime meatMan
37 weeks ago

funky town

"It was a bit strange but enjoyable in the end. We met the guy for a social in a pub first, seemed to get on well, but when it came to "sexy time", my then bf struggled to join. He did, eventually, but I could tell he wasn't fully into it, not as much as he thought he would be.

You think he was overwhelmed or just shocked another guy was with you or God forbid penis envy(always looks bigger from different angles)

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By *oomlMan
37 weeks ago

Fareham

First time for me wasn't meat to be a threesome. Hubby wanted to watch wife and me playing but ended up joining us in a spit roast. Had a great time.

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By *iss DevilWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford

You think he was overwhelmed or just shocked another guy was with you or God forbid penis envy(always looks bigger from different angles)"

I think, as it's the case often, the fantasy was better than reality.

It was him who brought the subject up, not me, we chose the guy together, had social with him. And I don't think it was penis envy.

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By *rime meatMan
37 weeks ago

funky town

You think he was overwhelmed or just shocked another guy was with you or God forbid penis envy(always looks bigger from different angles)

I think, as it's the case often, the fantasy was better than reality.

It was him who brought the subject up, not me, we chose the guy together, had social with him. And I don't think it was penis envy. "

Yeah I can get his reaction all guys make out their good with it but it does take a while to adjust or maybe the fantasy is enough

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By *uckingfell59Man
37 weeks ago

Doncaster

I enjoyed my first mfm, however we discussed it to death before hand as should you, wants and not wants rules and never cross established rules

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By *cgmcgMan
37 weeks ago

kingston

My first threesome remains my kinkiest.

I was sat down in their living room, given a beer and told to wait while he fetched her from the bedroom. When he brought her down she was in a basque with stockings and a blindfold.

We proceeded to have fun with him guiding me into her each and every hole, ending with me cumming on her tummy (video in profile).

So far, great but quite vanilla.

After he had cleaned her up she then (still blindfolded) took me outside and had me lie down while she peed on my cock . That was a first for me.

She had her way then disappeared upstairs directing her hubby to suck me off, make me cum again and send her a video of it. Which is exactly what we did. I stayed for a bit and heard her moaning away as she watched the video.

Not as kinky as many have described, but it was my first mmf and my kinkiest of maybe 15 so far

Love them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

My first threesome was a bi MMF with my female best mate. She just asked me one night if I would ever try it so I agree she called her friend. He came round we all had fun.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
37 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Wasn't that great. Luckily we were trysexual and gave it another go.

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By *at178 OP Man
37 weeks ago

bromley

Thanks guys 👍

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By *rime meatMan
37 weeks ago

funky town

Pleasure

Do you think you know how to approach it now

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