FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence in this game

By *laysesh OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Barnsley

Howdy

One of things that we discussed when entering this life and making first steps after wife was reluctant at first is confidence and how I hoped that seeing others and playing with others would bring about a confidence boost for wife and for myself

18 months or so in and I’m chuffed to bits that wife’s confidence as indeed increased to point where she is doing things never ever before would she have. It may be simple stuff like hot tub naked in clubs or indeed going off an playing in open room with other couples on her own like other day where people can see, she is still on a active weight loss journey and couple stone in , always at gym and that but by eck it’s come a long way.

I just thought, as this happened for any of yous ?

I don’t see it mentioned much either on here or in person but to me it’s a huge benefit to the lifestyle we are in

( my confidence ain’t come up in same way but obviously it’s much harder for me to have meets not many want them with me but I’m sure it will come eventually )

Very positive side part to the decision to do what we do is point I’m making