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By (user no longer on site) OP   
37 weeks ago

Where's all the Domme girls at? Plenty of ladies wa ting a Dom, but are there many Dommes on here? Get in touch by DM if so x

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By *mfao88Man
37 weeks ago

north yorkshire

They are very hard to find unfortunately x

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By *vaRoseWoman
37 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Relaxing in bed after a long scene this morning

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By *appyPandaMan
37 weeks ago

Kilkenny and Waterford


"Relaxing in bed after a long scene this morning "

Oh isn't that great then? So happy for you and we can't forget that Dommes need and deserve the relaxation after and aftercare if possible.

And I'm sure your sub/bottom is enjoying that sweet blissful afterglow I'm also still trapped by after an incredible weekend.

And onto the question, they're about but this site wouldn't be the best place to seek them. Fet is a far more fitting alternative when focused more on kink.

Many also tend to keep a low enough profile as bringing attention to themselves like responding in a thread about topics such as pegging will bring in hordes of messages from desperate guys begging to try it, treating them not as dominant woman with her own interests, hopes and life but instead just as an outlet to satisfy their own fetishes and control what would happen. That can be extremely off-putting for a dominant woman that just wants to be in control.

If you find one, first and foremost, treat them with respect and as an actual human being that has her own life, own interests and whole self outside of that part of her. That's the most important thing unless they've made it clear they wish from the beginning to be treated differently.

Then if you get closer, it's quite possible things may work out but it's still not a guarantee, and don't expect things to happen just because you hope they will.

Worst case scenario, you get no replies.

Above that, you end up having some nice friendly conversations with dominant women to get to pass the time with. If you're lucky, you may even make some good platonic friends to keep in touch with and joke around with, and even if they don't feel that way about you, they may know someone that they think you'd get along great with (with how outnumbered dominant women are in general, many often have fellow domme friends to talk about things with and just being free being able to talk openly being themselves) and set you up. You just never know how it may go.

I'm definitely not saying I'm an expert, but these steps will be much more useful than than just sending some message like "please peg me, Mistress" to someone who has hordes of messages like that already or "make me wear women's underwear", "sit on my face" and everything else where it's clear the sender is seeing them just for what she can do for them, not as a real person herself who just as more unconventional sexual interests.

And don't feel dejected if it feels like it's taking too long. Some of us took many many years to find someone who completed us in so many different ways not just regarding kink or submission, and couldn't be happier.

And if you just want to try things out you've seen in porn or read about, you're likely better off paying a professional Domme to do that with you among other things you'd like to try. There's no shame at all about that and getting these things off the bucket list or figuring out if they are for you.

Will definitely help you be far more relaxed after when still looking for more of a lifestyle Domme because you can get to know her properly, and not simply be desperately hoping she'll do that thing with you.

I still have a few hopes to do with mine, but not begging and am happily taking all the time possible together to just enjoy ourselves without anything else needed. More is a bonus and mutual exploration experience, not a necessity.

Long winded ramble over.

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By *appyPandaMan
37 weeks ago

Kilkenny and Waterford


"Relaxing in bed after a long scene this morning "

And didn't even notice your location there until I checked again and had to laugh.

Who do you think would be the bigger Domme between Granny Weatherwax or Nanny Ogg?

Sure Esmie is definitely much more fierce in the stereotypical way, but you just know for sure that Nanny has gotten up to some serious depravity in her life

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Relaxing in bed after a long scene this morning "

Oh you do like to tease don't you?

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By *adyElvorynWoman
36 weeks ago

Crawley


"Where's all the Domme girls at? Plenty of ladies wa ting a Dom, but are there many Dommes on here? Get in touch by DM if so x"

Domme WOMEN…

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
36 weeks ago

Frodsham


"Where's all the Domme girls at? Plenty of ladies wa ting a Dom, but are there many Dommes on here? Get in touch by DM if so x"

Right here.. always looking for subs to dominate

Domme G 😈

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Relaxing in bed after a long scene this morning

And didn't even notice your location there until I checked again and had to laugh.

Who do you think would be the bigger Domme between Granny Weatherwax or Nanny Ogg?

Sure Esmie is definitely much more fierce in the stereotypical way, but you just know for sure that Nanny has gotten up to some serious depravity in her life "

Oh that takes me back, use to read all of his books… maybe not in the way your applying haha

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By *aldaVelvetTV/TS
36 weeks ago

London

If you look at my last video, I had a wonderful time with a domme lady who'd just flown in from New York. This isn't the appropriate site if you're looking for a d/s relationship.

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By *wabathMan
36 weeks ago

Bath

I would love a new Mistress

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By *ubmissive guyMan
36 weeks ago

Liverpool

There probably all hiding with the Women who like facesitting. There not on here. The only Dommes on Fab are looking to peg subs No thank you

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By *appyPandaMan
36 weeks ago

Kilkenny and Waterford


"Relaxing in bed after a long scene this morning

And didn't even notice your location there until I checked again and had to laugh.

Who do you think would be the bigger Domme between Granny Weatherwax or Nanny Ogg?

Sure Esmie is definitely much more fierce in the stereotypical way, but you just know for sure that Nanny has gotten up to some serious depravity in her life

Oh that takes me back, use to read all of his books… maybe not in the way your applying haha"

And I do feel so bad that I forgot most obvious of all, Adora Belle Dearheart. Can't forget the damage she can do with some stilettos.

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By *vaRoseWoman
36 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Relaxing in bed after a long scene this morning

And didn't even notice your location there until I checked again and had to laugh.

Who do you think would be the bigger Domme between Granny Weatherwax or Nanny Ogg?

Sure Esmie is definitely much more fierce in the stereotypical way, but you just know for sure that Nanny has gotten up to some serious depravity in her life

Oh that takes me back, use to read all of his books… maybe not in the way your applying haha

And I do feel so bad that I forgot most obvious of all, Adora Belle Dearheart. Can't forget the damage she can do with some stilettos."

Nanny rules her family with an iron glove. She’s a Domme alright, but she’s not averse to being topped

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By *yanalslutCouple
35 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Think I would class myself as dom

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Think I would class myself as dom "

Certainly how you come across to me. I only wish it was me submitting to your domme cock

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By *rossdressingsubTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

A hard Domme is good to find ..


"They are very hard to find unfortunately x"

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By *iking_WitchWoman
35 weeks ago

Hinckley

I am a pro domme and have natural domme tendencies hence why I do this.

But Fab isn't the place or space to find those connections. I want a chill laid back FWB type connection with a few hot locals who like filthy, primal, raw sex and a few drinks. I am more than open to finding a more committed non exclusive relationship. I want to not be in any D/s dynamic. I separate work from play.

Having sessions with a domme or being controlled by your mistress is not something that is dispensable in casual ways. A true mistress and her submissive have a very deep and mutually trusted bond. They often don't role play being the boss to casual walk ins on FAB

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Nowhere

The endless dream a ds ltr relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I know a stunning lady who is experimenting with her domme side.

Unlikely to meet this year, but let me know if interested.

Must be based around SouthWest London (or willing to travel) and be free during the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I’d love to find one or a mistress but do seem to be extremely rare

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
33 weeks ago

North West

Would love to find a mistress, the Mrs has actually given me carte blanche to go & see a Pro Domme actually as it seems to be slim pickings on here (not that I’d be doing the picking lol).

….& the usual site you would use to pursue this kind of thing is even more dominated by males than Fab & that’s saying something!

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By *ogostick72Man
24 weeks ago

Scotland


"Where's all the Domme girls at? Plenty of ladies wa ting a Dom, but are there many Dommes on here? Get in touch by DM if so x

Right here.. always looking for subs to dominate

Domme G 😈"

Would love u to domme me x

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By *orphia2003Woman
24 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

There are certainly women here who are Domme and in the BDSM lifestyle. However many of them use BDSM or fetish sites rather than swingers for that sort of dynamic.

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By *ssexPaul50Man
2 weeks ago

colchester

Looking for a Dimme to shower me in her golden rain, let me clean her orally then peg me missionary without anyone touching my cock and hoping the pegging will make me cum. Never done this, it’s a massive fantasy x

Any Dommes want to play ?

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By *ot.a.murdererWoman
2 weeks ago

Banbury

Used to domme as my main source of income. Lost the joy for it a few years ago. Still do some light domming for fun though

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By *ssexPaul50Man
2 weeks ago

colchester


"Used to domme as my main source of income. Lost the joy for it a few years ago. Still do some light domming for fun though "

Shame your not into it much now, she your not into watersports and shame I’m not I. Your age range lol but hope your well and life’s good x

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By *ngelLordCouple
2 weeks ago

Newport

Would love to know more

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By *irsttimers3338Couple
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Nothing hotter the man a dog lady

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Nothing hotter the man a dog lady "

Autocorrect or typing with one hand?

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By *88eMan
2 weeks ago

Northumberland


"Nothing hotter the man a dog lady

Autocorrect or typing with one hand? "

I dare to think what it they actually mean if it’s what they were supposed to type 🤣

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By *irsttimers3338Couple
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

God I hate modern technology nothing hotter than a dominant lady

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"God I hate modern technology nothing hotter than a dominant lady "

Oh thank god

I think most women have had a message from the dog man on fab. So you never know 🤣

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By *assagemandanMan
2 weeks ago

Ormskirk

Boiler engineer here. Called to a house to service a boiler that was situated in a garage converted to a dungeon. The lady showed me where the boiler was dressed in a see through black robe. Found it hard concentrating but I managed to get the job done 😂

Whilst on my knees putting my stuff away she came back in and stood over me. Told me that’s where you belong. I knew it was on then of course and for the next 2 hours she dominated me and used me for her pleasure. Still see her often.

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By *ershingMan
1 week ago

liverpool

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By *ershingMan
1 week ago

liverpool

Fuck me, does she need a decorator lol

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