FabSwingers.com forum: Why do it?

By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Could someone explain why some ladies seem to get a kick out of winding up us older guys? They message, agree to meet and then disappear. So frustrating

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By *avexxMan
38 weeks ago

cheshire

just put it out of your mind OP and move on... like your user name says keep cool

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By *aomilatteCouple
38 weeks ago

Midlands

Are you sure they're women and not men with a womens profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Surely they have to be verified by fab to be on here in the first place

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Central

"Surely they have to be verified by fab to be on here in the first place "

There might be verification from other users and looking for those on a profile is some potential assurance that they are actually who they state they are. But you need to use due diligence always

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
38 weeks ago

Stoke

"Surely they have to be verified by fab to be on here in the first place "

Definitely not 😂

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

What kind of message are they sending you, how old are they and how quickly are they asking to meet? In general the more sex talk, the younger they are and the more quickly they ask to meet the less likely they are to be genuine.

It's always disappointing when people let you down

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

They may not be who they claim to be op. Lots of women and couple profiles, are actually men, looking to get their kicks.

Were they verified?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Good thinking. No they weren't verified. Back to the drawing board.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

No sex talk but, you're quite right meeting within 10 days and younger than both my kids. I should really stop dreaming

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

"No sex talk but, you're quite right meeting within 10 days and younger than both my kids. I should really stop dreaming "

It's easy to get carried away

Hope you can put it down to experience and move on

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

"No sex talk but, you're quite right meeting within 10 days and younger than both my kids. I should really stop dreaming "

By the way if you tap on reply+quote it allows you to quote the post you're answering

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

So how do they get a profile on here without the rigmarole of the picture holding the sign etc?

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
38 weeks ago

Norwich

Ive come across same situation several times, frustrating

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

"So how do they get a profile on here without the rigmarole of the picture holding the sign etc?"

Not everyone has to be photo verified.

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By *iss DevilWoman
38 weeks ago

Bedford

"So how do they get a profile on here without the rigmarole of the picture holding the sign etc?"

It's easy to set up a profile on here. Not everyone is required to photo verify.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Gosport

Sorry being let down is always the bane of these sites. It seems to happen to everyone and is really frustrating.

Over the year's as my life has changed I have been on as part of a couple, a single and now admitting I am a trans woman and had it happen in every case.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
38 weeks ago

Cannock

I think there are just a lot of wind up fantasists on here, we get it the other way as a cuckold couple.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
38 weeks ago

Stoke

"So how do they get a profile on here without the rigmarole of the picture holding the sign etc?

Not everyone has to be photo verified.

And this is the issue! 👍

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Chichester

"Could someone explain why some ladies seem to get a kick out of winding up us older guys? They message, agree to meet and then disappear. So frustrating

It’s a man not a woman 99% of time

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Feel your pain OP, been led on several times on here. Just trying to keep the faith

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By *ldmagic4uMan
38 weeks ago

nailsea

Sorry to say it happens to us all.

Don't take it personally there will be someone out there who wants to meet you.

Still waiting for mine lol.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
38 weeks ago

Utero

"Could someone explain why some ladies seem to get a kick out of winding up us older guys? They message, agree to meet and then disappear. So frustrating

On Fab some ladies are actually men pretending and they get a kick out of winding up older guys…

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By *xfordjohnMan
38 weeks ago

Oxford

"Are you sure they're women and not men with a womens profile?"

Exactly. I've had at least one of those, and as she/he asked for an mmf, there were two of us let down.

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By *eauNaturelMan
38 weeks ago

Malmesbury

I'm an older guy and this has never happened to me, to be honest, I'm getting extreme FOMO

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By *he Silver FuxMan
38 weeks ago

Utero

"I'm an older guy and this has never happened to me, to be honest, I'm getting extreme FOMO

Fool me once… alright, okay, whatever

Fool me twice… are you sure you don’t want to meet?

Fool me three times… friend me

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
38 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

It happens I've had some issues with verified people lately.

Verifications don't mean much I've

been let down by verified and unverified.

I would say just try to be more diligent sometimes it still happens though

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By *teve261970Man
38 weeks ago

Gateshead

"I think there are just a lot of wind up fantasists on here, we get it the other way as a cuckold couple."

I genuinely wish you were closer, I was in a relaywith a Cuck couple for 2 & a bit yrs it was fantastic.

Would love do it again, even stag vixen couple 😉👍👌😈

Steve x

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