FabSwingers.com forum: How far is too far?

By *averick029 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Heathrow London

Right people, how far is too far for potential partners? Do you mind travelling? Or if someone is a little far but can travel to you, does that work for you?

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38 weeks ago

Would not travel more then 10 miles Prefer meeting people close by but not too close

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By *carlettsWoman
38 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Right people, how far is too far for potential partners? Do you mind travelling? Or if someone is a little far but can travel to you, does that work for you? "

When I was meeting I would meet halfway if a bit of a distance. There is always a risk that someone would let you down so I would never travel more than 30 mins until I knew that they were genuine.

I was lucky to have met a few reg fwb's and a few travelled 3 - 4 hours to come stay overnight in a hotel I was in through work

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By *averick029 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Heathrow London

"Would not travel more then 10 miles Prefer meeting people close by but not too close "

It's a fine balance between close but not close but I know what you mean.

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By *averick029 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Heathrow London

"Right people, how far is too far for potential partners? Do you mind travelling? Or if someone is a little far but can travel to you, does that work for you?

When I was meeting I would meet halfway if a bit of a distance. There is always a risk that someone would let you down so I would never travel more than 30 mins until I knew that they were genuine.

I was lucky to have met a few reg fwb's and a few travelled 3 - 4 hours to come stay overnight in a hotel I was in through work"

Yeah the element of risk has to be taken into account I guess. We should be able to red flag people on here perhaps 😅

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By *r SproutMan
38 weeks ago

M54

I’ve traveled 90 miles for a meet before. Anything over 100 miles and I’d suggest meeting halfway

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I prefer local only nowadays, for any first meets.

I wouldn't be willing to go too far for someone I'd ever met & I wouldn't want anyone to travel a good distance to me either.

I think it creates expectations, ie that it'd be more than a social, if they've travelled for a while to meet me.

If I've met someone a few times, I've travelled in the past to Leicester and Liverpool. I knew the people wouldn't let me down though.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Hours travel time tops. I always insist on a social before any play so people from miles away doesn't work.

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By *heeky12399Man
38 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Personally I like driving so I've gone I think a 3 hour drive to meet someone but I made a weekend of it to bristol and had met them before as well

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By *iss DevilWoman
38 weeks ago

Bedford

When I was meeting, I always preferred to accommodate (I don't drive) but never overnight. Also, I prefer regular meets to one-offs, and both those conditions meant my cut off point was roughly an hour drive. Regardless of how far the other party were prepared to travel.

Nowadays I only meet at clubs so distance doesn't matter.

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By *uzzieboyMan
38 weeks ago

Somerset

50 miles is the furthest I’ve traveled to date

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By *morousCouple8Couple
38 weeks ago

Cumbria

Just travelled 1.5h for a first meet and have travelled over 1h each way for someone we’ve met a few times. Sometimes he to us, sometimes me to him.

I like driving and there’s not swing scene near us - we also travel similar distances for clubs.

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By *heonixrising500Man
38 weeks ago

Barnsley

Once traveled to scotland but it was a full weekend meet

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By *acavityMan
38 weeks ago

Redditch

I once went 90 miles for a date (non fab)

Totally worth it, she moved in with me a couple of months later

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By *uncouple153Couple
38 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Try living in the middle of Wales. Everything at least a hour away!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nowadays a 30 minute drive. We have travelled an hour to 90 minutes

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By *morousCouple8Couple
38 weeks ago

Cumbria

Oh for a date? 300 miles. All worked out though, was for eachother 🫶🏻

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

10-20 miles depending upon how much of a pain it is to get to from mine and how convenient the parking is at theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

3000 miles. I had to get my hot wife from Massachusetts lol

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
38 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Happily travel four hours as long as they’re happy to meet at a club

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By *hipdaleCouple
38 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Only play at home these days

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By *oiluvfunMan
38 weeks ago

Penrith

I did a halfway meet with a forum friend to 90 miles. Warrington was our meeting place, as she was from Kidderminster.

I have travelled to Townhouse (Birkenhead) before now, that’s 105 miles for me….

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

The more interested I am in meeting someone, the happier I am to travel. I don't mind if someone comes to me buut... it's very, very rare that I'll do more than kiss and ride their thighs the first time we meet.

I like travelling, mini adventures. And if I'm in the area anyway, great. All of that with no pressure works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Love to travel so distance isn't really an issue, 3to4 hrs max

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By *averick029 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Heathrow London

"3000 miles. I had to get my hot wife from Massachusetts lol"

Massachusetts didn't disappoint 😅

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire

There's too many disingenuous people on here to travel too far. We live in hope that others will see us as genuine & travel to us, but the idea of travelling for an hour or two just for a lime & soda in a naff pub isn't for us.

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