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By *lay2018 OP   Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

We have a set age that we meet and wont go over it, clearly states on our profile but still recieving msgs from them wanting to meet. What is it with men on this site, can they clearly not read or something. any cpls/women get the same ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just set your filters to stop them from messaging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OFTEN IF THEY NOT 4 U N U WANT 2 STOP THE MESSAGES JUST BLOCK EM ,,DOUBT VRY MUCH THAT THEY READ PROFILES LOL ,,

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By *lay2018 OP   Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Never knew about the filter, will do now. thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another single guy bashing post? Couples can be just as bad! Get over it and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a set age that we meet and wont go over it, clearly states on our profile but still recieving msgs from them wanting to meet. What is it with men on this site, can they clearly not read or something. any cpls/women get the same ?

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I know just how you feel, I get loads of couples mail me when my profile clearly states i'm only after single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another single guy bashing post? Couples can be just as bad! Get over it and move on!"

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Another single guy bashing post? Couples can be just as bad! Get over it and move on!"

Agreed! I've been contacted by women AND couples who have clearly stated in their profiles that I'm outside of their age range.

Cake and eat it too?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Never knew about the filter"

Well that was a good tip then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expecting to be slated as a "single guy" profile... but....

The age PREFERENCES can be flexible to some people and set in stone for others. The only way to find out is to politely message and ask. If the FILTERS block you from doing so..they are set in stone. If they dont stop you messaging then perhaps they are a little flexible.

Being able to message someone doesnt mean manners go out the window.

Some of the responsibility should lay in the profile owners to set their preferences and filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expecting to be slated as a "single guy" profile... but....

The age PREFERENCES can be flexible to some people and set in stone for others. The only way to find out is to politely message and ask. If the FILTERS block you from doing so..they are set in stone. If they dont stop you messaging then perhaps they are a little flexible.

Being able to message someone doesnt mean manners go out the window.

Some of the responsibility should lay in the profile owners to set their preferences and filters. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expecting to be slated as a "single guy" profile... but....

The age PREFERENCES can be flexible to some people and set in stone for others. The only way to find out is to politely message and ask. If the FILTERS block you from doing so..they are set in stone. If they dont stop you messaging then perhaps they are a little flexible.

Being able to message someone doesnt mean manners go out the window.

Some of the responsibility should lay in the profile owners to set their preferences and filters. "

However if you try to mail someone who isn't looking for your age then a WARNING comes up form the site telling you they are not looking for your age do you just ignore it point blankly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just set your filters to stop them from messaging you"

What they said ...its works

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By *aisy2012Couple
over a year ago

everywhere

Same applies with smokers - I am one & clearly stated on the profile that I smoke Still get lots of messages from people who "won't meet smokers"

Couldn't be that the preferences go out the window if there is a chance of getting lucky could it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with the filters is before we realised about it we would reply back to them and say no thanks. Now when we have the message filter on they can still message us again because we have replied previously. So the block button ends up being used. We have this every so often, we only look for up to 35 year olds and had one person saying I don't see what the difference is between 35 and 49 year olds and being rude and begging us to give him a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I will confess, I have mailed people when out of their age range, Why???

Because it is up to them if they sway from it and it may not always set in stone.

If they are very attractive I will send a compliment and never expect a reply as well.

I'm cheeky and have managed to meet some whose age range I am out of.

If you are not prepared to sway set your mail settings rigidly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the experience of an older meet, you never know it might just be what you are looking for......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expecting to be slated as a "single guy" profile... but....

The age PREFERENCES can be flexible to some people and set in stone for others. The only way to find out is to politely message and ask. If the FILTERS block you from doing so..they are sezt in stone. If they dont stop you messaging then perhaps they are a little flexible.

Being able to message someone doesnt mean manners go out the window.

Some of the responsibility should lay in the profile owners to set their preferences and filters.

However if you try to mail someone who isn't looking for your age then a WARNING comes up form the site telling you they are not looking for your age do you just ignore it point blankly? "

but the warning does not tell you not to mail them it just warns you you may not be what they are looking for

i get mail daily from couples even tho im not looking for them, i have not blocked them because it makes no odds to me if they mail me or not im still not meeting them and the odd mail from someone im not after isn't the end of the world us it? However if it did bother me i would filter them out, not leave it open for them to mail then bitch about it when its is easily avoided, i really think some people just like to moan to be honest, its like they goad the attention so they can complain about it

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Take the experience of an older meet, you never know it might just be what you are looking for...... "

I wholeheartedly agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a set age that we meet and wont go over it, clearly states on our profile but still recieving msgs from them wanting to meet. What is it with men on this site, can they clearly not read or something. any cpls/women get the same ?

"

Obviously u have not blocked out receipt of messages from peeps outside yr age limits. That in itself begs the question 'why not ' ?? The facility is there to b used n if u can't b arsed to use it there's no point griping on here is there???

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"We have a set age that we meet and wont go over it, clearly states on our profile but still recieving msgs from them wanting to meet. What is it with men on this site, can they clearly not read or something. any cpls/women get the same ?

"

I take offence at the part of your message which states "what is it with men on this site"

You are indicating that all men are the same. We are not and I would not message you if I was over your age limits on your profile page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another single guy bashing post? Couples can be just as bad! Get over it and move on!"

I have to agree that couples, single fems etc are equally as bad for that, it seems a lot of people on the site are unable to read numbers!!

We do have the filters turned on, but unfortunately it doesn't block people who have messaged you in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a set age that we meet and wont go over it, clearly states on our profile but still recieving msgs from them wanting to meet. What is it with men on this site, can they clearly not read or something. any cpls/women get the same ?

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It's a common fact that no men on this site can read.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"It's a common fact that no men on this site can read. "

Err sorry, I can read, just up to the 2'nd editition of Peter Pan books

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's a common fact that no men on this site can read.

Err sorry, I can read, just up to the 2'nd editition of Peter Pan books "

Was that a Freudian slip? "ediTITion"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expecting to be slated as a "single guy" profile... but....

The age PREFERENCES can be flexible to some people and set in stone for others. The only way to find out is to politely message and ask. If the FILTERS block you from doing so..they are set in stone. If they dont stop you messaging then perhaps they are a little flexible.

Being able to message someone doesnt mean manners go out the window.

Some of the responsibility should lay in the profile owners to set their preferences and filters. "

But ur thinking is very flawed! I like my couples and woman around my age but my single guys strictly younger.. Yet I can't set the filter of ages to different ages for different groups!

So doesn't mean they are flexible at all.. Just that the filters don't work properly for them!

As for this being a guy bashing thread, if the person writing it has only experience of the problem from single guys then they are talking from experience only.. Why do people take things against single guys so badly..

At the end of the day the amount of hassle you get from single guys on here is a lot more common than from all the other groups put together.. But everyone knows it isn't all single guys.. Jez

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Expecting to be slated as a "single guy" profile... but....

The age PREFERENCES can be flexible to some people and set in stone for others. The only way to find out is to politely message and ask. If the FILTERS block you from doing so..they are set in stone. If they dont stop you messaging then perhaps they are a little flexible.

Being able to message someone doesnt mean manners go out the window.

Some of the responsibility should lay in the profile owners to set their preferences and filters. "

I've had men contact random men in my area asking them to contact me on their behalf to get through my filters.

Now I ask you?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" if it did bother me i would filter them out, not leave it open for them to mail then bitch about it when its is easily avoided, i really think some people just like to moan to be honest, its like they goad the attention so they can complain about it "

I've always thought that!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"We have a set age that we meet and wont go over it, clearly states on our profile but still recieving msgs from them wanting to meet. What is it with men on this site, can they clearly not read or something. any cpls/women get the same ?

I take offence at the part of your message which states "what is it with men on this site"

You are indicating that all men are the same. We are not and I would not message you if I was over your age limits on your profile page."

Remember the fact of Fab, single guys are NOT allowed to be offended whatever is said by anyone!

We are here to be slated and all branded as idiots because a few guys behave like that.

'Some' couples and 'some' ladies are just as bad as 'some' men....

I am not claiming that some guys dont behave well on fab, but we are all NOT like that !

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Was that a Freudian slip? "ediTITion"? "

Well spotted that man, I can only apologise for the boob I made in my earlier post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the question of what is it with the men on the site?..its purely about a ratio

the smaller the gender group the less the idiots

easy to work out when u know what the majority of fab is

try not pulling the tarnishing brush effect OP is my advice

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