FabSwingers.com forum: Foreplay starts with shoe shopping?

By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

I'm working on a idea for my wife (and others' wives) to be the focus of a weekend treat.

The idea is we get together with some like minded couples in a good city in the UK. The girls go shopping together to get outfits for the evening. The idea being they will be able to wow the boys when they turn up later that evening (I've booked therapy for my wallet in advance).

In the meantime the boys do things to get the hunger going and generally have fun.

When the girls turn up they will be looking amazing and the boys eyes will be everywhere.

Good food, drink flowing and flirting is pretty much the rest of the night. The couples will all know each others likes and fantasies so the possibilities that night will be endless. At the very least the girls go back to the hotel room happy, appreciated and horny with their partner.

This is a general vibe and I don't want to over plan.

Do you see this being appealing? It's there any detail you'd change, add or recommend?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

There will be some couples who will love this idea and I really hope you have lots of offers.

Personally I wouldn't enjoy shopping for hours with other women but I'm probably in a minority.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

The idea of an enjoyable night with happy friendly people, flirting and generally having a good time before going back to a room with my partner really does appeal though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Yeah that's the vibe. I was talking to another fabber and they said it was a little stereotypical. I agree but we've never done it and K rarely shops for clothes for men to look at her in THAT way so for us it's breaking new ground.

To loop back the vibe is definitely "chill with similar minded couples and what happens, happens but with no guarantees or pressure". It's a big thing for K and I that we get to know the people we play with.

To be fair I'd be happy doing Purgatory Escape Rooms in London (which ends in a cocktail bar) and getting to know couples but the conversation being open to discussing fantasies and wish lists.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Yeah that's the vibe. I was talking to another fabber and they said it was a little stereotypical. I agree but we've never done it and K rarely shops for clothes for men to look at her in THAT way so for us it's breaking new ground.

To be fair I'd be happy doing Purgatory Escape Rooms in London (which ends in a cocktail bar) and getting to know couples but the conversation being open to discussing fantasies and wish lists."

I think you know the type of meet you want and are proactive in making it happen. We looked for something a bit similar, evening out, cocktails, flirting etc.

Goid luck to you and enjoy every minutec

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

I might ask you for pointers then. Just exploring ideas at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Its a reasonable idea, but considering now hard it is to get mutual attraction going with just two couples, its an exponential task to broaden that out to multiple couples.

Best of luck, at least it’s proactive

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

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"I might ask you for pointers then. Just exploring ideas at the moment."

I don't think we would be much help. We used to simply meet socially then arrange a meal out which happened a few times and we worded our profile accordingly. We never managed to find two or three couples who were happy to do the whole flirty evening out thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

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"Its a reasonable idea, but considering now hard it is to get mutual attraction going with just two couples, its an exponential task to broaden that out to multiple couples.

Best of luck, at least it’s proactive

Agreed. Also it's surprising how many people like the idea of their partner flirting but when it comes to it they aren't so keen.

Op have you considered organising a social somewhere neutral for a few couples of your choice to see what the dynamic is like?

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire

The shops don't open early enough to get Mrs RC back from shoe shopping for an evening of fun.

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