FabSwingers.com forum: Epiphany.....thought I would share

By *entwriter OP Man
38 weeks ago

Sevenoaksish

So I am the classic male on here...in a celibate marriage, but over the years have played including threesomes and a couple of foursomes when I have had lovers.

In all that time I have always been straight, not conscious of the other male at all. On two occasions I have been pleasured orally by a husband, both in cuckold relationships. Kind of fluffing for their wives.

My epiphany last night, just as I was about to go to sleep was that I suddenly had a conscious thought that I was wondering what it would be like to suck a cock. And not just a curiosity...a vivid physical sensation of his would it feel to wrap my mouth around a mans cock and pleasure him, maybe also masturbate him first .

Now I was somewhat taken aback by this thought, but as I lay there I also imagined how that would work if I was with a couple....so the lady and I both orally pleasuring her partner perhaps as foreplay for our play....perhaps not....

Thinking on it this morning I realise I'm seeing this as a continuation of regular play...I am not looking to just find a man and suck him off...it was part of a bigger scene....

But I was aroused by the idea.....

I am mid sixties and have managed all those years without seeking out such a scene....am I unusual....too late....

Thanks for reading and anyone who has similarly found themselves thinking like this.....how did it turn out for you?

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By *entwriter OP Man
38 weeks ago

Sevenoaksish

So interesting ...no messages but an increased traffic through my profile....which is gratifying in its ow way!

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By *xfordjohnMan
38 weeks ago

Oxford

I don't think it's that unusual. As a long term member of the scene, I've noticed a marked increase in the number of men identifying as bi or bi-curious in recent years and many of them are in the same age bracket as yourself.. I have one male friend who had never thought of it before we were in a threesome and I asked him if he would let me suck him, then he wanted to try too and has never looked back.

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By *orkshireGrizzlyMan
38 weeks ago

Wakefield

I don't think it's strange, but it's also difficult to find partners who understand / get over the social stigma that men are meant to be men.

I think that more men are putting curious, it shows a shift but it's still difficult to navigate.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
38 weeks ago

norwich ish

I think it’s becoming more common on the scene, Bi nights used to be about bi-women but now they are asking that all attend are bisexual, there are also a few nights specifically catering to bi-men where boys can play while their partners watch from the sidelines. Think one night is called Tabu.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
38 weeks ago

norwich ish

"I think it’s becoming more common on the scene, Bi nights used to be about bi-women but now they are asking that all attend are bisexual, there are also a few nights specifically catering to bi-men where boys can play while their partners watch from the sidelines. Think one night is called Tabu."

Saying that we were at a club recently and in the dungeon one lady told her man to suck another man off and quite a few people left the dungeon, so sadly there also remains a stigma attached.

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By *andb69Couple
38 weeks ago

leeds

Saying that we were at a club recently and in the dungeon one lady told her man to suck another man off and quite a few people left the dungeon, so sadly there also remains a stigma attached."

It isn't a stigma. It's just that it's a sexual activity that some enjoy, but some find a turn off.

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