FabSwingers.com forum: Asking someone for a drink

By *urvey1990 OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

So I need some help everyone.

I working for the NHS let's say.

And there is a very very good looking patient.

His single and we have a good laugh. Now am I crossing the line in seeing if he wanted to go for a drink?

He also works for a public uniform let's say.

( sorry dont want to give to much away there)

Am I barking up the wrong tree and shouldn't and just enjoy my enclosures when I see him?

Help

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By *CExeCouple
38 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Sadly yes. A whole world of nightmares if things went sour.

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By *urvey1990 OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Sadly yes. A whole world of nightmares if things went sour."

This is my thought but my god his so lovely and good looking the whole package

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Do you see him regularly? I'd probably leave it alone, if you do.

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By *anchester SlimMan
38 weeks ago

Manchester

If he's a patient I assume you know his full name. Is it not possible to look him up once he is no longer a patient? Or is that still crossing the line?

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By *urvey1990 OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"If he's a patient I assume you know his full name. Is it not possible to look him up once he is no longer a patient? Or is that still crossing the line?"

His a long term patient

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By *lla_eastWoman
38 weeks ago

Manchester

Sorry to be the fun police here, but what are you thinking?

Put the shoe on the other foot.

We will use your example as being in the NHS.

If you were to be a patient and the person hired to help you, a professional, makes a move, would you find this acceptable or not?

I personally would be really uncomfortable if I were the “patient” in that scenario.

Also, whoever recommending looking them up when they’re no longer a patient… wow.

That’s a huge breach of GDPR.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Sadly I'm going to flip it and pose the question that what if it was a bloke who was looking after someone in a professional capacity and then came on to them? It would seem less than romantic.

I'd just enjoy the friendship and look elsewhere

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By *urvey1990 OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Sorry to be the fun police here, but what are you thinking?

Put the shoe on the other foot.

We will use your example as being in the NHS.

If you were to be a patient and the person hired to help you, a professional, makes a move, would you find this acceptable or not?

I personally would be really uncomfortable if I were the “patient” in that scenario.

Also, whoever recommending looking them up when they’re no longer a patient… wow.

That’s a huge breach of GDPR. "

Ya I definitely wouldn't be looking them up after they left due to that.

The only reason I had the through was I feel I get the same feeling back I.E flirty banter ect so not somthing just out the blue to ask.

But I know 99.9% that its a big fat nope dont do it. Will have to admire from a far and enjoy when I see him

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By *urvey1990 OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Sadly I'm going to flip it and pose the question that what if it was a bloke who was looking after someone in a professional capacity and then came on to them? It would seem less than romantic.

I'd just enjoy the friendship and look elsewhere

I guess if I was giving back as good as I was getting ( banter flirting ect) then I wouldn't bat a eye. But I guess im just open to that kinda thing really xx

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