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How to start a conversation to get a response.

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By *r fab500 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

braunstone

I struggle to get a response from women. What’s a good way to get a response and conversation?

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By *uke OzadeMan
38 weeks ago

Schlongolia

Wave your hand in front of their face whilst saying “Hellooooo” quite loudly.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
38 weeks ago

Home

God only knows

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By *m just me 78Man
38 weeks ago

Preston


"I struggle to get a response from women. What’s a good way to get a response and conversation?"

All depends on whether youd be happy,to just get any kind of reply 😂

If you see something on their bio you like, tell them,and thought you'd send a quick message,and add hey no worries,if you'd rather not chat,I won't be offended,and have a nice.... whatever part of the day it is,and happy fabbing, with a nice smiley face.

Hi cracking tits and I like your snatch , doesn't get results on here 😀👍🏻

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By *ealitybitesMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

You've already answered your own question.

The best way to start a conversation is to start a conversation.

Not one that instucts or expects or involves sex and doesn't take you or the recipient out of their comfort zone from the off.

I've never had much issue getting a response even when I was a newbie because I just type messages in the same manner as I would strike up a conversation with someone sitting beside me.

It's not foolproof because not everyone wants that type of approach but it worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Walk up to them and press X (A on Xbox)

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By *J coupleCouple
38 weeks ago

stone

Don’t send dick pics!

Okay, so some like them but most don’t. Read their bio. and if it says “NO COCK PICS”, don’t send them.

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By *d mirerMan
38 weeks ago

lost

Talk , don’t be a dick (subjective 😂) keep one’s doodah to oneself (unless directly prompted) be yourself .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

Most women look at profile text and pictures before deciding whether to answer so it's best to ensure that they're appealing.

Otherwise a brief message that asks open ended questions will elicit a response from an interested person

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By *hil most chillMan
38 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe


"I struggle to get a response from women. What’s a good way to get a response and conversation?"

Make your profile interesting or funny, then say something interesting or funny in your message

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Don't just come in swinging your dick in our faces. Don't just message saying "wanna meet" . We're people too just have a decent conversation 😂

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By *ershingMan
38 weeks ago

liverpool

Just be polite and speak to them as if they were standing in front of you!

None of the 6 guns shooting aproach, it'd just get them dry!

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By *aked beachMan
38 weeks ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.

In the years of experience I’ve gained since I created a profile 8 weeks ago, this is my MO.

I only send messages to profiles that show as on-line. It doesn’t guarantee a reply but all the replies I do get are from people currently active. The message is at the top of the in-box, not sent 2 days ago and in the middle of page 5 (or however this site works for those that popular).

Also I often send a DM about a post the Lady or Couple have made in the forums. Again doesn’t guarantee a response but it’s conversation topic/starter.

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