FabSwingers.com forum: Signing Messages

By *andyrich555 OP Man
38 weeks ago

ub4

Was just wondering if anybody indicates whoes it is whoes replying when they have a couples profile.

Very often the messages received state 'I' rather than 'We' and im always wondering if it's the male or female that has responded.

Would be nice if those replying gave their name or both names.

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

This is one of the reasons why I limit my interactions with couples on here, apart from those on the back of a forum thread, game or photo challenge which is innocuous enough.

From one or two past experiences I've found their methods to be duplicitous and manipulative when it came to 'anonymised' conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Always make very clear who's replying

It's generally me (female) but if I've left hubby on fabmin duty for any reason he makes it explicit it's him.

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By *aven RedWoman
38 weeks ago

Liverpool x

I generally ask if it's not clear who is messaging x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

I use 'I' despite our messages usually being from us both with a coup!e of exceptions. Always using 'we' can be awkward and I wonder why people would respond differently according to who they were talking to.

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By *herryandrumCouple
38 weeks ago

kilmarnock

When wee get talking to somebody. Cherry ends her messages with

i end mine with

. Would help even if there was different colored fonts for different devices

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
38 weeks ago

Reading

When I had a couples account, it was always very clear which one of us was talking. We signed every message individually and our styles of chat were very different as well. Most of the time, it was me anyway.

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Always put mr or Mrs at end of message

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By *hat.coupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Kent

Our real names are on our profile and our profile blurb states that it's always me (female) doing the messaging. But, I always sign off with my name or initial in private messages, well at least for a good chunk of the first messages sent anyway.

Mrs x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it useful to know, too

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By *olfandtazCouple
38 weeks ago

Bristol

If we are together and replying we type "we".

What WE do find frustrating is when its assumed they are automatically talking to Taz on a couples profile

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
38 weeks ago

The lost village

We always sign off with our names, just like our forum posts. Although Bear forgets on the forum sometimes.

Tink

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

When on my couple profile, I always sign off miss, if it's me chatting and jack say if it's him.

I agree it makes it easier for people when hit identify who is chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I ask if its the pencil or the sharpener.

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By *ink vixenCouple
38 weeks ago

Medway

Depends on the depth of the interaction.

If it’s going to be a conversation then it’ll be I, the husband.

If it’s just no thanks I will speak on her behalf and it’s from us.

Considering that 95% of the time we’re responding to dick pics and “hey” I think that’s reasonable.

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By *oochie DeLiciousWoman
38 weeks ago

Wolvo

I wish couples profiles took the form of a group chat when messaging, where each person had their own font and image for their reply. Much easier to know who you're talking with then.

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By *rlobsterMan
38 weeks ago

chepstow

Fabmin duty , love it 😂🤣😂

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By *ellinever70Woman
38 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I mostly assume it to be the male half

Inevitably, I'm right

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