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By *andalorians OP   Couple
38 weeks ago

Malvern

So as it states in our profile, i am dick curious. Unfortunately this means we have had some people moan and even been rude because im not actually fully bi. Its almost as though there is a pressure to fit in to a catagory and stay there. Equally, there are those on here that seem to think that if they pressurise us(and others) then we will give in and shag them, i mean does this actually work for people!? So my qusetion is this, how many of you have found people being pressurising or just a situation, has ruined your experience?

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By *ab_paulMan
38 weeks ago

Hitchin

Occasionally it’s an annoyance but other behaviours are a much bigger issue in my opinion so don’t let this ruin my experience.

Sorry to hear you’ve faced this though. Pressuring people is guaranteed to kill any vibe so it’s completely counterproductive

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By *iddle ManMan
38 weeks ago

Walsall

Even if you are fully bi, you can still say no, the same as anyone on a meet or wherever, just because something is arranged before hand, it is not the law. People can change their mind at the meet.

As for pressure, unfortunately it happens, a lot. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything, and certainly don't be meeting those people again.

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By *iddle ManMan
38 weeks ago

Walsall

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By *aven RedWoman
38 weeks ago

Liverpool x

Im not a fan of labels. We are who we are and like different things at different moments x

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By *ealitybitesMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

I've had messages from women and couples over the years that I've never spoken to before telling me that I'm too old and too straight to have any success here.

They have offered to add me to their to-do lists (their actual words) if I agree to play bi, send facepic and number NOW, book and pay for an hotel room that they will stay in after I have left and the one that was most popular was I had to shave my beard off to have any chance of getting within fucking distance of them.

I didn't feel any pressure because they had obviously missed my glowing verification list which proved I didn't have to do any of that.

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By *issmorganWoman
38 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm straight and half a couple.

I've been told that the lady of a couple can turn me, err she can't.

We've also had couples say they're happy with straight swap only, then they go on to suggest I might want to kiss and touch the Mrs, no I'm still straight.

It's really annoying, others should let people do what they do and don't pressure others to play your way.Its also much better if people are upfront about how they want to play etc, instead of saying one thing and meaning another.

On this profile I have couples blocked as many either can't read or think I'll play with them as an exception.

Keep doing what feels right for you and just don't engage with people who tell you how to be etc.

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