FabSwingers.com forum: Still no meet

By *itfwb95 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Bilston

Been on here for a few weeks now and looks like no one is after a single male

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By *ovinglife!40Man
38 weeks ago

The first thing anyone will do is look at your profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

People are looking for single men but 8 weeks isn't that long in terms of fab.

Are you approaching people that you're compatible with?

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
38 weeks ago

Barnsley

8 weeks is nothing. Your profile would put us off, not much on it and loads of pics of you posing, makes it look like you fancy yourself. Nothing wrong with being into fitness (I'm a personal trainer) but we don't like gym pics of guys posing, maybe some will.

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By *teve321Man
38 weeks ago

Waltham cross

As above...too much posing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
38 weeks ago

East Sussex

Personally I don't see anything wrong with showing the body you have worked hard to achieve. That takes dedication and motivation which speaks to your character.

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By *BoschMan
38 weeks ago

lincoln

Ive been on here on and off for years, no meets, just is what it is, the ladies get tons of dick pics and messages from idiots, makes everyone look bad

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I would say keep in mind that there are many many other guys out there with very similar profiles. You'll blend into the crowd of dicks if you don't stand out.

"Fitness guy looking for some fun" doesn't really tell us much about you as a person. Think about what your unique selling point is, what makes you you

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By *andb69Couple
38 weeks ago

leeds

If by "meet" you mean a free fuck in return for a three line message then I wouldn't hold your breath. Fab is just a part of the swinging scene so get yourself to a club, meet real people, show you're willing to put in some effort, that you're respectful, and gain a few verifications on the way. It will make a difference to your success rate.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You look good, but as every pic of you is in the gym or showing off the gym bod, I'd think twice, as I'd wonder if that's all you've got going for you. I'd be worried that if we met you'd be talking about the gym within 30 seconds.

Try teasing with the bod and adding more variety of photo. Also, get more creative with the blurb.

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By *itfwb95 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Bilston

Cheers guys after considering all your points I've adjusted my profile, could I please get some feedback if possible cheers

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By *itfwb95 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Bilston

I'm always up for going to the foxy in bilston for meets as it's next door to my gym and can pretend that that's where I'm going lol I've gotta be discreet see as I live with parents

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By *itfwb95 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Bilston

"People are looking for single men but 8 weeks isn't that long in terms of fab.

Are you approaching people that you're compatible with?"

How can I go about doing that lmao I useless on here

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

There we go! I see those wolverine claws, you're showcasing more of your personality now. Good job 👍

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
38 weeks ago

norwich ish

"I'm always up for going to the foxy in bilston for meets as it's next door to my gym and can pretend that that's where I'm going lol I've gotta be discreet see as I live with parents"

Understand to an extent the issue of discretion but there’s always a weekend away where you could perhaps go to other venues.

Also the fact that because you live with your parents means you probably cannot accommodate, that would be a red flag to some as they would assume a single guy who can’t accommodate is probably an attached male and the partner doesn’t know.

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By *itfwb95 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Bilston

The wolverine claws are in full force

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By *itfwb95 OP Man
38 weeks ago

Bilston

I think I better but that I live with parents in bio so folks don't get the wrong idea

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
38 weeks ago

norwich ish

"I think I better but that I live with parents in bio so folks don't get the wrong idea

It may not help.

I’d probably put accommodate, and then you can explain when messaging that it would be at a hotel, and why.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
38 weeks ago

belfast

Oh. Interesting.

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By *rowley616Man
38 weeks ago

Scarborough

"Been on here for a few weeks now and looks like no one is after a single male

A few weeks? Hold your expectation kid. It isn't magic and you are competing with thousands of men for like ten women. It might take some time but otherwise I am sure you are doing everything anyone else would.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The pics are much stronger now you've introduced some variety to them

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By *uckslut and MCouple
38 weeks ago

Poole

Single male profile, but a couple in profile pic. Does the other person know that their face is on a swinging site?

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By *parky123Man
38 weeks ago

Lincoln

A few weeks

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By *hat.coupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Kent

Took us 3 months to get our first meet, and that was with us going to clubs regularly too. Not much happens from here anymore, get to a club and speak to real humans in person. Its works for us x

Mrs x

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By *ew year new nameWoman
38 weeks ago

Bolton

Why do you have to tell your parents that you're going to the gym. Surely at your age they won't care where you are, just be glad you're out. How will you be able to go to a club or hotel meet? Will you have to take your gym bag?

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By *Silver-Man
38 weeks ago

North Wales

Try leaving the parents t home

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By *orajadeTV/TS
38 weeks ago

barnsley

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By *agicm696Man
38 weeks ago

High Wycombe

It is hard as a single guy to meet on here you just got to keep going and hope someone doesn’t ignore ur msg and sends one back! Well that’s what I keep doing..

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By *orajadeTV/TS
38 weeks ago

barnsley

I second this

Hubs and I went clubbing first, found Fab second.

Of course, I love you too, Fab 😘

But getting out and chancing it in person is way more fun than text flirting. Naturally a bit more expensive too, but everyone deserves a treat once in a while

"Took us 3 months to get our first meet, and that was with us going to clubs regularly too. Not much happens from here anymore, get to a club and speak to real humans in person. Its works for us x

Mrs x"

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By *aven RedWoman
38 weeks ago

Liverpool x

Like other posters, I went to a club before I joined fab. Its easier to gauge attraction in person. Plus, as a single woman whose children lived at home at the time, it was a safe space to meet x

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By *eo BillsMan
38 weeks ago

South Essex

Try being on here for 7 months without a meeting! I think things have changed since I first started in the lifestyle! The only way I meet now is going to clubs, but that can be hit or miss

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

"The first thing anyone will do is look at your profile."

"Cheers guys after considering all your points I've adjusted my profile, could I please get some feedback if possible cheers"

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OP, I'm sorry to hear that you're not having much luck. As most people have said - you're still relatively new on here. I'm not sure what you've changed on your profile or 'improved' but your profile is still not...I don't know, I can't pinpoint it, it's missing a vibe, it's quite nuanced...

...it needs further work. Somewhere. 🩶

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Being a single guy on here is a tough gig. Just shoot your shot and hope for the best. Just had my first meet last week and I’ve been here over a year

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By *irky_coupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Kirky

Assumed you'd be swimming in pussy did you? Welcome to fab as a single guy.

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