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Size matters...or does it?

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By *lleyCat1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Plenty of ladies' and couples' profiles on here say they're only interested in meeting guys who are vwe, thick girth, x inches plus, etc., but how important to you is size really?

(Yes, you've guessed correctly that I'm not vwe!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've copied this from an earlier post of ours, enjoy

So guys, do you measure up?

Grab a tape measure and a ruler.

Now measure your penis properly following the instructions below, and compare it to size averages:

Your standby length

To check your flaccid length, undress and measure it immediately. Because a cold or warm room can cause shrinkage or growth, you need to do this before room temperature affects your pride and joy. "Position the tip of the ruler gently against the point where the shaft meets the abdomen," says urologist Dr Hunter Wessells, who has studied penis size. Then simply bend the ruler along the shaft and read the length.

An average length is 3.43 inches.

Now breathe a big sigh of relief.

Your erect length

Get hard and measure it quick. Again, get the ruler on to your penis as soon as you become fully erect. Now measure the top of your erection, ie the side furthest from your testicles, and check the figure at the tip of your shaft, holding the ruler against your penis base. An average length here is 5.03 inches.

Your erect girth

Maintaining your erection, wrap a tape measure around your penis at its base. An average size here is 5.14 inches around.

Conclusion:

An average vagina is 4 inches deep so it doesn't really matter how you measure up because you will fill a woman up with your penis while having sex.

But when it comes to oral sex some women have very big mouths so to them it may seem like they are sucking a maggot, lol

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Were on the look out for guys who are hung because apparently it feels better

All jokes aside thou, even thou the average penis is 5inch odds, bigger and thicker than 5 inchs feels alot better so naturally they are going to get picked more than smaller ones. Its just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

size dont matter its how you use it .and if your well hung and dont know how to use owch lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"if your well hung and dont know how to use owch lol "

This, I agree with.

However, with Vince being 8" and as a female who likes the sensation of being stretched, I'll admit my excitement isn't exactly going to flutter at the idea of fucking anyone below 6". Unless they had a really decent girth...

- Amy. x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


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But when it comes to oral sex some women have very big mouths so to them it may seem like they are sucking a maggot, lol "

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.


"if your well hung and dont know how to use owch lol

This, I agree with.

However, with Vince being 8" and as a female who likes the sensation of being stretched, I'll admit my excitement isn't exactly going to flutter at the idea of fucking anyone below 6". Unless they had a really decent girth...

- Amy. x"

Yes i agree, its all well and good saying its how they use it but you still need to be a decent size/girth to get a proper feeling. Anyone under 6inch and thin prob wouldnt be able to stretch to get a nice feeling. Sad but true

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

So much talk about cock size (as ever)never much said about the other part in the equation.

The simple answer to your question OP is that cock size matters to those it matters to. Now if you were to ask Angie she would tell you cock size is quite important cos more than 7 inches is too much with 5 to 6.5 being the ideal. As for girth anything from as thick as a finger to as thick as a fist is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important to me not fussed on anything under 7 " and has to be thick....like a full feeling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very important to me not fussed on anything under 7 " and has to be thick....like a full feeling xx "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The simple answer to your question OP is that cock size matters to those it matters to."

Exactly, this isn't some sort of bazaar where you haggle, you simply whop your salami on the counter and the lady is either interested or she isn't.

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By *lleyCat1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"The simple answer to your question OP is that cock size matters to those it matters to.

Exactly, this isn't some sort of bazaar where you haggle, you simply whop your salami on the counter and the lady is either interested or she isn't."

Not quite how I'd put it but both posts are right I suppose!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

If men believed in reincarnation they'd ask to come back as a spider, so they could hear a woman scream OMG LOOK AT THE SIZE OF THAT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a woman and i definetly woudnt say its about size its how you use it in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after reading many forums which debate this topic there is a little of its not what youve got its how you use it.

But then I have met what I imagine to be the smallest cock, and what I imagine to be amongst the largest cock too.

There are pro's and cons to both (and the ones in between) and as far as it goes I prefer a bit of variety!

P.S anyone who wants to find out their "exact" size google "theyfit" who have condoms in 95 different sizes! and will give you a measurement similar to a bra size lol.

Hopefully this will mean people dont feel they have to compare their cocks to every day items!

Inno x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on who cares how big it is just as long as you can use it

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By *ucyhenry69Couple
over a year ago

Hampton


"if your well hung and dont know how to use owch lol

This, I agree with.

However, with Vince being 8" and as a female who likes the sensation of being stretched, I'll admit my excitement isn't exactly going to flutter at the idea of fucking anyone below 6". Unless they had a really decent girth...

- Amy. x

Yes i agree, its all well and good saying its how they use it but you still need to be a decent size/girth to get a proper feeling. Anyone under 6inch and thin prob wouldnt be able to stretch to get a nice feeling. Sad but true "

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By *ucyhenry69Couple
over a year ago

Hampton


"If men believed in reincarnation they'd ask to come back as a spider, so they could hear a woman scream OMG LOOK AT THE SIZE OF THAT! "

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Me and my 2 incher will be at the bus stop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some times size matters but only if the person yer playing with is devoid of any personality....

if i meet a guy wae passion the size of his cock dont matter a fuckin iota!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"some times size matters but only if the person yer playing with is devoid of any personality....

if i meet a guy wae passion the size of his cock dont matter a fuckin iota! "

While perfectly true, the question (and the reason I suspect) arises when, in context of a swing party, how many women turn up and think "I'm here looking for a good time" (to be crude, some don''t care who by as long as the lady or ladies get to fill 'er boots ... scuse the pun) compared to women that are looking for "nice personality".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on who cares how big it is just as long as you can use it "

Lots and lots of people, hence the frequency of these threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm only 11" and it really small by comparision - only the other day i was stood in a massive circle with other pretty well endowed beasts and they made me feel inadequate at my size - but i realise that size only matters if you dont know how to use to use it and to my surprise i managed to service 20 cows that day ....oh the life of bull is a hard one

Come on you didn't think i was being serious did you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the comment earlier that a ladies vagina is on average 4 inches deep. Its not the size of the vessel its the motion in the ocean! x

What about tongues and fingers its not all about the cock although 6 inch + is good lol x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"size dont matter its how you use it .and if your well hung and dont know how to use owch lol "
your so right ...... and smaller have more room to move around so to some feel just as good ...... its not size its HOW YOU USE what you have that counts ... and how much you put into it all. x

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By *aisy2012Couple
over a year ago

everywhere

Can never understand this looking for a "nice personality" bit Ok, you don't want your lovers to be total wankers but ultimately what we are after is sex - not a life partner.

Sexy always says I am the perfect fit for her & I'm nobody's idea of enormous. On the other hand she does (to the untutored eye) give a very good impression of a woman having fun when she's with a bigger built guy Could it be that it doesn't matter a damn if the vibe is good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some times size matters but only if the person yer playing with is devoid of any personality....

if i meet a guy wae passion the size of his cock dont matter a fuckin iota!

While perfectly true, the question (and the reason I suspect) arises when, in context of a swing party, how many women turn up and think "I'm here looking for a good time" (to be crude, some don''t care who by as long as the lady or ladies get to fill 'er boots ... scuse the pun) compared to women that are looking for "nice personality"."

I don't believe that's true at all, the question is more likely to arise amid all the demands made by some chicks on their profiles looking for vwe men! most of whom are unable to notice primitive raw passion even when the baws of it are bouncing off their chins!

Maybe if you focused more on havin fun yourself rather than on how much fun the women are havin...nowt wrong with a good old shag fest, but don't assume that means that all swinging women are so easy to please...if you're only skill is having a big cock hanging off ye, then I don't think its something I would be advertising never mind crowing about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience both on and off the scene, there's an element of curiosity and then an element of physical stimulation. For the uninitiated people (and I'm including curious husbands/partners who like to watch here!) it's curiosity to see if the rumours are true. Sometimes it's mind blowing, sometimes it's more of a slow passionate struggle :p - everyone is wired differently. For others it's a combination of mental and physical stimulation which has developed with experience.

Either way, it's the connection and 'motion' which makes a truly great experience...so in this sense size isn't everything! As one ex girlfriend put it, "it's like having a big steak - fantastic but not every night!".

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

if a guy is VWE or looks like his cock is a lethal weapon then I wont go there .. don't care how well we get on or how good looking he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience both on and off the scene, there's an element of curiosity and then an element of physical stimulation."

You may have a point, its easy to forget amid the constant, very average endowed guys claiming to be 'VWE' (cocks of 8 inches and upwards), that such cocks are actually rare and likely to be seen as rather fascinating by those who don't encounter them often - though I must admit I do get annoyed by couples sending me the 'come fuck my girlfriend while I watch' type messages who clearly haven't read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wish i had a 10 inch cock....im sick of this big fooker of mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"size dont matter its how you use it .and if your well hung and dont know how to use owch lol your so right ...... and smaller have more room to move around so to some feel just as good ...... its not size its HOW YOU USE what you have that counts ... and how much you put into it all. x "

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


"..... you simply whop your salami on the counter and the lady is either interested or she isn't."

That's what me banned from Tescos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... you simply whop your salami on the counter and the lady is either interested or she isn't.

That's what me banned from Tescos "

Conversely that's what got me a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this post quite funny in the fact yes I am not w/ e but most of the women on here seem to be bi and looking for fem on fem fun.. now last time I looked women don't have a cock lol so maybe the question should be how good you are at foreplay and how good is your tongue action lol can you make a woman's leg shake lol..

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By *otandhottererCouple
over a year ago

dursley

Not at all its the experiance and the naughtiness that does it for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to say even though I'm not big down stairs it filled a pram a cpl of times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of ladies' and couples' profiles on here say they're only interested in meeting guys who are vwe, thick girth, x inches plus, etc., but how important to you is size really?

(Yes, you've guessed correctly that I'm not vwe!)"

no point in having a big cock if your a shit shag or dont know how to use it.

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

Size 1. Is it in yet?

Size 2. Mmmmmmmmm

Size 3. You're not coming any where near me with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on who cares how big it is just as long as you can use it

Lots and lots of people, hence the frequency of these threads."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Conclusion:

An average vagina is 4 inches deep so it doesn't really matter how you measure up because you will fill a woman up with your penis while having sex.

"

Ahh, but you forgot about 'tenting' - the significant increase in maximum depth/width of a womans vagina when aroused. This means that most people won't experience the sensation of 'bottoming out' unless the guy is 7-8"+... or if the woman isn't aroused.

But then there's things like the angle of entry, how curved the male is, position used etc. The avg length is about an inch longer too (approx 6") according to most studies I've read.

I do find it amusing when blokes don't measure 'topside' too. Damm, if we went on longest external measurements (underside of shaft), it would make mine at least a foot long or something!

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Not at all its the experiance and the naughtiness that does it for me x"

Totally agree . It's how big that thing between your ears is that matters most . The best experiences I have had jointly with women have been when we were doing something kinky / filthy and 70% of the time the lady has been orgasming or squirting from the action of my tongue or fingers rather than my cock .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very important to me not fussed on anything under 7 " and has to be thick....like a full feeling xx "

yeah length for me isnt as important but the girth matters, i love to feel full and stretched etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all its the experiance and the naughtiness that does it for me x

Totally agree . It's how big that thing between your ears is that matters most. "

'Its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean blah blah blah yadda yadda yadda'

And when it comes to boats, a Galleon looks a lot sexier coming into port than a dinghy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course size matters!

I like to give BJs, so too small a cock is no fun to me.

However, I am very tight and rather short, so too long or thick a cock will be uncomfortable for me.

It is not just the size that matters though, as some cocks are more aesthetically pleasing than others, regardless of its size!

I love perving at cock pics, and tumblr has plenty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of you should try playing the deprivation game?

some of the best orasams i've had, has been without any cock or fingers near me, but suggestion of what you could have, but getting denied, teased? drives me nuts!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

get a shealth if it you fancy putting a few inches on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems like average is the new 8 incher.cant wait to see my cock in the morning, now that im vwe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all its the experiance and the naughtiness that does it for me x

Totally agree . It's how big that thing between your ears is that matters most.

'Its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean blah blah blah yadda yadda yadda'

And when it comes to boats, a Galleon looks a lot sexier coming into port than a dinghy."

Brilliant!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"some times size matters but only if the person yer playing with is devoid of any personality....

if i meet a guy wae passion the size of his cock dont matter a fuckin iota!

While perfectly true, the question (and the reason I suspect) arises when, in context of a swing party, how many women turn up and think "I'm here looking for a good time" (to be crude, some don''t care who by as long as the lady or ladies get to fill 'er boots ... scuse the pun) compared to women that are looking for "nice personality".

I don't believe that's true at all, the question is more likely to arise amid all the demands made by some chicks on their profiles looking for vwe men! most of whom are unable to notice primitive raw passion even when the baws of it are bouncing off their chins!

Maybe if you focused more on havin fun yourself rather than on how much fun the women are havin...nowt wrong with a good old shag fest, but don't assume that means that all swinging women are so easy to please...if you're only skill is having a big cock hanging off ye, then I don't think its something I would be advertising never mind crowing about it! "

A few things about your post:

1) So lady's pleasure over my pleasure is a bad thing? No wonder there are so many selfish men about (the "Turn up, shag, cum and leave.. don't care about the lady" sort)

2) I have never assumed all women are easy to please.. hence why I focus on her pleasure (I suspect this directly contradicts your point of my pleasure.. but it was your comment

3) I have never suggested I have a big cock - not on this thread, not on my profile (because I don't. Funny that).. what I did say i n an earlier post was "me and my 2 incher" i.e. TWO, not a typo for 12 (twelve).

I think you lost me on your response, but I suspect you intended to reply to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some of you should try playing the deprivation game?

some of the best orasams i've had, has been without any cock or fingers near me, but suggestion of what you could have, but getting denied, teased? drives me nuts! "

We do! :D

Nothing terribly unheard of, but Mrs was coming the other day from just neck kisses/biting.

Oh, and she was gaffa-taped up at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this talk of cock size and people overlook that it's the build up and lots of foreplay that really matter, yes I'm sure some ladies like the length or girth to be enough to fulfill there needs, but for me kissing and lots of exploring get me more aroused than the penetration , that said a nice tight one is lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife always says if they are too big I'm not interested, 7" is her max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this talk of cock size and people overlook that it's the build up and lots of foreplay that really matter"

No, its the actual SEX that really matters, and a big cock with a good technique typically yields the best experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this talk of cock size and people overlook that it's the build up and lots of foreplay that really matter

No, its the actual SEX that really matters, and a big cock with a good technique typically yields the best experience."

Well SEX (penetration) is the end product , and think that women do like a nice sized cock, but for me the fore play is the more enjoyable .. We just agree to disagree on that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like one that fits which for me is average. big is not good

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Plenty of ladies' and couples' profiles on here say they're only interested in meeting guys who are vwe, thick girth, x inches plus, etc., but how important to you is size really?

(Yes, you've guessed correctly that I'm not vwe!)"

Fairly important to me - though, as my profile states, a good cock wielded correctly is always a winner.

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By *ir LongLanceMan
over a year ago

hull

It is how you use it. Not the size.... in my experiences some times the lady can only manage half of it, and some cannot get enough, everybodys different.

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