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By *ncognitoGirl OP   Woman
33 weeks ago

Liverpool

Can we talk about people coming into your DMs like a bull in a china shop and trying to force their kinks and fetishes onto you. Not only is it bad manners, you might be triggering someone who has had a previous bad experience or some kind of phobia regarding that kink.

Be reasonable. If that is what you want then discuss it first rather than potentially traumatising someone. It’s about respect, it’s about boundaries. Don’t be creepy.

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By *LiamMan
33 weeks ago

Midlands

I wouldn't do it but now with how soft everyone is it would be easy 'trigger' someone with everything. 🤷‍♂️

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
33 weeks ago

Cheshire

We get a bit of that. But they tend to be easy to mould into silliness. It's quite surprising how far we can go before they realise what we're doing. We tend to turn it into sport rather than getting offended,

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
33 weeks ago

Coventry

They're welcome to do it but it doesn't get them very far. It's like part of the filtering process and that's a fail at first hurdle.

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By *ncognitoGirl OP   Woman
33 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I wouldn't do it but now with how soft everyone is it would be easy 'trigger' someone with everything. 🤷‍♂️"

It’s not about being soft. It’s about not being rude. I had someone message me yesterday, start on about his kink - not discussing, fully roleplaying, I asked him to stop. He carried on and got more graphic. That was probably part of the game for him. It’s not ok. It’s gross behaviour.

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By *londeAndBubblyKate7Woman
33 weeks ago

near the river medway

Yeah I get some sickos in my mailbox. I just deleted and block.

Unless I am feeling ultra bratty, then I make up some outrageous thing I want them to do. I usually find 80% back slowly away and deleted me.

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By *tannersMan
33 weeks ago

stanley

I may be a bit old fashioned but, unless a profile is explicitly saying it’s looking for some specific kink or fantasy, any conversation of that nature should be well down the line, possibly even after a first meet.🤷‍♂️

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Chichester

I get this alot from men They want me to be xyz and do xyz for them as it’s what gets them off lol

I have a cut paste reply . You need to wash your mouth out with soap you feral heathen

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