FabSwingers.com forum: Question for guys

By *et and Willing OP Couple
42 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Might regret asking and please guts just answer here.

Weve never involved another guy but had a bit of a scenario in mind where Mrs W&W is blindfold and on all fours in hotel room a guy comes to door gets let in and basically uses her for a quick cum and go , safe obviously. No oral , no kissing , no change of position just walks i gets himself hard quick fuck then leaves.

It may not ever happen but are ther guys that would be honest and respectable enough just to do what she wanted ?? Might seem bit naive but we only involved ladies before.

Thanks.

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By *ayd100Man
42 weeks ago

clitheroe

Probably every guy on here

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By *nexplored kinksMan
42 weeks ago

Oldham

Anybody that doesn't respect that wish is a total moron.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
42 weeks ago

Northampton

Would always be willing to help out with couple's looking for this scenario, I always play safe anyway, the utmost respect would be shown to the lady and all limits respected, good luck

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

It's sounds great in principle but I used to get requests like this from a local couple and I turned them down each time.

My thinking was that they didn't live together and the instructions were for me to meet him and he would take me to her home where she would be blindfolded and bent over the table.

I was to fuck her and leave and he would take me back to the car. I wasn't to speak to her at all.

They were well verified as a couple but I had no idea of consent and I also had to consider my own safety in going to a complete strangers house and the fact that they were allowing me as a stranger into that house.

I'm not dismissing your fantasy because it does sound good but I can only say there are other things I would have to consider as well.

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Anybody that doesn't respect that wish is a total moron. "

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In that case I'm a moron. It's not something I would do; not my predilection.

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By *d mirerMan
42 weeks ago

lost

"Probably every guy on here "

Unlikely

I appear to be in the same camp as Nero

Although I don’t know what that last word means I’m fairly sure I agree

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By *WB85Man
42 weeks ago

Staffordshire

You'll have lots of choice, but its a hard no from me.

I like the ladies I do this with to have some input in the decision and know who I am.

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By *allipygousMan
42 weeks ago

Leicester

"Probably every guy on here "

Speak for yourself please.

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By *et and Willing OP Couple
42 weeks ago

Nuneaton

It is a very tentative enquiry and a very specific request we know. Thanks for the replies.

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By *ene FairfaxMan
42 weeks ago

Dover

This is something I did a few years back with a couple that I did very well. Went to there's for lunch to see her strapped to the dining table to find she was lunch but blindfolded. It was a great hour lol

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By *eal tradieMan
42 weeks ago

Bournemouth

There are lot of meets like this on offer. I am sure you will find many guys to help you out with this scenario.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
42 weeks ago

Warrington

I don’t think there would be a shortage of willing guys

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By *m3232Man
42 weeks ago

maidenhead

I have done it before and that’s what turned them both on. Happy with almost any fantasy people want to play out.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I'd certainly be respectful and just do as a couple wanted if they had a specific scenario they wanted to do

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I would be respectful but it's not a scenario I'd be looking for.

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By *rown.studMan
42 weeks ago

Eccles

"Might regret asking and please guts just answer here.

It may not ever happen but are ther guys that would be honest and respectable enough just to do what she wanted ?? Might seem bit naive but we only involved ladies before.

Thanks."

Been there done that. If that’s what the couple is after that’s what I’m gonna do. 💯

That’s only how it should be if someone is not understanding or keeping to what you want then he should be kickedout immediately

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By *vaRoseWoman
42 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Might regret asking and please guts just answer here.

It may not ever happen but are ther guys that would be honest and respectable enough just to do what she wanted ?? Might seem bit naive but we only involved ladies before.

Thanks."

After the case of Gisèle Pelicot I’d urge you and anyone considering accepting to think about how you establish informed consent before proceeding.

She was given pills and repeatedly abused by strangers at the organisation of her husband. Many of the men involved claimed they’d been told she was fully consenting.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Hard pass from me.

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By *pentoall555Man
42 weeks ago

benfleet

Silly question I think

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By *tar_Buck_81Man
42 weeks ago

Exeter

"Probably every guy on here

Speak for yourself please.

I was thinking something similar. Im sure there are plenty of guys who would, but for me personally. It's a hard pass. To be treated as a dildo rather than a real person? No thanks. Im my view, sex needs connection, communication and mutual reciprocation.

OP, Im not kink shaming, you do you, but as you wanted opinions, here is mine.

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By *eyeYCouple
42 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

With prior interaction with them as a couple potentially, while single a couple asked me after meeting for a similar scenario and with the knowledge she was fully consenting I did.

Though generally it'd be a no thank you.. Mr

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By *andb13Couple
42 weeks ago

Bradford

My husband is l9oking for just this kind of meet and only does what is asked.. anything other than that isn't consensual

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
42 weeks ago

SW Scotland

"Might regret asking and please guts just answer here.

It may not ever happen but are ther guys that would be honest and respectable enough just to do what she wanted ?? Might seem bit naive but we only involved ladies before.

Thanks."

Nope, massive red flags in that whole scenario regards to consent. Anyone who takes part in that without discussing things with your wife first needs to give their head a serious wobble

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By *hisIsMe58Man
42 weeks ago

Winchester

Personally, it's not something I'd want to do. There is the whole issue surrounding consent, as well as it not being my cup of tea.

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By *umblefunMan
42 weeks ago

East Devon and London

Consent would be a big issue for me too.

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By *et and Willing OP Couple
42 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Thanks for all the replies guys. Tbh it was a scenario that we were never going to act upon. Just curious if guys would actually be willing to do this.

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By *tumped againMan
42 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I would say there are a fair few blokes on here with both hands up saying me please , especially since Mrs W&W is so sexy.

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
42 weeks ago

Cheshire

We'd probably do that too. Not sure if the blindfold would stay on though.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
42 weeks ago

Coventry

The trouble is in the words of Super Hans you can't trust people. So a few suggestions.

Obviously if your arranging on fab do your vetting well. Look for verifications, signs of experience in these things, general green flags (and red ones to avoid). Try get a vibe for them in the messages.

On a point of fab maybe look for experience tag team pairs (look in MM). They tend to be guys who do this sort of stuff a lot and you can tick off two guys for the price of one.

Try if you can get a last minute vibe check before you let them into the room. Have a little chat just to pick up on any concerns and issues of cleanliness.

Lay down the rules very clearly and question them to check they understood. Keep things very basic but clear as day.

Durring the act watch them like a hawk. Super Hans is right, you can't trust people. As hot as it is to watch you are the safety man so keep an eye on the ball, however sound and respectful they seem. Because the safety is all on you because she is blindfold and totally in the hands of others. So you much be assertive and ready to step in. Not always to go in fists flying, sometimes just to give a bit of guidance or a reminder.

Don't be afraid to invite too many. No doubt they'll be a few no shows and if they do all turn up I sure you won't complain about her getting an extra good seeing to. However maybe not go all Bonnie Blue and have them queuing around the block to get in.

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