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"Let's see if I tick a box for someone. Will my inbox be able to handle it?" Fingers crossed Mark! | |||
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"50 + is the new 30 + in my opinion " If you run for prime minister, I'd vote for you!! | |||
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"50 seems to be the average cut off age here on profile contact restrictions I hear you brother... I'm in | |||
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"50 seems to be the average cut off age here on profile contact restrictions I mean I can't respond or shag all the men here. The limit is mostly for here, otherwise too many messages. If I'm in a club I'm not going to age shame anyone, especially if we get on. I mean, they say older men want women 30 and under...I do not care. When I was 30, I was married to a man who was 31 and that felt right for me then. Now, men closer to my age still feels right. My brain goes to non-sexual if a man reminds me of my dad or my unborn son. Just the same way it views female body parts as clinical. lol! | |||
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"Yeah, I’m over that Hill But in honesty, I’m all good about it This is a great site for chatting with some people who are willing and looking at the others who are not Making the best of it Happy midweek day" What hill is this that you speak of? I literally was in Torture Garden this Saturday with people in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s..or is this an exclusively London mindset that we go out and do sexy, fun things until we are dead or in hospital? The 50 and 60-year-olds helped me tie up a man and spank him on Friday gone at one of my local swingers clubs. I mean, if you are an introvert, it is going to be harder....but still....you can go to a swinger club occasionally. You just have to plan for it. I think I'm going to die on that hill and not get over it at all. lol! Menopause be damned. | |||
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"I’m in, nobody seems to want over 50s these days. I’m 54 " Right you lot seem like you need a night out in London. Half my playmates are over 50. Every month I hang out with 50, 60 and 70-year-olds at the local swinger club. but there are swinger clubs and sex parties and fetish parties up and down the UK... are you all just introverts now? | |||
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"60 in just over 4 wks & still as rampant as I was at 16. X" that's the spirit. off you go to find some bunnies. lol! | |||
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"As I moved further away from 50 things have got harder, having a break for 3 years due to cancer and now 56, things are nonexistent. Someone restore my faith in Fab. IN" I dunno about Fab but the swinger scene is full of 50 and 60-year-olds in the clubs and socials. Up and down the country, and also when I went out to France. | |||
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"50 seems to be the average cut off age here on profile contact restrictions | |||
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"50 today Happy Birthday xxx | |||
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"I’m in, nobody seems to want over 50s these days. I’m 54 Right you lot seem like you need a night out in London. Half my playmates are over 50. Every month I hang out with 50, 60 and 70-year-olds at the local swinger club. but there are swinger clubs and sex parties and fetish parties up and down the UK... are you all just introverts now?" I'm not, I still have fun at clubs with older playmates | |||
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"55 hear and it's hard work on here." Just see how it "improves" when you hit 60! | |||
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"20 years swinging this year. Still got it. I think If it hasn't dropped off then you still got it mate. | |||
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"Meeting direct from fab is hard. I started to get meets when I began to go to socials. Meeting people face to face is much better. Can get the vibe, see them without filters, as they are rather than a grainy 10 year old photo. If I chat to a woman I click with, we arrange to have a 121 social at a later date and go from there… I’ve ended up meeting women whose age range I’m out of because we met at a social so would never have been able to message them directly. " Exactly. I don't have a lot of naked public photos so I don't exactly get people turned on here and I'm plus-sized. But in person, I think people don't hate me. Lol! | |||
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"45 seems to be a common cutoff on here. When I tipped over 45 I went from sometimes getting over 200 profile views in a day to at worst a handful! Annoyingly a lot of people tell me I look much younger in person lol!" I don't even look at the profile views...Lol! Stop doing that to yerself mate. | |||
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"I’m in, nobody seems to want over 50s these days. I’m 54 Right you lot seem like you need a night out in London. Half my playmates are over 50. Every month I hang out with 50, 60 and 70-year-olds at the local swinger club. but there are swinger clubs and sex parties and fetish parties up and down the UK... are you all just introverts now?I'm not, I still have fun at clubs with older playmates And no doubt the younger playmate too. Younger women love a tall man! Lol! Also Reading is in the home counties...practically London. You are already mixing with the Londoners if those are Home County clubs. | |||
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"I am in my 60s. F and m/f have so much choice on here, so easy to aim for the under 50 . Not a lot I can do about it." Join Ignite Heathrow club. You will have much more choice and meet more couples and single women who don't care about your age in person. | |||
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"Why would a swinger 20-40yo want someone over 50? It doesn't make sense. But I would like to see more 40+ swingers not cutting us off. Us 50+ people to have a lot too offer. Maybe fabs should have a 50+ friendly tick box. Or a 50+ friendly chat room. Either way I'm in and flying the 50+ flag. " A lot of people only want to play with people under 40 even if they are over 40 because that's all they see in popular porn which fuels their fantasies. Rare to see a dad bod in porn. The men are often very slim or ripped...the reality is most of us middle-aged people have an extra pound or tire or two as our bodies slow down hormonally. I'm selective in my porn because I don't want my brain wired that way and my brain has addictive tendencies! Usually it's younger women or younger looking women with older men across the board but I find more couples closer in age in swinging reality. Hormones and menopause knock a lot of women out and we feel totally unsexy! I play women's football and the 50 plus and 60 plus ladies do get a lot of injuries so that makes them even less likely to want to do rumpy pumpy. I have hip pain but I just find a good position for rumpy pump and once the dopamine and adrenaline arousal hit I can feel my hip pain anymore. Lol! Also helps when I get a massage from playmates and others in the club. Women over 50 seem to be scared of the cancer risk of HRT and scared that lifting weights in the gym will make them look like a man. I don't care about any of that. I just want my body and mind to work so I do whatever ( sex included) to keep going. I'm a fixer and determined. One lady said that she wanted a hot young man because she didn't have boyfriend with 6 packs when she was younger. So that's another reason, I guess. My playmates come in all shapes, sizes and heights. So I guess for me it's more of a mental connection. | |||
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"20 years swinging this year. Still got it. I think Cackle. If it drops off, you can still be pegged and have a prostate orgasm. | |||
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"50 is my minimum age haha " Dammit I’m 46 in a few days Inwill have to wait a few more years | |||
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"50 is my minimum age haha " Oh no surely not xxx | |||
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"20 years swinging this year. Still got it. I think Are you offering to peg? asking for myself not a friend. You get a massage in return!! | |||
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"Why would a swinger 20-40yo want someone over 50? It doesn't make sense. But I would like to see more 40+ swingers not cutting us off. Us 50+ people to have a lot too offer. Maybe fabs should have a 50+ friendly tick box. Or a 50+ friendly chat room. Either way I'm in and flying the 50+ flag. A lot of people only want to play with people under 40 even if they are over 40 because that's all they see in popular porn which fuels their fantasies. Rare to see a dad bod in porn. The men are often very slim or ripped...the reality is most of us middle-aged people have an extra pound or tire or two as our bodies slow down hormonally. I'm selective in my porn because I don't want my brain wired that way and my brain has addictive tendencies! Usually it's younger women or younger looking women with older men across the board but I find more couples closer in age in swinging reality. Hormones and menopause knock a lot of women out and we feel totally unsexy! I play women's football and the 50 plus and 60 plus ladies do get a lot of injuries so that makes them even less likely to want to do rumpy pumpy. I have hip pain but I just find a good position for rumpy pump and once the dopamine and adrenaline arousal hit I can feel my hip pain anymore. Lol! Also helps when I get a massage from playmates and others in the club. Women over 50 seem to be scared of the cancer risk of HRT and scared that lifting weights in the gym will make them look like a man. I don't care about any of that. I just want my body and mind to work so I do whatever ( sex included) to keep going. I'm a fixer and determined. One lady said that she wanted a hot young man because she didn't have boyfriend with 6 packs when she was younger. So that's another reason, I guess. My playmates come in all shapes, sizes and heights. So I guess for me it's more of a mental connection." I believe everyone has the right to choose for their reason. Afterall it is their body. Football for over 50s is hard on the body and like you said its high risk of injury. At my age 50+ functional strength training, flexibility and join mobility most benificial. And I bet no man would say no to a woman 50+ who invests in the body with weights. That's a plus plus to me. get in the gym ladies.... | |||
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