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By *attooedbbwandhubby OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Dorset

Probably been asked 1000 times before and will be asked another 1000 no doubt. But how do you find single men who actually listen to you when you message them in what you want to experience with them… and is it possible via this website (we know it is but feels long way off)

We are new to it so will be very guarded with people to begin with, but we openly talk to those who are just normal men. That’s all, a normal man who is happy to share a threesome with us, nothing wild, just a decent bloke who enjoys sex and understands that what we will enjoy is something pretty vanilla but with 3 people.

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By *eltic connectionCouple
42 weeks ago

Manningtree

What you're looking for is harder to find than a single lady!

We suggest you start trying social events which are well attended and see what you find there. The ones we help organise, everyone is vetted before being invited.

The other option is clubs and parties where the selection to choose from will be lower.

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
42 weeks ago

Cheshire

This is where reading veris will pay off. Check they are meet veris and not just cam. You could maybe reach out to those that left the veris for some reassurance.

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By *alaciousDeviantsCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds/York

We'd look at other couples verifications, looking for guys with good verifications from other couples

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By *asha86Couple
42 weeks ago

walsall

We find you get a feel for someone after a few messages but then a social does help before any play.

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
42 weeks ago

Louth

Just go to socials, talk to guys in front of you, get to know them, that is the only way we will ever allow a single guy inside any bedroom.

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By *asha86Couple
42 weeks ago

walsall


"Just go to socials, talk to guys in front of you, get to know them, that is the only way we will ever allow a single guy inside any bedroom. "

Great advice! We have found social events are a really good way of meeting a mix of people and we are regulars at the LV socail weve been to 11 socials in total and have made lots of friends in the scene which is good for club visits too.

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By *attooedbbwandhubby OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Dorset

Thanks for the advice, appreciate it. We will look to see if any events near us may be worth checking out.

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By *J coupleCouple
42 weeks ago

stone

We must have been lucky. We’ve liked and arranged to meet a few single men and they’ve all turned up and all were what we expected. Read their verifications and look at the profiles of those they’ve met.

Good luck.

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By *oelMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels


"Probably been asked 1000 times before and will be asked another 1000 no doubt. But how do you find single men who actually listen to you when you message them in what you want to experience with them… and is it possible via this website (we know it is but feels long way off)

We are new to it so will be very guarded with people to begin with, but we openly talk to those who are just normal men. That’s all, a normal man who is happy to share a threesome with us, nothing wild, just a decent bloke who enjoys sex and understands that what we will enjoy is something pretty vanilla but with 3 people."

Can I ask, what do you usually experience when you message a man on fab, and say what you want. How do the men respond and mess it up?

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
42 weeks ago

newcastle

We got with a neighbour just walink dogs. It's easier with a stranger cause you just say goodbye. We have been with james 9 months now and it great. If hubby's busy James will take me out and stuff. First kiss was terrifying. I had to send hubby out of room. But I must admit its wayyyy better with someone you actually fancy xxxx

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By *attooedbbwandhubby OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Dorset

Honestly sometimes it’s hard to have even a normal hello exchange etc without it being… U got big titZ, me smash, wanna come round now

We don’t actually expect a lot, just a normal conversation, if it goes well we will swap pics and even go to telegram and be naughtier

The Mrs is honest if she has an attraction and if not we are polite to say no if we have that conversation

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