FabSwingers.com forum: Are we Paying for sex?

By *ylo7 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Clayton, Manchester

Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..

Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

No🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *valanche1001Man
35 weeks ago

Leeds

So by the same logic going to a normal club, meeting someone, buying them a drink maybe and heading back for a one night stand would also be equivalent to ‘paying for sex’? 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *artorialMan
35 weeks ago

weymouth

No you're paying for the environment just like a nightclub

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
35 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Poor old Craig David had to pay for an entire day or two before that Wednesday sex 🤣

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By *eal tradieMan
35 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I guess you can as you paying for everything else in this life

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By *valanche1001Man
35 weeks ago

Leeds

"Poor old Craig David had to pay for an entire day or two before that Wednesday sex 🤣"

He’ll be ok, I don’t think he’s short of a bob or two

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Na its a bit like a hotel, you pay for the bed but its up to you if you sleep in it

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By *ustus5555Woman
35 weeks ago

Nottingham

I've obviously been to different clubs to the op. 🤷

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By *parky123Man
35 weeks ago

Lincoln

The nightclub analogy is good, as you pay to get in those too. The difference is that in a nightclub, someone will let you buy drinks for them all night before going off with someone else rather than a swingers club where they’ll tell you pretty quickly if there’s sex on the cards

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By *hil most chillMan
35 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

While you are technically paying, you're getting a completely different experience to hiring a sex worker. Depends what you're after at the end of the day

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
35 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

Your paying entry fees not the individual your having sex with.

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By *iddle ManMan
35 weeks ago

Walsall

"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..

Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "

How many clubs have you been to?

Definitely not paying for it, entry does in not way guarantee sex.

You are paying a minimal amount to use the club facilities and the event you are attending.

A club to me, is a social with the chance and location for any extra activities.

Unless it is a specific event or I have pre arranged something then the chances are slim for single guys at clubs just going on the off chance.

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By *aomilatteCouple
35 weeks ago

Midlands

We have a few bills to hand out! Our besties are going to be skint 🤑

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By *adtaffladMan
35 weeks ago

Rhyl

No its not paying fot sex . Sex isn't guaranteed in a club and it is no different to paying to get into a vanilla club and meeting someone. You are paying for the night out and that is it.

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By *elshguybiMan
35 weeks ago

Bournemouth

For me social are about making connections and not about fun

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. You're paying for entry into a place which might increase your chances, and will increase your chances of socialising with swingers and adjacent people.

People who assume that it will get them sex tend to have a bad time.

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By *adtaffladMan
35 weeks ago

Rhyl

"No. You're paying for entry into a place which might increase your chances, and will increase your chances of socialising with swingers and adjacent people.

People who assume that it will get them sex tend to have a bad time."

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
35 weeks ago

Stoke

Everybody pays for sex, we all pay out money on life and get to have sex too.

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By *he MinionMan
35 weeks ago

Surrey

"Na its a bit like a hotel, you pay for the bed but its up to you if you sleep in it

Sometimes there is also no gaurentee if you will even be in it or who will be in it with you

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By *elshguybiMan
35 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Sex is something still to be experienced

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
35 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Tea and cake isn’t getting any cheaper

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By *izandpaulCouple
35 weeks ago

merseyside

"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..

Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "

Probably best you go to a club, pay the entrance fee.

Once inside, go up to the first couple or single lady and explain as you have paid to enter a swingers club you feel it fair and reasonable to demand sex with them.

You may have to repeat your demands to the husband twice, as his first response will be something like "sorry, what did you say?"

Don't thing many more words would be used.

Let us know how you get along and what ward you are on, so we can send you some grapes.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
35 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..

Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion.

Probably best you go to a club, pay the entrance fee.

Once inside, go up to the first couple or single lady and explain as you have paid to enter a swingers club you feel it fair and reasonable to demand sex with them.

You may have to repeat your demands to the husband twice, as his first response will be something like "sorry, what did you say?"

Don't thing many more words would be used.

Let us know how you get along and what ward you are on, so we can send you some grapes.

Oh and if you don’t get sex, having paid at the door for it, I would suggest a strong worded letter to management demanding a refund!

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By *layfull pairingCouple
35 weeks ago

Bristol

The government will be taxing sex soon enough ...so yes, we will all be paying Rachael from accounts

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

No, you are paying for the amenities, a place to meet like minded individuals, to converse and socialise and if the mood takes an area to go further.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
35 weeks ago

Coventry

Is paying to get into a nightclub paying for sex?

Is attending a speed dating event paying for sex?

Does going to a swingers club guarantee you sex?

Clearly the answer is no. Because you're paying entry to a swingers club, that's all. To enjoy the environment and facilities. All of the above scenarios could lead to sex if you hooked up with the right person. But you would say going to a nightclub is paying for sex and neither is going to a swingers club. Any sex you get in a swinger club is not paid for and it's not an entitlement either. It's just free sex between consenting adults just like any other scenario.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

If you attend a club under the impression that your entry fee entitles you to sex then in your mind you're paying for it. If you don't have that impression then you're not.

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By *andb69Couple
35 weeks ago

leeds

No. You can pay for club entry, but it certainly doesn't guarantee sex: Sex is down to mutual attraction and if that isn't there you won't get any.

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By *ammatraMan
35 weeks ago

Liverpool

No, BCS you're paying the entrance fee not for sex

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By *ealitybitesMan
35 weeks ago

Belfast

Some people are of the opinion that paying a site supporters fee here entitles them to sex and they get a bit arsey when that doesn't happen and blame others.

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By *9alMan
35 weeks ago

Bridgend

"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..

Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "

no its not the same, I say this as someone who has visited a few massage parlors & working girls

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

The clubs provide a facility, they provide the staffing and everything else that goes with it.

People go there and expect a hygienic atmospheric environment, where they know they will be in the company of like-minded people

They may go there hoping for a good social night only

They may go there hoping for some sexual fun

However I doubt anyone goes there EXPECTING sex

The clubs don't guarantee you will have that kind of fun, because they are not there to provide that

Therefore you are not paying for sex, you are paying for entrance to the facility

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Everybody pays for sex, we all pay out money on life and get to have sex too. "

We get to have sex too? No one told me 🤦‍♂️😆

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Let's have it right, are club meets essentially paying for sex? Just like massage parlours, strip clubs, e.t.c..

Events are just a mirage and yes, you can socialise without sex involved but you can socialise outside the clubs. Just opening up the discussion. "

It can be difficult to socialise outside of events or clubs with like-minded people in a non-judgemental environment where you’re generally accepted for being yourself.

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By *izaandstuMan
20 weeks ago

Wigan local area

If everyone involved is happy with paying or being paid then fair play to everyone involved they all happy nobody is losing

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By *ornLee86Man
20 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

why not paying or being paid - fun times

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Surely sex at a club isn’t guaranteed. Unless of course you have arranged a meet at one in which case it becomes just that - a meet. The payment to enter the club would be equivalent of paying to have a meal on a date??

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

The cost of running a club is astronomical, we are definitely paying for a safe space and the atmosphere not for sex

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By *ormagenericlblokeMan
20 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Sorry OP, that's a poor take

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