FabSwingers.com forum: Rudeness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is not a sweeping statement but some of the guys on here if I met them in a pub and they were as rude to my face they would get my drink in it.

Ive had tantrums because I didn't reply quick enough or wont drop my knickers asap for them.

Please someone tell me all this is worth the agro?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you do eventually find a bloke/woman/couple that you like, it WILL be worth it. Don't let your standards slip and don't be afraid of blocking.

Your profile is hidden, so plenty of guys on here will just cut and paste messages without any thought as to who they are sending them to. You don't have to hide away, just use the filters available and be as minimal as you like with your profile description.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you do eventually find a bloke/woman/couple that you like, it WILL be worth it. Don't let your standards slip and don't be afraid of blocking.

Thanks for your advice ive listed my profile again and let's see what a new day brings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to develop tough skin and ignore the rudeness to find the good...ive met loads of nice men/women/couples ...good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not a sweeping statement but some of the guys on here if I met them in a pub and they were as rude to my face they would get my drink in it.

Ive had tantrums because I didn't reply quick enough or wont drop my knickers asap for them.

Please someone tell me all this is worth the agro?

Yes, it is worth it. There are a lot of fakes, dreamers, picture collectors and rude people on here but there are good ones too

I don't answer one liners or those obviously haven't bothered reading my profile anymore. Sometimes saying no to someone will just give you more grief! Good luck and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about them,small minded tossers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet is full of idiots, this site is no different. It's the idiots' fault, not the site and not yours. Use the block button the same as you'd chuck a drink.

I always meet for a coffee first. That seems to help. The 'fuck n go' rude types don't like coffee.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"This is not a sweeping statement but some of the guys on here if I met them in a pub and they were as rude to my face they would get my drink in it.

Ive had tantrums because I didn't reply quick enough or wont drop my knickers asap for them.

Please someone tell me all this is worth the agro?

The block button can be your best friend! It is worth persevering, there are some great guys on here! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you I think a coffee date would help me to find the nice guys, and also developing a tough skin as I think at the moment I'm letting it get to me.

Also the block button, ive not used it yet but maybe it's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The internet is full of idiots, this site is no different. It's the idiots' fault, not the site and not yours. Use the block button the same as you'd chuck a drink.

I always meet for a coffee first. That seems to help. The 'fuck n go' rude types don't like coffee.

I've never heard it put so succinctly before. I don't like coffee myself though, it's got to be tea and cake for me.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We always tell the guy first meet is social and they usually respond with .. no chance of a bit of fun then? which then ends the messages from us. For those that are willing to meet for just a drink are usually the decent guys that we end up having fun with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always tell the guy first meet is social and they usually respond with .. no chance of a bit of fun then? which then ends the messages from us. For those that are willing to meet for just a drink are usually the decent guys that we end up having fun with.."

Same here. The genuine guys on here who 'get' what swinging is all about are always more than happy to meet for a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you I think a coffee date would help me to find the nice guys, and also developing a tough skin as I think at the moment I'm letting it get to me.

Also the block button, ive not used it yet but maybe it's time

I always go on coffee dates first , cos if conversation doesn't flow or there is no spark , I can just leave .

There are some lovely chaps here so worth persevering .

I have developed a thick skin now , to when I started .. Just takes time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The internet is full of idiots, this site is no different. It's the idiots' fault, not the site and not yours. Use the block button the same as you'd chuck a drink.

I always meet for a coffee first. That seems to help. The 'fuck n go' rude types don't like coffee.

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