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By *icto07985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Romney marsh

Would you trust a woman who's profile pics are all at least 15 years old and when you meet you wouldn't recognise her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how do you know they are that old? have you asked for a recent picture of her?

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By *icto07985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Romney marsh

No I went and met her,didn't even recognise her from her face photo

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

So what did you do? Did you ask about her pics? People change hell of a lot in 15 years, no wonder you didn't recognise her

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We once met someone and are 50 /50 sure it was her mum that turned up !!!! Hahahaha

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By *icto07985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Romney marsh

I just had a cup of tea with her and tried to have a conversation but she got a bit funny and asked me to leave

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

Why agree to meet someone whose pics are 15 year old ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We once met someone and are 50 /50 sure it was her mum that turned up !!!! Hahahaha "

ha ha I think we met her too lol

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By *icto07985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Romney marsh

I didn't know they were that old until I met her,she looked the age she's meant to be in them

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By *icto07985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Romney marsh

Miss blue angel looks like your playing the same trick as your pics don't look like your 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is always going to send their best face pic, only natural. Seen this before when a guy described himself as curvy and his pic was of someone quite slim, he admitted that the pic was 8 years old lol. DUH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly dont know why 50 appears old to some people..theres lots in their 50's more attractive than those in their 20's...its a fact

*and its not just about enhancing bits here n there via pics..I mean in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope had this happen to me,its false advertising.

I look like my pics i think and get told i do...its not hard with mobiles these days to have upto date ones.

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

well i get the opposite comments that i look better and younger than my pics heheheheh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't trust someone with fifteen year old pictures, if they are deceiving you before they even meet you it's not a good sign.

Yearly pictures isn't hard to achieve, we are currently doing weekly lol.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

It will come out in the end so its best to be truthful...we are who we are & people will always prefer the real you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen twice, turned up with a female friend to meet another guy for a potential mmf with us, pictures sent looked like him but 20 stone lighter!! and second time woman wasn't anywhere near as pretty as her pics, was same person just not true reflection of her looks.

on the flip side have met people who look younger and more attractive than their pics in the flesh, which is always a good supprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the old photo meet done to me, he told me that he was an ex-ruby player and then when i first clapped eyes on him "Big Daddy" came to mind (for all those that's maybe to young, he was a wrestler late 60's early 70's)

The photo was at least a good ten years old hence to say i was out of there and photo stopped play !!

The oldest of my photo's are a year right up to the present day..... What you see is what you get !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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The oldest of my photo's are a year right up to the present day..... What you see is what you get !! "

Same with us . I would hate to turn up to meet someone knowing that I bore faint resemblance to what they were expecting.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I met a guy off a dating site years ago who had pictures on of him. But they were off him about ten years ago when ge had a full set of teeth and dress sence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it funny when people tell us we look just like our pics!!! Obviously a lot of people on here must use old ones.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've not had anyone that has deceived me with face pics, but met a man who said he was 6 foot in height and had a 9 inch cock! In the flesh, he was 5'7" and had a 5 inch cock. I'm wasn't disappointed with the sizes, I was disappointed that he lied and used fake cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the early days of swinging, I went to meet someone once and a bald overweight man was waving as I walked into the pub. I thought what the Feck in your pictures you had hair...why oh why as I do find bald guys sexy but it was not what I was expecting

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've not had anyone that has deceived me with face pics, but met a man who said he was 6 foot in height and had a 9 inch cock! In the flesh, he was 5'7" and had a 5 inch cock. I'm wasn't disappointed with the sizes, I was disappointed that he lied and used fake cock pics. "

I get that a lot. They have 6' tall in their profile and I have to say 'so why am I taller than you?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a cup of tea with her and tried to have a conversation but she got a bit funny and asked me to leave"

Why did she get funny and ask you to leave? She was the one who misled you! Hope she paid for your tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The oldest of my photo's are a year right up to the present day..... What you see is what you get !!

Same with us . I would hate to turn up to meet someone knowing that I bore faint resemblance to what they were expecting."

Mine are usually posted the day I take them - so the date at the bottom is usually a giveaway as to the age of the pics!

If I suddenly stop posting pics you'll know I'm busy getting surgery!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I had a meet turn up who was shorter than he claimed or looked in his pics, had very thick glasses which he didn't have in pics, and a bald spot on the top of his head like a monk! He wore a jumper my grandad would have thought inviolate and was y and scrawny again unlike his pics.

Guess who went home frustrated and who was bloody furious.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

*uncool not inviolate

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

Huv ye cawed tradin standards ? ....

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Would never meet without a webcam chat first so this will never happen to us (thankfully)

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Would never meet without a webcam chat first so this will never happen to us (thankfully)"

Never cam. Anyone could record it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always get told we look better in the flesh than our pics, mainly the face pics we find it hard to take "false photos".

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61


"Would never meet without a webcam chat first so this will never happen to us (thankfully)

Never cam. Anyone could record it."

Can ye ?? .. a mean do they ? .... so errr .... how do you .... a mean they ?.....

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Im only talking about using the cam to verify identities etc, not have cam sex

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Im only talking about using the cam to verify identities etc, not have cam sex"

And what if conversation becomes sexual? I just cannot risk it.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Im only talking about using the cam to verify identities etc, not have cam sex

And what if conversation becomes sexual? I just cannot risk it."

If you dont want the conversation to become sexual then you dont. Its simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not had anyone that has deceived me with face pics, but met a man who said he was 6 foot in height and had a 9 inch cock! In the flesh, he was 5'7" and had a 5 inch cock. I'm wasn't disappointed with the sizes, I was disappointed that he lied and used fake cock pics. "

I've only met two guys who had been honest and were as tall as their profiles claimed - one was 6' 2 and the other really was 6' 7 - YUMMY!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Im only talking about using the cam to verify identities etc, not have cam sex

And what if conversation becomes sexual? I just cannot risk it.

If you dont want the conversation to become sexual then you dont. Its simple."

No, it isn't. I've tried. I might not say anything sexual but they can before I click off. I've had that before. So I never ever cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say we wouldnt be impressed if this was done on us.

Our pics are all at most one year old, this was deception pure and simple

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Im only talking about using the cam to verify identities etc, not have cam sex

And what if conversation becomes sexual? I just cannot risk it.

If you dont want the conversation to become sexual then you dont. Its simple.

No, it isn't. I've tried. I might not say anything sexual but they can before I click off. I've had that before. So I never ever cam."

I dont see where this is a problem if you arent doing anything sexual. Maybe Im missing something.

Each to their own though. We only meet 2 or 3 times a year at most so dont want to take any chances with a profile that could be fake or pics that could be years out of date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt trust a profile with pics more than 2 years old.... I'd totally give a wide birth!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Im only talking about using the cam to verify identities etc, not have cam sex

And what if conversation becomes sexual? I just cannot risk it.

If you dont want the conversation to become sexual then you dont. Its simple.

No, it isn't. I've tried. I might not say anything sexual but they can before I click off. I've had that before. So I never ever cam.

I dont see where this is a problem if you arent doing anything sexual. Maybe Im missing something.

Each to their own though. We only meet 2 or 3 times a year at most so dont want to take any chances with a profile that could be fake or pics that could be years out of date."

It's been more than 2 years since I've been fooled so I must be doing something right.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Its never happened to us.

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By *amie_leighWoman
over a year ago

coventry

I met a guy off another site whose picture was 10 years out of date and I had asked him when we were chatting how old the pic was. I left very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never meet without a webcam chat first so this will never happen to us (thankfully)

Never cam. Anyone could record it.

Can ye ?? .. a mean do they ? .... so errr .... how do you .... a mean they ?..... "

Seriously, how is it done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand why people upload old pics, knowing there fully intent on meeting someone.

Do they not realise it's gonna grossly backfire on the meet?

Bloody hell.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

i always have up to date pics on my profile, as well as older ones from when i first came onto fab 7 years ago lol

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