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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Nice face

Fit body

Big cock/Breasts

Funny

Intelligence ?

By honest ... I know a lot of people say they have to make me laugh. But that would mean the comedians are the greatest sex symbols and they are not.

If you look at the top 20 most shagable people you see that looks seem to be the major factor ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 23/05/13 16:38:25]"

Oops, wrong account

For me, a lot of it is about the face... Believe it or not!

...

And the ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i am meeting a man from here, nice face, inteligent, fit body, preferably.

by fit i mean not too overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall women with long legs...

And those two Dimples above the bum are a sexy treat.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'll have the comedians please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a pretty face.... Without it, doesn't make it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Attraction first and foremost!

Then intelligence and witty banter....I don't ask for much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first, always

if someone sends me a pic and i'm not attracted to him i'm not going to find out if he's a nice guy cause I wouldn't play with him even if he was

The deal breakers personality tho, no matter how good looking they are if we don't get on its a no go

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I like a woman with a majority shareholding in a brewery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pulse "

Lol

Height and charm....good spelling too actually.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Witty, friendly, intelligent, those come first with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a pulse first...then wittyness and banter n finally the ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be an attraction obviously! I do however love a man with a great sense of humour! A pretty face just helps!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tall women with long legs...

And those two Dimples above the bum are a sexy treat. "

I have these! Call it my coconut arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wit,charm,strong arms, nice eyes for a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!

Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle

The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour

Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.

But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!

Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle

The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour

Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.

But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow "

You don't ask for much, do you? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence and attraction are paramount for me..

It's one thing having a real hottie infront of you. However, if the personality is dire or zero the intial impact of physical chemistry evaporates for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall, black and metallic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy polite and genuine

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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago

North of Manchester

They can have all the above...

but if they cannot kiss then it goes no where for me.

And yes I have stopped a meet because of not being able to kiss. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice face and personality.

And on few occasions a great personality has made people appeal to me that wouldn't normally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically....broad shoulders and a great smile. J is a breast man but women with dimples go to the front of the line.

But all that means nothing without a good personality. Like the poster above there have been times I've been attracted to a man on personality alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll have the comedians please. "

Roy 'Chubby' Brown has just boarded a train to Edinburgh on the strength of this post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big smile, nice eyes then good tits, not big or small, more about shape. With a good size nipple preferred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her eyes and bottom, rather bizarrely.

The eyes say passion, happy, sexy thoughts and more.

The bottom shape has to be girlie, hips, shapely, .... Just love the view from behind ... Although not at all fond of anal.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

If it's a meet from here then looks first, but even after meeting, if they have a poor personality then it's a no go. Looks aren't everything.

If it's at a club then sparkling personality every time. Making me laugh opens my legs. Must be a medical thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the most amazing body but i was blessed with good genes and a pretty face and it seems to work for me.

I always go a nice face and good personality...if i can have banter with someone and they make me smile and there is the attraction there,Everything else seems to fall into place.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Nice face

Fit body

Big cock and/or Breasts

Funny

Intelligence"

All of the above! I am greedy and not ashamed of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction first and foremost!

Then intelligence and witty banter....I don't ask for much "

Agree with you but a six-pack and a nice cock also help...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Confidence is a winner for me!! Anything else is just a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cartoon curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above, but regardless, a willingness to shag me usually seals the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious answer now !

A look that is attractive to me backed up with a laid back attitude and similar sexual interests

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

They have to be sexually appealing to attract me but articulate and intelligent to keep my interest...oh, and not have a voice like Joe Pasquale!

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"They have to be sexually appealing to attract me but articulate and intelligent to keep my interest...oh, and not have a voice like Joe Pasquale! "

So David Beckham would not do it for you then ? hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face

Boobage

Humour

In that order.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Brain

Shoes

Bum

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!

Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle

The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour

Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.

But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow

You don't ask for much, do you? Lol"

Ah but black metal isn't that you she is describing mainly, except you have more to offer as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is a massive turn on for me, like a man to throw me around in the bedroom lol

Pleased to read some men find the dimples above bum sexy! I hate mine

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP. this is my shopping list.

Taller than me

Good body (not skinny)

Fantastic bum

Good looking

Naughty sense of humour

Full lips

Good conversationalist

The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP. this is my shopping list.

Taller than me

Good body (not skinny)

Fantastic bum

Good looking

Naughty sense of humour

Full lips

Good conversationalist

The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl. "

Damn I'm only 5'2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In order of personal importance:

1. Intelligence/Nice face (there HAS to be both a mental and physical attraction)

2. Funny (helps the meet go smoothly)

3. Fit body (adds to the physical attraction)

4. Big Boobs (same as above, but these are more like the cherries on the cake)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"They have to be sexually appealing to attract me but articulate and intelligent to keep my interest...oh, and not have a voice like Joe Pasquale!

So David Beckham would not do it for you then ? hehe"

No he wouldn't. I met a man that looked like Daniel Craig, my own personally idea of perfection. As he was walking towards me I could see people looking at him, he was gorgeous and the only man that made me think about my wobbly bits.

Then he opened his mouth...it was awful. He was also as boring as fuck, kept talking about his mother and his insecurities: I couldn't drink my cappuccino fast enough.

Now I always speak on the phone before meeting.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"OP. this is my shopping list.

Taller than me

Good body (not skinny)

Fantastic bum

Good looking

Naughty sense of humour

Full lips

Good conversationalist

The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl.

Damn I'm only 5'2 "

Q of T I could make an exception for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP. this is my shopping list.

Taller than me

Good body (not skinny)

Fantastic bum

Good looking

Naughty sense of humour

Full lips

Good conversationalist

The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl.

Damn I'm only 5'2

Q of T I could make an exception for you "

I shall remember that in July

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Boobs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a personal connection so therefore personality and a sense of humour is first on the list. In terms of physical looks, I love a gorgeous face and then I'm all about boobs and bum...having said that I appreciate all attributes of a woman, especially sexy curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny and Intelligent, every time.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

The whole look of somebody to me, in good shape, nice arse, easy on the eye. I still need to connect with them first though before I jumped into bed with them.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"OP. this is my shopping list.

Taller than me

Good body (not skinny)

Fantastic bum

Good looking

Naughty sense of humour

Full lips

Good conversationalist

The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl.

Damn I'm only 5'2

Q of T I could make an exception for you

I shall remember that in July "

If I give you a piggy back so you're taller, do you think she'll have us both??

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Tall, black and metallic "

Hahaha, I hear you!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!

Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle

The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour

Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.

But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow

You don't ask for much, do you? Lol

Ah but black metal isn't that you she is describing mainly, except you have more to offer as well "

Oh do I?

Hmm wonder what that is, you sexy thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be a handsum face first and then the personality. I cldnt bone sumone i didnt fancy

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

intelligence

wit

and if you make me think and laugh its not necessary for you to be a pretty boy/girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the person comes....looks and body first, then get to know their personality, then if there's chemistry and desire, playtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's facial looks, size and bum (love a peachy ass) That'll get them a meet. Once we've met its the personality which is the decider on whether Ill meet them again

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"A pulse "

Some people are so picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pulse

Some people are so picky!"

can't let standards slip just cos' its a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry - that 's all. Don't ask me to define it though. Mrs W

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"Nice face

Fit body

Breasts

Funny

Intelligence ?

.."

All of the above and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction for me is a combination of beauty and brains. You don't need to be stunningly gorgeous but if we click mentally and you look average or better then I'd probably find you attractive. Men are very visually orientated where women tend to be emotion centred.

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