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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Heya guys and girls, ladies and gents.

I know that there are 100's of single guys on here and i know that most are probs quite pushy ect but im really just after some advice on how i can meet people on here and have fun!

Im not pushy with anyone ive messaged but no one seems to be keen. Cheers x

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Block guys from contacting you on your filters - saves the negative status update

Use the forums and chat rooms to get to know people

Perhaps a club visit?

You do say you have been here before so if you were verified before - do what you did then

do NOT...put up loads of whingey 'why can't I get a meet' thread...lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you heard of the power of prayer friend? With faith in the lord Jesus Christ anything can be possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wasnt on here for long before :/!

thanks for the hints haha think i might have to start the whole praying thing haha! time to hit the webcams me thinks cheers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When contacting people use your imagination ... Just saying hi or how are you gets very boring.

Attach your pic anyway and be creative, read the profile they have written out and pick up on what they want, like and enjoy ... Use the info to your advantage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers im always getting gays message quite annoying haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because you're setting off our gaydar. With big flashing lights and a fuck off siren.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha what the hell is a gaydar? and big flashing lights all about?

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

By the beach


"cheers im always getting gays message quite annoying haha"

just have a laugh and fuck with them (note fuck WITH them ) - if they're idiot enough to waste their time contacting a straight bloke than that's their lookout.

Obviously don't be abusive, as that's against the rules, but taking the piss is fine.

For example - a common message goes something like "how would you fancy sucking some cock?"

reply with :

"I'd love to, in fact I've been trying for ages but I always seem to end up putting my back out"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hahahaha genius could make this out into a little game! gets annoying thou, always saying fancy sum nsa ect. leave them to it from now on haha! it even says in my profile im not gay and dont message me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest you would be suprised how many "streight" guys on here are infact bi so you can't blame gay guys for giving it a go.

Something we did recently, joined fab guys and compare the news feed on there to the one here.. lots of streight guys on here are bi over there lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I can t figure out why they d message you then, everyone knows everyone reads profiles,,

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

Well your profile is pretty dire tbh.

It just doesnt stand out and the grammar police would have a hissy.

Your one of loads of men....try and make your profile one that attracts

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

Im not the grammar police before anyone jumps....)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hahaha im terrible at spelling but aslong as people understand it its ok

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By *ipper DeVineTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Heya guys and girls, ladies and gents.

I know that there are 100's of single guys on here and i know that most are probs quite pushy ect but im really just after some advice on how i can meet people on here and have fun!

Im not pushy with anyone ive messaged but no one seems to be keen. Cheers x "

Hello, hope you don't mind me putting in to this? In not gay ether! And don't take this too badly? But I dont like your profile photo! Especially when you have such a great photo next door to it? You in headphones? I'm sure girls would rather see that photo of you smiling? (and it's only my personal opinion) and I dint mean no bad from it x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What's special about you? What can you offer than no one else can? Why should anyone choose you? What do you like? What gives you goosebumps? What don't you like? What's your speciality?

Be unique....offer to show the ladies your gun

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lose Iron Man pic - you're not a child anymore. I like the headphones one. I'm not gay either btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lose Iron Man pic - you're not a child anymore. I like the headphones one. I'm not gay either btw. "

Depends how you look at it, we see a sense of humour .. someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously.

Far better than some guys we've seen with a bottle of beer, fag hanging out of mouth sticking the middle finger up to the camera... Such a sexy pose haha

Guess we all read into pictures differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to move to bournemouth, then youll have no problems

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha i say a picture speaks a thousand words and if they see im up for a laugh and pretty down to earth then happy days.

if i was to put a pic of me topless with a raging rock on im pretty sure people will think geez look at this guy fuck that sort of thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

profile pic changed cheers for the advise haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the day it don't matter what pic you use as there will always be someone to not like it .. you can't please them all lol

We all have our own reasons for displaying the pictures we have on here, if your happy with your own choices then the opinions of others really don't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heya guys and girls, ladies and gents.

I know that there are 100's of single guys on here and i know that most are probs quite pushy ect but im really just after some advice on how i can meet people on here and have fun!

Im not pushy with anyone ive messaged but no one seems to be keen. Cheers x "

Read profiles see what people want will help as many don't.

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By *ipper DeVineTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"profile pic changed cheers for the advise haha! "

So much better, enjoy the site. X

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