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is it me?or what am i doing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all,hope you are well,i came on this to have fun and hopefully make new friends..but to be honest i ahve not had any meets yet,so my questain is is it me or am i doing doing somthing wrong.can someone help me here i would like my firt meet up and least then they can what a nice guy iam and i am genuine.you don't ask you don't get!!

fingers crossed to some help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but what was the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's you mate give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same I'm here over a month and have had no meets. I think it's because I'm not verified that puts people off. Or else I'm just ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it my profile? is it ther's no feed back from meets,ore am i just wasting my time on this site.

why i am i not getting sny meets?

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Single guys need to be more creative with your profiles and start going to meet and greets then youll have a chance of getting into the scene more.

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I have to ask, why can you not accommodate?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question."

Don't think the forum needs to be completely taken over by that tho do you?? It's being discussed in the lounge. Yeah these threads get tedious but like all other repetative threads I just avoid them! Problem solved!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question."

dont believe its up to people to decide what other people start topics on, if its not liked it wont go far.

have you not posted on any other fun/sex based topics since the horrible soldier incidence then ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"hi all,hope you are well,i came on this to have fun and hopefully make new friends..but to be honest i ahve not had any meets yet,so my questain is is it me or am i doing doing somthing wrong.can someone help me here i would like my firt meet up and least then they can what a nice guy iam and i am genuine.you don't ask you don't get!!

fingers crossed to some help."

Right OP... You could probably try to get a couple more pics up for a bit of variety.

Also your profile is boring and like a million others on here, try and make yourself stand out a bit (easier said than done I know)

Think about messages your sending, polite? Give the recipient a reason to reply to you, and make sure you at least fit the bill of what they are looking for or it's wasting your time.

Most people will assume (rightly or wrongly) that by not being able to accommodate you are in a relationship, I don't accom and have just given a quick explanation why in my profile to avoid confusion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no pity,thanks!just want to get my firt meet and have fun like the rest of here.

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"no pity,thanks!just want to get my firt meet and have fun like the rest of here."

Why can you not Accom ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i live in a shared accomodation

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"i live in a shared accomodation"

So .. not married ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question.

dont believe its up to people to decide what other people start topics on, if its not liked it wont go far.

have you not posted on any other fun/sex based topics since the horrible soldier incidence then ?

"

You raise a valid point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question.

Don't think the forum needs to be completely taken over by that tho do you?? It's being discussed in the lounge. Yeah these threads get tedious but like all other repetative threads I just avoid them! Problem solved! "

sorry your right! really a first time user and should of posted in the right place

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question.

dont believe its up to people to decide what other people start topics on, if its not liked it wont go far.

have you not posted on any other fun/sex based topics since the horrible soldier incidence then ?

You raise a valid point."

blimey thats a first for me

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question.

Don't think the forum needs to be completely taken over by that tho do you?? It's being discussed in the lounge. Yeah these threads get tedious but like all other repetative threads I just avoid them! Problem solved!

sorry your right! really a first time user and should of posted in the right place "

No, you did post it in the right places, well here or advice really. Don't worry. Just give your profile some tweaks. And don't forget there's hundreds of single guys on here to every single fem/couple so patience/good profile/good message x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok,thankyou for you advice,i will take it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again there are genuine topics about the murder of a soldier which in my view far more important than a look at me self pity post.

Plus it is hard to work out the actual question.

dont believe its up to people to decide what other people start topics on, if its not liked it wont go far.

have you not posted on any other fun/sex based topics since the horrible soldier incidence then ?

You raise a valid point.

blimey thats a first for me"

You actually imparted wisdom

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"ok,thankyou for you advice,i will take it up"

You need a photo. You say regular or one-offs....make your mind up! If you don't care, don't bother mentioning it because it makes you sound as if you'll shag anyone. Say what turns you on - your profile should be an advert, lay out your wares on a market stall- what can you offer? Why would a lady choose you? Answer that, and you'll be fine. Be patient, go to a social or a club, look through the meets. Make your profile reflect your personality. I don't think it does at the moment.

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