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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"

Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.

So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?

Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?

Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always carry them, never expect playmates to supply them. Happy to use theirs as well. Be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect the man to supply condoms. Hopefully he buys the one's that fit him properly, and if I accommodate and fork out for expensive lingerie and stockings at £8 a pair, I expect him to pay for a box of condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone should carry them to be honest! I always make sure I have some and if you're on a swinging site there's no excuse for anyone not to. If you and your meet come to some other arrangement then that's different but Id be horrified if a man I was meeting turned up without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have condoms in my kinky bag as I call it im just glad I dnt get searched on the train when I go to max lol they will be in for a shock haha xxx

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I always have some and would expect a meet to have thought of getting his own! Two lots of condoms makes for twice or thrice the fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get mine from the docs they are free xx

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

we always take our own as they need to be latex free, would rely or risk a guy using the wrong type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we always take our own as they need to be latex free, would rely or risk a guy using the wrong type"

Similar to this, even though I "carry" being an ex boy scout....if i were a woman or a female i would supply on the basis I trust nobody and how do i know the bloke hasnt sabotaged them....

Unlikely but possible.....there are strange uns about

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I always keep afew in my coat pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's currently 100 odd in my boot, some in my camera bag, glovebox and - yep - just checked - three in my suit jacket pocket!

I'll never go anywhere unprepared. The only times I've ever had to rely on anyone else is when they've sprung a latex allergy on me - but then I've been happy to use theirs.

*note to self - acquire small supply of latex free for such situations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to provide my own. One I know they haven't been tampered with and two won't bring me out in a rash..

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always carry wen out for fun....x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We always take our own, R likes her men to use the dotted and ribbed ones and G wears Trojan Magnums. Both sorts are in her "shag bag" along with lube.

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

I always have condoms on me.Be it going to a meet or a night at my local.Common politeness really.

That said,something so small and easy to carry ,it makes sense if all players carry em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe people don't carry them because they are happy to not use them not because they expect you to supply them

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By *rystal denisonWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge

I always carry my own incase a guy forgets them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's currently 100 odd in my boot, some in my camera bag, glovebox and - yep - just checked - three in my suit jacket pocket!

I'll never go anywhere unprepared. The only times I've ever had to rely on anyone else is when they've sprung a latex allergy on me - but then I've been happy to use theirs.

*note to self - acquire small supply of latex free for such situations! "

You must have big feet if you can fit 100 in ones boot

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By *aptzogMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

I think everyone should have them. I'd hate to get to a rare meet and get sent home simply because I wasn't carrying lol

I must admit to being surprised by the number of people concerned about tampering - are there really many people about that deliberately put holes in condoms and what do they get out of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to provide my own. One I know they haven't been tampered with and two won't bring me out in a rash..

Cali x"

Just my mind but this made me think , I carry my own and will use either but saying provide my own because I know they haven't been tampered with is like saying to the other party you going to have to trust me that I haven't tampered with mine because you don't get a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at my sexual health testing clinic i goto they give me loads each time and bottles of lube as well .. kerchangggg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think both parties should have them .see them been both responsible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to provide my own. One I know they haven't been tampered with and two won't bring me out in a rash..

Cali x

Just my mind but this made me think , I carry my own and will use either but saying provide my own because I know they haven't been tampered with is like saying to the other party you going to have to trust me that I haven't tampered with mine because you don't get a choice "

I actually don't care what the guy thinks.. as a woman it's far easier for me to catch something than it is for a guy... Also if they don't have latex free I can't use them anyway...

A guy has two choices.. use mine or don't fuck me.

Sounds harsh but I've had someone tamper in the past... So no way will I risk it happening again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male every time but think women should always carry/have a supply as the amount of times i been at group meetings and guys say oh i forgot - they are those guys who hunt out un protected BB sex - in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always have some with me including latex free as we have a gf who has a latex allergy so if play happens better to be prepared, He has some in his wallet and I have in my purse ( thank god for lots of pockets ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own stash of flavoured ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Male every time but think women should always carry/have a supply as the amount of times i been at group meetings and guys say oh i forgot - they are those guys who hunt out un protected BB sex - in my opinion "

if they forget I don't play either.. as the only person I don't use protection with is my regular playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have my purse, I'm carrying condoms (I buy those in the credit card pack)

If I'm heading to a club (whether condoms are free or not) I pick up loads, not that I plan to use them but it's no good me standing there saying, yeah I have loads in my drawer at home

If he wants to use his own that's ok by me, but I carry them as I see it as responsible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never without Durex Fetherlites. Closest to not wearing condoms, in terms of "feel" that I've found, and gives me and my partners the best guarantee of safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always carry my own latex free , get mine from clinic.

A new chap I met had taken time to read my profile and bought his own latex free ... Big thumbs up for being very savvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone should carry them to be honest! I always make sure I have some and if you're on a swinging site there's no excuse for anyone not to. If you and your meet come to some other arrangement then that's different but Id be horrified if a man I was meeting turned up without them. "
yep both parties should carry them end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"

Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.

So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?

Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?

Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway "

I always provide my own as its my safety I am thinking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're the only ones responsible for our own sexual health so always have our own in our swing kit along with lube, wipes and hand gel(don't get the lube and the hand gel confused though)

We would expect people to bring their own even if we don't use them because it shows that they take their own health seriously but also don't abuse our hospitality...if it was a regular meet and they regularly didn't bring them, it would cross our mind not to meet again for those reasons...

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

Always carry a few in my wallet more if a planned meet. Always a bonus of ur out and a friend meets someone and they not carrying too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own i prefer the skyns large and they are latex free so no one can pull the algery excuse on me,all bases covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never seizes to amaze me how many guys do not bring the right size condoms. A fairly recent date kept having to stop to pull the condom down his shaft.... so frustrating!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

always carry my own latex free condoms.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"always carry my own latex free condoms. "

Trouble is men find out they prefer them and nick them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry condoms.

How can you insist on being safe if you don't have the right equipment?!

I care about my health, so makes sense to carry them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It never seizes to amaze me how many guys do not bring the right size condoms. A fairly recent date kept having to stop to pull the condom down his shaft.... so frustrating!

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We've had this happen a few times and they wonder why we never meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry condoms where ever I am even have a couple tucked away in purse x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Everyone should have their own....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got my own. Came in useful at last meet because the guy only had one. Was a bit of a spur of the moment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally have my own as I need a specific size

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a shagbag with condoms, lube, mouthwash, deodorant....stays in the car.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally have my own as I need a specific size"

Rushes off to check the pic! ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always carry a few in my wallet more if a planned meet. Always a bonus of ur out and a friend meets someone and they not carrying too"

I wouldn't have expected someone with that profile name to be carrying condoms!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Recent threads about safe sex emphasised that everyone should be responsible for their own sexual health. Therein lies the answer, anyone turning up without condoms doesn't their own or their potential partners health seriously.

As far as tampering with condoms goes there are indeed.some strange people about and much as it pains me to say it you should trust no one in this lifestyle until you know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got some flavoured ones too but dont know how good they would be?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"

Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.

So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?

Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?

Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway "

I always provide the condoms as I use them on my toys and I'm allergic to latex to have latex free ones.

I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Maybe people don't carry them because they are happy to not use them not because they expect you to supply them "

My thoughts exactly. Good job I carry my own in my "play" bag x

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


" I wouldn't have expected someone with that profile name to be carrying condoms!"

It says on his profile why he has that name

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


" I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom."

Me too, it's pretty disheartening, and they put on the puppy dog eyes and look at you like they think you'll change your mind! Sorry mate, condoms are not optional!

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By *gw1070Man
over a year ago

stourbridge

I always bring my own latex free ones

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom.

Me too, it's pretty disheartening, and they put on the puppy dog eyes and look at you like they think you'll change your mind! Sorry mate, condoms are not optional!"

Indeed! I don't meet them again.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Must admit one guy I did keep meeting, as he was amazing with fingers and everything else and we got on really well, I made it clear he'd just have to cope with condoms, and things did get better each time we met and he managed longer and longer with one on, so it worked out alright in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom."

Practice, practice, practice

and finding the right ones for you

and knowing when to get one out

Like many blokes, I struggled for some time with condoms especially as after years in a vanilla relat of not needing to use them.

I have suffered from said floppiness and the three things above are what made a difference to me.

I do think though that some guys get stage fright anyway as well as a pressure to perform and satisfy - and the condom just makes it worse or is a great excuse for the lack of sustainable hard on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have them, and also expect the guy to carry them.

Tbh if a guy turned up for a meet without, I'd be worried he was hoping for bareback!

That would result in a 'put your clothes back on/I'm off' scenario!

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"

Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.

So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?

Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?

Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway "

Everyone should have their own

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

If I'm meeting someone at home I'll often say not to worry about condoms unless they have specific requirements, I have absolutely loads of them, a couple of years ago Home Bargains had boxes of 12 Mates lube+ and king size for a quid a box, I erm stocked up. All still well in date, got a few years yet! Also got clinic freebies, and some Durex Fetherlite from a recent offer. If I go to a party or club I put a handful in my little black purse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to see that most carry condoms & expect a guy to cover up before having fun

Wonder if condom sales are on the UP or staying down

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Condoms, condoms EVERYWHERE!!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I carry mine as i know they will fit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we have met single men who were very surprised when we produced condoms, even though we'd made it clear at the social meeting we never bare back and none of them had their own

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

Italy

Since it has been so long since we last played we assumed there would be some new fangled advance in medicine, so still condoms then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have met single men who were very surprised when we produced condoms, even though we'd made it clear at the social meeting we never bare back and none of them had their own "

I'd be sending them home, with my packets still in tack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got some flavoured ones too but dont know how good they would be? "

They're not bad actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LIKE ! a good boy scout ! i always carry them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found the only ones that fit are the large Skins ones. Others seem to slip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock my responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have them better to be safe than sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect the man to supply condoms. Hopefully he buys the one's that fit him properly, and if I accommodate and fork out for expensive lingerie and stockings at £8 a pair, I expect him to pay for a box of condoms "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always carry them to as I to have an allergy to latex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do.....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got some flavoured ones too but dont know how good they would be?

They're not bad actually "
just one problem I have - finding someone who wants to try them out.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

always got em only good fab etiquette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being latex allergic I take my own.

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By *ammy007Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Yep I always carry, its the only way to be sure and safe.

So be safe!

Jammy

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"always carry my own latex free condoms.

Trouble is men find out they prefer them and nick them all. "

Lol, not had this yet, but I get them free at the clinic anyway

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

who ever has a cock that needs a cover !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We carry our own supply, that way we know we are covered xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person or persons invited or looking to have fun should allways bring there own but on the other side of it is if you want to be sure and safe if you have ur own then your mind is at ease but then are there mind at ease catch 22 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect the man to supply condoms. Hopefully he buys the one's that fit him properly, and if I accommodate and fork out for expensive lingerie and stockings at £8 a pair, I expect him to pay for a box of condoms "

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

If you don't bring your own condoms then you'll be stuck using someone elses - they are uncomfy enough if you get the wrong sort...

Ad besides, it is good manners...

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