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Is anal and rimming new norm ??

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By *bdulsho OP   Man
45 weeks ago

London

What's your thoughts?

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By *each needs some creamWoman
45 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's not new on my meeting being happening for years.

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By *bdulsho OP   Man
45 weeks ago

London

Definitely love it happening with you 👀

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By *anSMan
45 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I think it has a lot to do with tech, and porn being so much more accessible, anal/rimming has always been a thing, but the internet has opened people’s eyes to a lot of stuff they perhaps wouldn’t have known about beforehand..

I for one am glad that it seems to be more in the open these days, wouldn’t go as far to say it’s the norm, but more and more people seem to enjoy anal play, me included

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
45 weeks ago

Marlow

I very much hope so, I love being rimmed.

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By *istressSubCuckMan
45 weeks ago

Winchester

Love love love rimming a sexy girls arse

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By *an SummersMan
45 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I’ve always loved giving a rimming. Having a bit of a larger willy though, I’ve only ever done anal if I’ve been invited to, rather than asking to do it.

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By *urlycatMan
45 weeks ago

Southampton

Anal has been amongst the norm for decades as far as I'm concerned.

Rimming is something I first did 10 years ago as a request.. freshly showered I add..

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By *teve261970Man
45 weeks ago

Gateshead


"What's your thoughts?"

I've included it on my meets for many yrs & I started back in 1997 lol

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By *uvs2snogMan
45 weeks ago

Now living in Spain

Never experienced it but yes it does seem to be a lot more common judging from the stories in the forums

Might have to put myself ( arse ) forward for exploration

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

45 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not round here it's not

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By *hong80321967Man
45 weeks ago

Wakefield

Hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Yeah definitely, most people seem to like either one or the other at least, obviously neither is exactly a new thing, but people on places like this are very comfortable with their kinks nowadays.

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By *lderKinkyMan
45 weeks ago

Hounslow

My mouth and tongue has always been eager and willing wherever it's welcome or wanted 🍑

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
45 weeks ago

UK

Not with me it’s not. I don’t do bum stuff.

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By *ddjobMan
45 weeks ago

Haverfordwest

Love to rim a nice females bum hole

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By *layfull pairingCouple
45 weeks ago

Bristol

Anal is definitely something else that’s been normalised by porn Industry in the last 20 yrs or so.... Used to be quite a taboo niche market.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Couldn't say, I know I always had the urge to lick and fuck arse. Took many years before I got the opportunity and I like it. Don't think I was ever influenced it was just something I know I wanted to do. But as already been mentioned it was taboo so I never let on that I wanted to do it. A recent gf wanted to so I needed very little persuasion.

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By *emptme1993Man
45 weeks ago

manchester

I wouldn’t say it’s a norm, plenty of people arent into it and it’s all personal choice

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By *ein-guyMan
45 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

I've been and received rimming, been pegged but yet to take part in anal. One day......I hope 👍🏼

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I've been eating ass since 1998 😂

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By *otfunx1Man
45 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We are always rimming each other she has pegs me to see lots anal fun for us

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By *adbod451000Man
45 weeks ago

cardiff

My ex mrs was the first to rim me and I thought it would be all sorts of wrong but fuck me how wrong was i

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By *eo BillsMan
45 weeks ago

South Essex

I wouldn’t say it’s new for me as it’s something I’ve always enjoyed doing…

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By *ibs4Man
45 weeks ago

Romford,poitiers france and torrevieja spain

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By *ibs4Man
45 weeks ago

Romford,poitiers france and torrevieja spain

Certainly not the first woman to ask me was over 30 years ago,has it really been that long

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By *oe moonMan
45 weeks ago

leeds

Yes I agree with what’s been said here … it’s not a new thing ..

I think it’s more a open and accessible subject. It’s also become the ‘norm’

Long may that continue

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By *ddfellowMan
45 weeks ago

New ferry wirral

anal isnt new, been taking it in the ass for most of my life

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By *dannette2TV/TS
45 weeks ago

Brighton

I have been enjoying deep, passionate rimmings for years and have actually cum, hands free, with a hot tongue in me. An incredible sensation!!

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
45 weeks ago

Didcot

Neither are new, in fact I doubt much of what goes on sexually is new, it's just that pre internet, for most people what happened in the bedroom stayed in the bedroom.

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By *arden5Man
45 weeks ago

Woking

I have enjoyed many good times rimming and being rimmed male and female

Have made some cum hand free and have done myself

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By *usie pTV/TS
45 weeks ago

taunton

It has been normal since man got his first erection, it is not so long ago we used to lock people away for this type of activity, I think it was called buggery in those days.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
45 weeks ago

Chichester

Been the norm for a very long time imo

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By *eyeYCouple
45 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Quite the norm in our house, so no, not new.. 🤷😈

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By *dventuredollxWoman
45 weeks ago

Inishowen

Definitely always been the norm for me

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Boy I hope so because but has been for me for about 9 years

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By *icki222TV/TS
45 weeks ago

Lincoln

It should be. Although I’m probably biased 😋💁‍♀️

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
45 weeks ago

Debauchery

I think it’s a normal thing to do, just as much as taking a penis in my mouth

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By *hunky GentMan
45 weeks ago

Market Deeping


"I think it’s a normal thing to do, just as much as taking a penis in my mouth "

Can we have dinner first?

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
45 weeks ago

Debauchery


"I think it’s a normal thing to do, just as much as taking a penis in my mouth

Can we have dinner first? "

🤣😀🤣 I usually skip that part, straight on to dessert

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By *hunky GentMan
45 weeks ago

Market Deeping


"I think it’s a normal thing to do, just as much as taking a penis in my mouth

Can we have dinner first?

🤣😀🤣 I usually skip that part, straight on to dessert "

Ok. You win.

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By *howMeYourKnickersMan
45 weeks ago

Norwich

I was first rimmed when a young man ( check my age ) it was amazing, just had to try it myself and have been rimming ever since, most absolutely love it.

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By *oyalmarine64Man
45 weeks ago

Central

I mean they are two great things so why not?...

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By *eavenscentitCouple
45 weeks ago

barnstaple

The choice should be with the intended recipient

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By *oucankeepyoursocksonMan
45 weeks ago

Here n there

I've got no complaints...

😏

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By *howMeYourKnickersMan
45 weeks ago

Norwich

My shower fresh arse is available lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I love it

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By *each needs some creamWoman
44 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I think more people have become aware of the joy on anal sex.

Lady Chatterley's Lover was published back in 1932 and was band in the UK party because it mentions anal sex. So it's not new for people to be talking about anal sex and I suspect a few people trying it for the first after reading about it.

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By *ustus5555Woman
44 weeks ago

Nottingham

Not for me it isn't

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By *ff Duty CooperMan
42 weeks ago

London


"Not round here it's not"

I would love to give the sexy Mrs a good rimming . It's my absolute favourite thing to do

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Chichester

I am trans woman so anal stuff is the norm

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By *andy6666TV/TS
42 weeks ago

newcastle

Yes anal and rimming is norm for me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

When was it never the norm, it`s always been a thing with my friends.

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By *our TV fantasyTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Waterloo, Liverpool

Put simply, only if you want it to be. Everyone is free to talk Xpress their redlines.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
42 weeks ago

Durham

It’s all part of a multifaceted sensual experience and preference.

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By *e101Couple
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

If there’s no grass on the wicket I love it !! Love it when they’re abit shy to start with then they’re pushing back for more and literally grinding on your tongue !! 🤪🤪🤪

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By *ff Duty CooperMan
42 weeks ago

London


"If there’s no grass on the wicket I love it !! Love it when they’re abit shy to start with then they’re pushing back for more and literally grinding on your tongue !! 🤪🤪🤪"

Absolutely spot on !!! It's like they say no licking my arse then a bit further down the line your manage a few licks then it's like WOW

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
42 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Not new for us, been doing it for years

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By *aveonMan
42 weeks ago

Dartford

Enjoy giving as much as receiving - just the pleasure from it is a real turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I think more people have become aware of the joy on anal sex.

Lady Chatterley's Lover was published back in 1932 and was band in the UK party because it mentions anal sex. So it's not new for people to be talking about anal sex and I suspect a few people trying it for the first after reading about it. "

Interesting

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By *enuinefun2025Man
42 weeks ago

Truro

Hoping to be giving and recieving tomorrow hehe

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By *igboy12392Man
42 weeks ago

Gloucester

Not even a bit of tongue in there x

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By *unguy2429Man
42 weeks ago

worthing

I love it. Nothing to be afraid off

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

A Little tongue tickle in the right spot

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By *ristolSauceCouple
42 weeks ago

London

Not sure if it’s new… but it is bloody lovely xx

However much tech / porn there is if it wasn’t fun people wouldn’t do it xx

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
42 weeks ago

Southampton

We do hope so!

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By *effdelightMan
42 weeks ago

Grimsby

I've started loving it haha never even tried it until a very few years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Always been a fan of giving and receiving

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By *ieutenantMan
42 weeks ago

london

Nothing thrill me than to see a female spreading her peachy butt-hole for tongue probing of her fart box like A wood-pecker bird. tu tu tu lol

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Not easy to find women that love such fun

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By *elvet VenomWoman
42 weeks ago

Torbay

I think its become much more acceptable. I don't think of it as a Kink really

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By *uncan LovelengthMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester

I would never dream of sleeping with a woman and not licking her ass (unless she doesn't like it) it's like kissing or holding hands, it's a given

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By *azza88Man
42 weeks ago

lincolnshire

Love to give this to fems

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By *ff Duty CooperMan
42 weeks ago

London


"I would never dream of sleeping with a woman and not licking her ass (unless she doesn't like it) it's like kissing or holding hands, it's a given "

Absolutely spot on !! I love it when I'm their first timer for having their arse tongued . Never had a disappointed lady yet

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I think its become much more acceptable. I don't think of it as a Kink really "

Yes that i agree

It s more "normal" then before

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By *unning onCouple
42 weeks ago

leatherhead

We see it more in porn these days, which is why I think I wanted to try it. Guys get super horny when I lick their arses too x

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By *irtyKentCoupleCouple
42 weeks ago

Kent

Love to lick Mrs ass! My dick is usually throbbing whilst I’m doing it dying to get stuck in

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By *arvin486Man
42 weeks ago

near you/ middle east

I’ve experienced being rimmed a few weeks ago I was in shock how much I actually enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Rimming Mmmmm 😋

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By *antscoupleupforfunCouple
42 weeks ago

petersfield, hants

Hubby says this is the hornyest thing to watch your wife do.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I'm still yet to have the pleasure of being rimmed but I do love a woman who does anal definitely

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By *ff Duty CooperMan
42 weeks ago

London


"We see it more in porn these days, which is why I think I wanted to try it. Guys get super horny when I lick their arses too x"

Wow ....I definitely would get super horny If the super hot wife licks my arsehole

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By *couse GitMan
42 weeks ago

Newton

I love to rim anyone

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By *ickingdelightMan
42 weeks ago

Cotswold village

You only need to look into ancient Greeks, Romans, even ancient Egyptian and anal and more ‘taboo’ kink was normal to them.

A lot of Christian religion tried to suppress

But world of internet and for people to not be in a quiet room know they liked something but too afraid to say anything as it was deemed ‘taboo’ can suddenly see multiple people around their location/country/world like a particular kink and people then feel more normal and less afraid to talk about it and those on the fence see well if others are doing it then let’s try it!

It’s the only reason why I like open house tv show; yes it’s slightly false/reality show but it’s making swinging mainstream and normal.

Both anal and rimming done well and right situation and scenario are amazing! Done badly I can imagine a more negative experience

Plus I believe more people now are more open minded to explore and try

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By *ff Duty CooperMan
41 weeks ago

London


"You only need to look into ancient Greeks, Romans, even ancient Egyptian and anal and more ‘taboo’ kink was normal to them.

A lot of Christian religion tried to suppress

But world of internet and for people to not be in a quiet room know they liked something but too afraid to say anything as it was deemed ‘taboo’ can suddenly see multiple people around their location/country/world like a particular kink and people then feel more normal and less afraid to talk about it and those on the fence see well if others are doing it then let’s try it!

It’s the only reason why I like open house tv show; yes it’s slightly false/reality show but it’s making swinging mainstream and normal.

Both anal and rimming done well and right situation and scenario are amazing! Done badly I can imagine a more negative experience

Plus I believe more people now are more open minded to explore and try"

I usually like to spend a fair while down there teasing the arse with rimming and rubbing . A few weeks later the lady is eager to try anal for the first time

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By *r Mind CandyMan
41 weeks ago

Cheshire

Standard operating procedure! 🤷‍♂️

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By *eautyabcCouple
41 weeks ago

bridgend

We enjoy rimming each other and then more

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By *ractorlad3800Man
41 weeks ago

derbyshire

Anal has always been a thing for me

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By *howMeYourKnickersMan
41 weeks ago

Norwich

A female bum is a thing of beauty so why wouldn’t you want to kiss it and get your tongue right in there.

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By *ff Duty CooperMan
41 weeks ago

London


"Standard operating procedure! 🤷‍♂️"

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
41 weeks ago

norwich ish

Before I met M would always tease the ass. But I would never ask for it as it is the lady’s prerogative as to what they want to do in the bedroom.

But M told me very early on that she enjoyed it. I think the words were “back door is always open” said with a wink and a smile. So since then rimming and fingering an ass has become a regular part of our play , and full anal when I know she is craving that different orgasm.

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By *ff Duty CooperMan
40 weeks ago

London

Teasing a woman's arse is my favourite

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
40 weeks ago

Wrexham

Well, anal is pretty much par for the course with me lol..

And rimming me is a good precursor to the main event

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By *haneleviMan
38 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Been rimmed and like rimming. All good either way 👌🏻

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I love to rim a lady

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By *ieutenantMan
38 weeks ago

london

I love it when a female tell me to eat her ass during foreplay.Also i hate it for female to remain mute in the bedroom.

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By *penminded7Man
38 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Wish it was

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By *ed wineMan
38 weeks ago

Where the streets have no name

I don't know about new norms, but I love it

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By *ieutenantMan
38 weeks ago

london

Nothing sweeter teasing Cougar hot-wife peachy ass with the present of cuck watching her screaming passionately.

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By *aya_And_BenCouple
38 weeks ago

Nearby

Only bad thing about rimming is that Maya hates it both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Anal is very much the norm

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
38 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Not here sorry, bum fun is for Stag only

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By *oonbath89Man
38 weeks ago

radstock

Probably but you can’t beat a good old finger blast , especially if you’re licking the pussy same time

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By *hong80321967Man
38 weeks ago

Wakefield

Certainly hope so

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