FabSwingers.com forum: First time patience or am I being greedy?

By *e13guy OP Man
42 weeks ago

Lewisham

I've had a few meets with couples where the guy is bi. The main attraction for bringing us together has turned out to be the guy predominantly wants me to have sex with them as well as their partner. I guess my length and girth is an attraction to some guys and it's been fun, especially when she guides me inside him. I've tried twice to take him inside me but never got far because I found it really painful and gave up right away.

Recently I was curious and used a toy by myself which left me in control of how quickly it went inside me. It took about 10 minutes or so but I finally managed to take it fully. It was only then did the worm finally turn for me. I managed the most mind blowing orgasm without touching my cock and was cumming like a slow dripping hose for much longer than I had ever done before.

I'm hooked on the idea of trying again now with a real cock. What's stopping me is I think it takes me longer to get comfortable than most people are willing to wait, especially guys who just want to shove it in. Ideally I would love the lady to spend 15-20 mins slowly getting me stretched enough in a pain free way to then guide her man inside me so he can keep fucking me until I cum. I suspect after my experience with the toy it will be my biggest ever orgasm taking a real one.

Am I being selfish looking for a slow start before giving my body to him to fuck me how he wishes? I'm happy to do anything to both him and her after and really don't mind if her only involvement was preparing me for her man.

Are there any couples that like the idea of doing this or am I just being too fastidious and greedy?

By *morousCouple8Couple
42 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I've had a few meets with couples where the guy is bi. The main attraction for bringing us together has turned out to be the guy predominantly wants me to have sex with them as well as their partner. I guess my length and girth is an attraction to some guys and it's been fun, especially when she guides me inside him. I've tried twice to take him inside me but never got far because I found it really painful and gave up right away.

Are there any couples that like the idea of doing this or am I just being too fastidious and greedy?

It’s not what we’re looking for as hubby isn’t bi. But I don’t think it’s an unreasonable ask either. It takes me a while to warm up, but I can still enjoy other things while I’m getting use to a plug size etc. you could give oral to either? It doesn’t have to be a standstill. Just give your body a chance to get used to each step up until you’re ready for him. I’m sure plenty bi couples would be down for that x