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By *avid 50 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

kendal

I don't get many winks so when I do I look at the profile of the sender and respond, I hardly ever get a message back so why bother winking in the first place, if you just like my picture fab it or if you like my profile message me but to send a wink and then not respond is a total waste of time, anybody else had this annoyance

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
42 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

I use it to say hi. I'm over here and I've acknowledged you.

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By *alkingbobMan
42 weeks ago

Hamilton

I don’t get many winks either but it is annoying when I respond then nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Don't use it much, but when it's to say 'How you doin?' in a Joey from Friends voice.

If someone else winks me in might be for another reason. And if I did message back then it's possible that something in my message puts them off.

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By *avid 50 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

kendal


"I use it to say hi. I'm over here and I've acknowledged you. "

thanks for the wink I appreciate what you said

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By *xydadbodMan
42 weeks ago

towcester

Nobody really knows what the wink function is for.. I always compared it to the poke button on Facebook. Its there, some use it, majority ignores it lol

But nah, I normally use it as a way to make the first move, if I get one back, then I'll send a message. But I suppose like its already been mentioned, people use it for various different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I've had a few winks , ok I thought, looked at the profile, very nice profile, messaged back then nothing , if your not willing to engage in conversation, why bother at all !

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"if I did message back then it's possible that something in my message puts them off."

This is universally why I don't respond to messages from people I've sent a wink (or message) to. If their message is a very different vibe to their bio, or it demands/assumes anything of me, or simply makes no effort, it ends my interest immediately.

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