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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does it mean to you?

To us it means all apart from penetration .

Everyone sees it so differently .

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Here's a confession: I've never understood what it means!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true ...there is no dictionary definition. The only common point that seems to be agreed on is no penetration. Thereafter people add and remove things they dont like such as kissing, etc. Best thing is to meet for drinks and talk through so that you both know the rules for each couple. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you OP I take it to mean everything but penetration, however it is one of those grey areas that means different things to different people if in doubt just politely ask the person/couple you are chatting with most don't take offence to the questioned being posed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some see it as no interaction with others and all play at separate times

But in same room we see that as voyeurism more than swinging.

we enjoy the feel of others but look forward to feeling intimate together after teasing and touching others mmm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems some people are put off with the words soft swing

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Seems some people are put off with the words soft swing "

That maybe the case because as already mentioned, the ambiguity it may portray. To some, soft swing is a way of saying the ladies play together and the male half is allowed no interaction with the other female at all. To others it's anything goes but penetration.

It may be off putting to some because, a lot of people like to just let whatever happen - happen - the suggestion of a "limit" will be of putting for some. (The usual caveats apply to that statement!)

Ultimately do what you want within your limits, don't worry or question it, and screw everyone else... Or not...

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us it means you have boundaries that need to be discussed before meeting. kind of like hard swing but different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought soft swing meant that you use a thinner rope at less height

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"What does it mean to you?

To us it means all apart from penetration .

Everyone sees it so differently .

"

Thats how I see it.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to know it is not just us then that thinks this way cheers all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lately I've enjoyed a few soft swing sessions at clubs, never thought I would as I actually love the penetration part best but in a group it's quite nice to all warm each other up and then end with making love to the one ur with knowing how much he enjoyed watching other men touch u, I'm always a little wary of kissing though so generally whisper it in a ear whilst getting close and touching, after all "can I kiss u"? Is not hard to say is it!?!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just lately I've enjoyed a few soft swing sessions at clubs, never thought I would as I actually love the penetration part best but in a group it's quite nice to all warm each other up and then end with making love to the one ur with knowing how much he enjoyed watching other men touch u, I'm always a little wary of kissing though so generally whisper it in a ear whilst getting close and touching, after all "can I kiss u"? Is not hard to say is it!?!? "

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Because we make porn we find guys want to come & fuck Kim sometimes just to say they have...even the ones who say she/we are out of of their age/size range...strange people i know lol!

We say we soft swing with people the first time we meet as it s out the shallow people who just want notches on their bedposts for bonking a porn star.

Soft swing for us is anything & everything but fucking, we have never had people leave without a smile on their face lol!

Soft swing is far more sensual & naughty if it involves everyone...not the guys watching but can't touch...even after the girls have had fun/no kissing & other rules which make the swinging meet far to clinical.

Kim loves a gang bang / bukkake & can do these anytime she wants so its nice to do something different when swinging to the situations she used to.

As lots can verify we do fuck but its nice to get to know the person/people first & soft swing provides this platform.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Once met a couple who had it in their profile, I didn't question it as messages were pretty clear about fucking. I got there, and the woman was trying to rub her pussy into my back (at the guys suggestion it was good) Thought it was a bit odd so turned over, obviously it led to sex.

The woman was loving it but the guy sort of sat back on his lonesome. Realising I said 'you ok' to which he made up some bollocks he felt left out. The woman was gobsmacked and apologetic but it ended in me saying see ya.

looking back I just don't think the guy wanted to see his Mrs enjoying herself.. One of the strangest meets I've had. Got a great message from the bloke saying I was cocky and arrogant and blah and blah but it was just him, not being able to see his Mrs playing. They had loads of veris, so now I try to read between the lines of them.

Lol not a sport for me !

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