FabSwingers.com forum: Do older women actually like younger guys?

By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
42 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

Hello always been interested in older women, we always seem to have more to talk about than women my age. I prefer a mature mind and someone who isn't going to play games.

Finding it increasingly hard to find older women who are interested in younger guys. Its definitely a big pool thats swung the other way (a lot more men than women). Wondering if there are any actually out there?

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
42 weeks ago

Birstall

Do you start your messages asking if they like younger men?

For me that annoys me as it seems they're only interested there for the cougar/milf kink.

Would much prefer someone to just start a normal conversation and assume if the persons age range is low enough to allow the message your ok

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
42 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

I always start with a normal conversation for it and seems even when age is in limit mostly get sorry too young for me....so just kinda give up

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By *arysueCouple
42 weeks ago

West Wales

yes yes yes lol

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By *oung bull500Man
42 weeks ago

dublin

Me personally I never got any replies from older women mostly young/middle aged couples that message me

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By *otblonde71Woman
42 weeks ago

stonehaven

"Do you start your messages asking if they like younger men?

For me that annoys me as it seems they're only interested there for the cougar/milf kink.

Would much prefer someone to just start a normal conversation and assume if the persons age range is low enough to allow the message your ok"

This !!

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By *idden gemMan
42 weeks ago

sale

Hey all

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By *arleycplWoman
42 weeks ago

Frodsham

Yes I like younger guys, but not young guys

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
42 weeks ago

marlborough

All my life I’ve gravitated towards older women though Ita never been a hard rule. I’ve always been a Sapiosexual and maybe it’s the greater life experiences that I find alluring.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
42 weeks ago

Gloucester

It completely depends on the guy. I have spoken to some younger guys who literally just saw me as a sex doll and not a human, others didn’t understand how to talk to a woman at all, some I have had amazing conversations about various topics.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I do love the older ladies, good conversation about anything and I do have an thing for the older ladies 😉

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Chichester

Some do some don’t

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
42 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Some do some don’t "

Very true

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
42 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

"It completely depends on the guy. I have spoken to some younger guys who literally just saw me as a sex doll and not a human, others didn’t understand how to talk to a woman at all, some I have had amazing conversations about various topics.

Firstly sorry some dont have the respect that they should here. Its all on the person you are right really

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By *ayd100Man
42 weeks ago

clitheroe

Wife has a toy boy

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
42 weeks ago

Norwich

It really depends on the younger guys personality and if we spark and have stuff in common.

There is always a lower age limit where it becomes icky though.

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By *uxuriantCouple
42 weeks ago

Cornwall

Young but not too young !

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By *ull_MilfWoman
42 weeks ago

hull

It depends on the maturity but yes. I have a regular FWB who is 10 years younger then me x

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By *rownFireMan
42 weeks ago

london

Would say it just depends on personalities. Dated 10 years older in my early 20s.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

Im too old for you op but you know that older women can be game players too. They might also not be very good conversationalists.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Yes, but only when the lady is a lot older - when we were younger, she preffered older guys - we started out in our mid 20's

By yonunfer guys ie about 25 to 40 but need to be mature and not act like a baby le so-called "cheeky" types

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By *rown.studMan
42 weeks ago

Eccles

I’ve been lucky to be with a couple of older women.

But it definitely hurts when older women come up with “I have a son your age” 😂.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I’ve been lucky to be with a couple of older women.

But it definitely hurts when older women come up with “I have a son your age” 😂. "

A young guy called me 'mother' the other day. I wasn't impressed.

Some young guys also call me 'dear' which goes down like a ton of bricks

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By *andb69Couple
42 weeks ago

leeds

This thread might not have helped you, OP. As a woman I want to be wanted because I'm attractive or sexy, not because I'm old. That's something I'm trying to forget! Also it's a bit presumptuous to expect an easy fuck just for writing a few lines to a woman you want sex with. Get yourself to a club - there age matters much less. Politeness, respect and mutual attraction is far more important. I've played with guys from 20s to 70s, but never asked their age (or often not even their name).

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By *igan1974Man
42 weeks ago

wigan

Well I'm 50 so I might be struggling for a cougar lol

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
42 weeks ago

Bot Farm

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
42 weeks ago

Bot Farm

"No"

No. No because of the physics aspect, that's so tempting, mostly because of the lack of eroticism, banter, respect, commitment (to keep a promise) and intimacy.

My experiences have been mediocre. They are on a rush and I like it slow and sensual.

Too much porno I guess

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By *unseekers24Couple
42 weeks ago

stockport

I do, love having a younger hung guy lasting over me xx

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By *YKMCouple
42 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Depends on the situation

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
42 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

You're 26, you're still a child.

By your age I've had some wonderful sex with some very sexy older ladies. Work on your patter, learn some conversation, treat her like a princess and you'll be up to your knees in milf pussy. Some of them will probably chew you up and spit you out in bubbles.

Is that what you want? 'cos that's what'll happen.

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By *s T MorningWoman
42 weeks ago

Halesowen

Younger than me, yes.

Below 35, it's just No, sorry.

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By *iclassyCouple
42 weeks ago

Manchester

Mrs prefers younger guys mid 20s to mid 30s enjoys the passion they have for a mature woman

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Hinckley

I do fancy a very very little old lady who would love to have me tied and cane me xxx the thought of this seems so hot if there's any near me who would like to cane me pm me xx

Sadie xxx

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By *otwife Lilith and LeoCouple
42 weeks ago

NW London

Yes, I only meet younger men half my age.

Lilith xx

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By *rishGent69Man
42 weeks ago

Tralee

My username tells you all you need to know about me

I have always been much more attracted to a lady older than me than girls my own ages, not only just their looks but their personality too!

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By *ananas57Couple
42 weeks ago

lake ariel

Everyone is younger than me, so yes I do

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By *ooombaMan
42 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

From my experience (not for everyone) it really depends on how you look and how you conduct yourself. Confidence in my opinion is the most important.

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
42 weeks ago

Coleraine

Depends on their level of maturity which is why we communicate a lot before meetings to check things like this

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I would say they do, but in my experience that shouldn't be your only defining trait.

I find older women especially appreciate a good conversationalist with some intelligence behind it. Sliding into the DMs only offering your young dick won't get you very far

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By *issdemeanour69Couple
42 weeks ago

Bridgend

Since we joined fab, we have met with quite a few younger guys for mfm fun …. It has certainly been her preference, and I would much rather watch her with a fit young man than a hairy fat old bloke lol

On the other hand, my wife has a lifelong history of preferring much older men !

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By *enelope2UWoman
42 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

If I'm told the age initially NO..

if we've chatted and have a connection THEN I find out he's younger YES.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
42 weeks ago

near you...

"If I'm told the age initially NO..

if we've chatted and have a connection THEN I find out he's younger YES.

Ditto. I'm not saying age is just a number but if they can hold a conversation and eye contact, that's always a great start.

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By *ravesendpussyeaterMan
42 weeks ago

GRAVESEND/ Northfleet

I don't mind if there young or older it the fun and the experience and connection you have

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