FabSwingers.com forum: Dubious "couples" profiles

By *aguely Canadian OP Woman
42 weeks ago

Somewhere

Does anyone else seem to come across these on a daily basis or is it just me?

Im not just talking the obvious unverified ones, some are photo verified but just scream dodge.

I've lost count of the "i really want to see my man with another woman" messages. Or, "im out of town and looking for a lady to have fun with my man while im away"

Is there anything we or admin can do to create a more robust vetting system? Or do I just need to suck it up?...so to speak

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By *tlanshiaWoman
42 weeks ago

Chatham

Unfortunately I think it's a case of suck it up.

I had a guy message me here, then add me on Kik as the 'woman'. Saying the same things you describe, telling me to ask him for a dick pic. I reverse image searched the pics of 'her' and it was a OF girl!

Reported but profile still here.

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By *aomilatteCouple
42 weeks ago

Midlands

There are probably many hundreds of profiles where the Woman knows little or nothing of the Fab profile. Some have their face pics for all to see, then He trys to cheat on Her

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By *ookieMonsterMan
42 weeks ago

B’stoke

Bucket loads

Also had woman’s profile today asking to her boyfriend out. Whilst her profile is completely blocked and boyfriend has no profile 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
42 weeks ago

chester

I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”

I suggest you make a couples profile then.

The ones that give me the shivers the most are where they send me direct photos from their phone which are at best scalped from internet, or at worst their actual partner who has zero clue her intimate pictures are being shared., in order to prove they are a couple.

The verification process on here needs to be better.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
42 weeks ago

Gloucester

At least once a day

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By *ookieMonsterMan
42 weeks ago

B’stoke

" I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”

I suggest you make a couples profile then.

The verification process on here needs to be better. "

💯%

That’s why we have both couples and solo profiles not that hard is it 🙄

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
42 weeks ago

Gloucester

" I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”

I suggest you make a couples profile then.

The verification process on here needs to be better. "

Exactly this! I have a couples problem as well as this one.

I do think the verification needs to be improved

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Loads. We have even had guys admit their missus doesn't know they're on here.

We've reported but nothing seems to happen as I guess it's difficult for the mods to verify.

There's also a fair few on here where couples have split up and the male keeps the profile going. We ignore profiles with no recent veris and only old pics of the female for this reason.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Probably not quite daily, but then I don't go looking and my profile text hopefully puts a good deal of people off bothering me at all 💜

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
42 weeks ago

Lurgan

We encounter these profiles a lot, usually easy to spot, but annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Get at least 4 of these a day. For that reason I’m always a bit dubious about couples on here.

Even worse are the single male profiles that claims they’re with a woman and asks you questions about what you’d do with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

We have had a few that start off with good convo then the person typing goes with “Mrs doesn’t like the look of your man but I’m still up for it” needless to say convo stops at that point they could be genuine and preferences do come into it but just seems a little suspicious if you ask me

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
42 weeks ago

doncaster

Their public statuses are telling aswell there’s certain things that are wrote that no couple/woman would ever say 😂

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By *ttis669Man
42 weeks ago

warrington

" I get between 5 and 10 a day from single men, who claim to be a couple.”Me and my wife are looking for….”

I suggest you make a couples profile then.

The verification process on here needs to be better. "

Literally had this today even as a single guy, and the other guys profile said "Mrs has made me into a cuckold" and he's asking if I want pics of her and to chat about her, so creepy and lile wtf she probably doesn't know you even took them let alone are sharing them

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By *rdenites2Couple
42 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Don’t assume single profiles are thus either.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Unfortunately they are amongst us, the genuine people do suffer ! And it is a bit of a struggle,

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By *uncshellaMan
42 weeks ago

west

I would actually say about half the couples I talk to turn out just to be hubby. Wife is in bed, at the shops, on holiday, stopped playing etc etc etc.

Generally speaking hubby is also super horny and playing with his cock and soon asks if I want mine serviced.

Daily

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By *uncshellaMan
42 weeks ago

west

The one I highlighted yesterday was wife who wanted an affair and hubby knew nothing. Moves to WhatsApp but my phone in snap chat pulls the contact and asks if I want to add it. And it's Dave! Lol

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By *lexi_and_MattCouple
42 weeks ago

Glasgow

It happens all too frequently.

I am sometimes looking for females for company and fun while Matt's working away. All I get are messages from 'couples' (the male) wanting to discuss, at great length, the intimate details of what I want to do with his Mrs before he will decide if she can meet or not.

I am not saying it is a bad thing, but we have noticed that there are an ever-increasing number of couple profiles who are a COUPLE by Fab status only. Two people who previously had their own single profile, but set up a Couple profile for clubs or hoping it will open the floodgates to meets with fems or couples. They don't live together, they are only ever together for the purpose of a meet.

Matt recently set up a single M profile for when he is working away, so he's logging in as a male alone and not misleading anyone.

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By *N MFCoupleCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincoln

We have a couples profile and each have single ones. Kt tends to get the dodgy couples on her single profile

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

If anyone want to put us to test I’m at Ds from 2pm to video call together. I never know who these threads refer too but it doesn’t apply to us, just saying.

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
42 weeks ago

leeds

We get this regularly, it’s often me on here for various reasons, as soon as I log on it’s.. are you looking to meet up, I always ask for a chat with the f half of a couple before any meet and we insist on a group WhatsApp chat so nobody is left out, if genuinely interested it’s not so hard to accommodate

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By *urFantasy21Couple
42 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"Does anyone else seem to come across these on a daily basis or is it just me?

Im not just talking the obvious unverified ones, some are photo verified but just scream dodge.

I've lost count of the "i really want to see my man with another woman" messages. Or, "im out of town and looking for a lady to have fun with my man while im away"

Is there anything we or admin can do to create a more robust vetting system? Or do I just need to suck it up?...so to speak

This happens about 10 times more than a messages from genuine couple for us. Very disheartening x

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
42 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

That's why we make a point of only meeting at clubs, then we don't risk giving anyone dubious our phone number or address.

There's a lot out there that want to chat somewhere else (TG or whatsapp) and when we first started out we found out pretty quickly that they only intend to swap pics and chat.

Usually pretty easy to spot timewasters, fakes and couples profiles with no apparent female. We just look for things like..

Have they been on over a year with no verifications.

What kind of verifications do they have and are they from well verified swingers.

What do they say in forums when you look at the green arrow.

And what does their profile and bio look like.

Unfortunately with a site like this that is not only free but also not very strict on authentication its easy for people to sign up under false pretenses.

There's a lot of us legitimate swingers here that have a great experience if navigated well and used as a tool to compliment the lifestyle. It's just a shame it's tainted with fake couples, picture collecting males and women that just want to sell content.

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By *heNaughtyThreesomeCouple
42 weeks ago

Kent

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By *heNaughtyThreesomeCouple
42 weeks ago

Kent

"Does anyone else seem to come across these on a daily basis or is it just me?

Im not just talking the obvious unverified ones, some are photo verified but just scream dodge.

I've lost count of the "i really want to see my man with another woman" messages. Or, "im out of town and looking for a lady to have fun with my man while im away"

Is there anything we or admin can do to create a more robust vetting system? Or do I just need to suck it up?...so to speak

Mrs Generally does enjoy me being with other women, however we tend not to message straight women just for fun with me because of this reason 🤷‍♂️ it's a shame because some of us are genuine and if it was the other way round it wouldn't be a problem for most to belive 🙄

Guess that's why we enjoy clubs or people we have met in person so know she loves it 😈

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