FabSwingers.com forum: Why is so hard to find NSA

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all . I just can't understand why is impossible to find real mature woman in need of some good old fashion NSA. Im intelligent not bad looking and I just have no no luck.

What I do wrong?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You are cheating on a partner, this alone will put many people off.

You are straight yet have a verification from a TV/TS, however convincing she is, people can still be quite narrow minded when it comes to TV/TS, and will still read that you've had sex with a male.

Your profile says very little about yourself, so you are hardly setting yourself apart from the hundreds of other profiles on here.

You say you are intellingent, but your profile reads very poorly, words missing etc. All of this is enough to put a large proportion of the site off.

On the plus side you can accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for a start change username..it sounds immature and inexperienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for a start change username..it sounds immature and inexperienced"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for a start change username..it sounds immature and inexperienced

This

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"for a start change username..it sounds immature and inexperienced"

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Profiles and names that assume they are 'amazing' and hings likes 'I'm the best you'll squirt more than ever with me' etc just sounds quite sad and immature. The fact you're playing away would completly put me off by itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i gave up after the slightly petulant first line. It reads like you begrudge making an effort with your profile, and the inferred sense of entitlement that implies is enough to put me off. Coupled with the user name and whining status, that was as much as i could be bothered to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen on your username. But I do like your profile. Shame you're so far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not hard on here...keep trying.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your English is a damned sight better

than my Polish. Put more in about yourself. Amend your age range. Put more of your personality into words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He seems to have lost the bit about him being attached

and there is only 1 veri from a woman, so again the tv veri has gone.

I agree with the others, I wouldn't meet anyone with that user name, as in my experience men that just want to make me squirt, are not fun.

The 'lets say my name is..' put me off. From my point of view, either be honest or dont bother

but you cant please all of the people all of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He seems to have lost the bit about him being attached

and there is only 1 veri from a woman, so again the tv veri has gone.

I agree with the others, I wouldn't meet anyone with that user name, as in my experience men that just want to make me squirt, are not fun.

The 'lets say my name is..' put me off. From my point of view, either be honest or dont bother

but you cant please all of the people all of the time.

Yeah, funny how the things that showed him in a really bad light have disappeared and the rest is unchanged!

OP, you know that people can read all your past forum posts from clicking a link on your profile don't you? So the women you seek will be able to see this thread and find out you're married and bisexual!

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"He seems to have lost the bit about him being attached

and there is only 1 veri from a woman, so again the tv veri has gone.

I agree with the others, I wouldn't meet anyone with that user name, as in my experience men that just want to make me squirt, are not fun.

The 'lets say my name is..' put me off. From my point of view, either be honest or dont bother

but you cant please all of the people all of the time.

Yeah, funny how the things that showed him in a really bad light have disappeared and the rest is unchanged!

Where is this link you speak of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look for the little green arrow!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Look for the little green arrow!"

oh dear!

I for one always look at the little green arrow to see if the people I am interested in have posted and if so, on what topic, how did they come across, did I agree with what they said. Now there's a post where the guy has lost the married bit and TV veri! Won't look good....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look for the little green arrow!"

Only links from the forum not the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look for the little green arrow!

Only links from the forum not the profile. "

Dude! Before you said that I reckon we could have had a "user no longer on site" by the end of the day!

Obviously he'd be back tomorrow under a different name but still..

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The assumption that mature women are unsatisfied won't do you any favours either...

Add that to saying you'd like to meet mature women but having the age range set at 18-99...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Look for the little green arrow!

Only links from the forum not the profile. "

ah....most of the people I have met have been from the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give the guy his due Hes taken a lot of the advice on the negative aspects away from his profile and stated clearly that he's bi sexual - something he should be applauded for.

Writing a "good " profile is almost impossible -we all know the " Pleasing all of the people all of the time" saying.

As for the user name.......worth paying the fiver to have the option to choose something less ridiculous.

Good on you for admitting your sexuality Pablo.

Just be yourself, try to inject a bit of your real self to the profile and dont try to be some sexual superman - youre not - neither is anyone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People will help you, and have given some good feedback. I will help you with your English, if you'd like.

Read the forums for other profile advice tips too.

Patience and persistence are good qualities to have on Fab, as you'll get more experience as well as improve your profile over time.

Stay flexible, keep at it.

Good luck!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Mail me if you'd like written English help.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Apologies, I didn't realise English wasn't your first language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for a start change username..it sounds immature and inexperienced"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are cheating on a partner, this alone will put many people off.

You are straight yet have a verification from a TV/TS, however convincing she is, people can still be quite narrow minded when it comes to TV/TS, and will still read that you've had sex with a male.

Your profile says very little about yourself, so you are hardly setting yourself apart from the hundreds of other profiles on here.

You say you are intellingent, but your profile reads very poorly, words missing etc. All of this is enough to put a large proportion of the site off.

On the plus side you can accommodate. "

Exactly!

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Is it just me or does anyone else think that if someone can't manage to do a profile for themselves then don't bother!Everyone suggests things so they amend it, even word for word from forum posters suggestions, but all the tweaking in the world isn't going to alter the fact that the person/persons are not capable of selling themselves or writing a true “for them” profile. They change it to suit what they think will get meets yet hide all the important bits that would prevent it! A waste of time for anyone who may have interest when they discover the truth

I'd much prefer to see one written by the person in the way they think is alright, I can decide from that if I am interested.

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By *rystal denisonWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge

what puts me off your profile is ....

the user name (makes me think omg another idiot who wants to ruff up my fanny trying to do something he cant)

no photo . ok so one tiny one but nothing I can view

your profile comes across a little aggressive

your Verified but it says you didn't have much time , this makes me think your married

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Is it just me or does anyone else think that if someone can't manage to do a profile for themselves then don't bother!Everyone suggests things so they amend it, even word for word from forum posters suggestions, but all the tweaking in the world isn't going to alter the fact that the person/persons are not capable of selling themselves or writing a true “for them” profile. They change it to suit what they think will get meets yet hide all the important bits that would prevent it! A waste of time for anyone who may have interest when they discover the truth

I'd much prefer to see one written by the person in the way they think is alright, I can decide from that if I am interested.

I think they'll still stand out as themselves, and disjointed profiles, if people have added bits of others bits into it, would also seem unflowing.

My comment here doesn't relate to this poster, just the above replier's good thoughts. That said, there are some thoughtless things that are off-putti ng in some people's, and having those pointed out, isn't too bad a thing. Don't want to hijack this thread, as this user isn't native, and could do with a few pointers and support, imo.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"He seems to have lost the bit about him being attached

and there is only 1 veri from a woman, so again the tv veri has gone.

I agree with the others, I wouldn't meet anyone with that user name, as in my experience men that just want to make me squirt, are not fun.

this is why I hate thread like this... because at least you know what you were getting into before...

this is now deception by omission......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to you all for advice. I know what I did did wrong. But if I can explain why I'm not honest about myself .

How many of you are?

How many people on here show their faces to all users. We all got families friends and people we work with. Best thing 4 me is to make new profile , but I won't do that.

And to some of you who just slug me off. Why did you block me that I can't see your profile? It is nice and easy to be hidden behind pc with no identity.

INTERNET TROLLS .

PS. Forgive me my spelling and dont be be offended I just write what I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you being attached is something any potential person you want a NSA meeting with should know. Not everybody wants the drama of dealing with someone in a relationship.Especially if your partner doesn't know about your activitys. The fact you've now edited that fact out speaks volumes sadly.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd much prefer to see one written by the person in the way they think is alright, I can decide from that if I am interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where is the green arrow on some ones profile to check past forum activity plz??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The user name, the aggression in your bio, lack of pics, and attachment... Total wide birth from me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks to you all for advice. I know what I did did wrong. But if I can explain why I'm not honest about myself .

How many of you are?

How many people on here show their faces to all users. We all got families friends and people we work with. Best thing 4 me is to make new profile , but I won't do that.

And to some of you who just slug me off. Why did you block me that I can't see your profile? It is nice and easy to be hidden behind pc with no identity.

INTERNET TROLLS .

PS. Forgive me my spelling and dont be be offended I just write what I think"

Maybe you were blocked because people found out you are married/bi/dishonest/ any other reason.

maybe you were blocked because people didn't like what you put on this thread.

Why you feel the need to try and pm people about their forum comments?? Let them block who they want, and concentrate on those contacting you.

And yes, I'm honest. I used to use my face as my avatar, on my old profile, but when the sony crashed I lost loads of pics and basically haven't got round to sifting through and backing up and what not

But then my private pics (friends only) has more than enough photos of me so I'm happy with my profile as it is ta

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