FabSwingers.com forum: Doms and subs

By *ilverfox for you OP Man
43 weeks ago

Hull

What are you ? Tend to find I’m a sub !! Love giving control to a dom

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By *mfao88Man
43 weeks ago

north yorkshire

I'm sub

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By *P28Woman
43 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Definitely a submissive!

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By *ubmissive guyMan
43 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm sub to Females.

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By *ack 55530Man
43 weeks ago

cardiff

Mostly a Dom but if the girl wants to be Dom then I can be the sub

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By *irthmasterCoolMan
43 weeks ago

Leeds

Preferably it's Dom and sub both way

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By *iltsguy38Man
43 weeks ago

swindon

Pleasure Dom for females

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
43 weeks ago

Shefford

If i had to say one way or the other, then Sub

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
43 weeks ago

Watton

We are a dominant couple, and love sharing and using submissive women!

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By *ieandteaseMan
43 weeks ago

Wiltshire

"Definitely a submissive!

Love to tie you up sometime then x

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
43 weeks ago

chester

Very dom with ladies, but enjoy being submissive to hubby

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By *he MinionMan
43 weeks ago

Surrey

I switch but generally dom

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By *vaRoseWoman
43 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Dom leaning switch… emphasis on the Donme side

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By *he MinionMan
43 weeks ago

Surrey

"Dom leaning switch… emphasis on the Donme side "

Noted

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By *andb69Couple
43 weeks ago

leeds

Neither. For me good sex is based on equality not domination or subservience.

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By *unhunter 71Man
43 weeks ago

Luton

A sub with men

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By *parkaz2209Couple
43 weeks ago

Orpington

I'm the dominant one and wifey is my sub, usually dominant with men as well

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By *aguely CanadianWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere

Switches have more fun!

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By *eaches254Woman
43 weeks ago

Bury

Im a bit of both but do enjoy sub that smidge more!

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By *ountryfansCouple
43 weeks ago

St. Ives

Adie is switch but prefers sub

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
43 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Mr dom

Mrs sub

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By *mogen321TV/TS
42 weeks ago

Near Bournemouth/Kensington

Love to switch. Spanking is best when you take turns and work through a selection of paddles. It keeps the anticipation ongoing and it is easier for your partner to show you what they like.

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By *r.ZeusMan
42 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

Switch

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By *oddessLouCouple
42 weeks ago

Nottingham

Female Domme and pre-op trans female submissive couple

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Dom here

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

manchester

Veryvery sub

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
42 weeks ago

boston

We would love a younger female sub

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By *damjamie00Man
42 weeks ago

Haslemere

I'm a bit switch, best of all worlds haha

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By *inkycreamCouple
42 weeks ago

manchester

Sub to partner, but switch easily with women

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

We live a bdsm lifestyle and in my opinion a switch shouldn't exist.

As all that makes a person a Dom or sub if that's what you are then to switch to the other role goes against everything that makes you the previous role.

A switch is for folk playing at the lifestyle.

Of course just my opinion x

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By *asil999Man
42 weeks ago

Barnsley

Love flipping between both during a evening session

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By *nM4kinkCouple
42 weeks ago

London

Mr is Pleasure Dom and Miss is sub.

Works for us which is the main thing in any of these combinations.

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
42 weeks ago

drogheda

Dom with the wife, sub when I'm dressed up.

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By *wkwardly yoursMan
42 weeks ago

Tighnabruaich

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By *penminded7Man
42 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Dom here

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By *tom53Man
42 weeks ago

Wrexham

So want to be a sub

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By *vaRoseWoman
42 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"We live a bdsm lifestyle and in my opinion a switch shouldn't exist.

As all that makes a person a Dom or sub if that's what you are then to switch to the other role goes against everything that makes you the previous role.

A switch is for folk playing at the lifestyle.

Of course just my opinion x"

It’s ok to be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I'm dom but also very sensual, teasing.

Build up Dom side during a meet if not used to it

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By *enninemarkMan
42 weeks ago

huddersfield/manchester

Switch but more naturally sub to F or mf couple.

Love erotic BDSM play.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Huge fantasy for a sadistic dom to train and use my wife

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By *omis.69Man
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

Without a doubt DOM

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Sub here looking for a real mistress - I’ll do as u ask and video to prove my loyalty- msg me with tasks - gen only plz

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Chichester

More sub generally but I do like meeting cuckold couples where I will be trans bull type

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By *smiaTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Normally a sub but discovering my switch side with a friend

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By *D_LucyTV/TS
42 weeks ago

near calne

Sub. Every time.

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By *otwifejenny79Couple
42 weeks ago

dublin

"Huge fantasy for a sadistic dom to train and use my wife "

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By *indMasterUKMan
42 weeks ago

All over England

Dom (could you have guessed that from my name? lol)

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By *isubbiMan
42 weeks ago

Swaffham

Very very sub

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Definitely dom and looking for a regular sub

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By *mfao88Man
42 weeks ago

north yorkshire

Sub looking for dom(me)

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By *ykinkyCouple
42 weeks ago

cleethorpes

Sub

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
42 weeks ago

Frodsham

Sir is dominant with everyone, I switch… sub to Sir and Domme to everyone else. We love to dominate others together 😈

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By *heekychap0661Man
42 weeks ago

margate

Anyone want a cuck to use x

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By *B.83Man
42 weeks ago

......

Wolves…….??

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Sub x 2

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By *nexplored kinksMan
42 weeks ago

Oldham

"Im a bit of both but do enjoy sub that smidge more!"

Very nice profile

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Dom but open to explore sub

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
42 weeks ago

Ryde

When it comes to the Missus and her lover, I am certainly Dom. I whip the living wotsit out of both of them once they've had their fun together.

It was only earlier that the wife and I had a good session, and I bound her tits before whipping them. She admitted that after 8 orgasms, she lost count through delirium.

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By *ylonlickMan
42 weeks ago

Liverpool

Definitely a submissive

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By *evonFbsCouple
42 weeks ago

East Devon

Male Dom Female Sub possibly switch

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By *ixenMinxWoman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm submissive and looking for dominant men to play with

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By *1883Man
42 weeks ago

Wells

Sub's please message 😉😉😉😉😉

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By *etshavesomefun789Man
42 weeks ago

Margate

Very sub

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By *D07Man
42 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I'm sub. I like to be used. I would like to meet a couple.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
42 weeks ago

Bangor

Both subs here

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Both

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By *unx2019Couple
42 weeks ago

Lossiemouth

When first got together I (Mrs) was more the sub and he taught me a lot of things, but Last 5 years he's become truly submissive to me to the point he's now my cuck and I dominate his life

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By *omis.69Man
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

Without a doubt dominant and always searching for willing subs

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By *elrose57Couple
42 weeks ago

reading

more sub when we play with a more assertive guy

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By *eatupMan
42 weeks ago

wirral

Love to be a sub to a sexy bbw

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
42 weeks ago

southam

"more sub when we play with a more assertive guy "

confident assertive guys are so sexy

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By *elrose57Couple
42 weeks ago

reading

we have found an assertive guy is more in-tune with getting the most out of a couple like us

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By *ealslut4sexymenTV/TS
42 weeks ago

bognor regis

Definitely a sub for men x

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By *atexbound_scotMan
42 weeks ago

Livingston

Sub here. Do like to switch with f's but truly sub

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By *icentiousCouple
42 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

My bag of toys is for use on ladies, not the other way

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
42 weeks ago

East Anglia

well quite simply I love the Dom life he lives the sub life a match made in Hell lol xx

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By *ecker30Man
42 weeks ago

Northwich

I'm dom most of the time but I want to be sub for someone!

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By *ensualMan
42 weeks ago

Sutton

Everyone is entitled to their view, but I feel people confuse confidence or assertiveness in bed or being a pleasure dom with being a D/s Dominant. In my view D/s is based on a relationship and a commitment to each other. It is not turn up shag and go. That is more topping and bottoming, where there is no transfer of authority or power. That is not say that people do not add swinging to their D/s dynamic, they do, but the swinging is an add on, and not the other way around.

With the increased crossover of swinging and BDSM and BDSM's appearance in porn oe bad social media as being purely sex based with a bit of Anne Summers lite impact (or my pet peeve sex rope and calling it shibari) thrown in causes confusion.

I am not a believer in "the one true way" but there is social history and there are norms. But people don't want to get educated.

Switching is well established within the norms of D/s. If it works for the parties and is part of their relationship then that is D/s.

My view D/s is more than sex, and the more people try to get away from the authoritarian side of D/s and concentrate on sex the more they show themselves as hedonist kinksters rather than Doms or subs.

It is similar to the argument that swinging is just about sex, whereas others would say there is more to it than that.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
42 weeks ago

southam

"Everyone is entitled to their view, but I feel people confuse confidence or assertiveness in bed or being a pleasure dom with being a D/s Dominant. In my view D/s is based on a relationship and a commitment to each other. It is not turn up shag and go. That is more topping and bottoming, where there is no transfer of authority or power. That is not say that people do not add swinging to their D/s dynamic, they do, but the swinging is an add on, and not the other way around.

I am not a believer in "the one true way" but there is social history and there are norms. But people don't want to get educated.

Switching is well established within the norms of D/s. If it works for the parties and is part of their relationship then that is D/s.

It is similar to the argument that swinging is just about sex, whereas others would say there is more to it than that. "

I am sure you right but i think most of the guys posting are only submissive to their wives or their masters as part of a sexual play and are quite ordinarilly assertive in everyday life

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By *ensualMan
42 weeks ago

Sutton

I am not a believer in "the one true way" but there is social history and there are norms. But people don't want to get educated.

Switching is well established within the norms of D/s. If it works for the parties and is part of their relationship then that is D/s.

It is similar to the argument that swinging is just about sex, whereas others would say there is more to it than that.

I am sure you right but i think most of the guys posting are only submissive to their wives or their masters as part of a sexual play and are quite ordinarilly assertive in everyday life"

I would agree, but add the clarification, that for people into D/s it is built into their ordinary life. Hence female led relationships. The humiliated cuck trope is just one of a number of ways men can be submissive. I do not equate submission with weakness, only with authority/power transfer.

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By *he equaliserMan
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

Most certainly a Dom

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By *penminded7Man
42 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv to hear off any sub

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By *ophiecross217TV/TS
42 weeks ago

wales

I’m sub and looking for a new dom that actually has the time…..

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By *hataloadofshitMan
42 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Sub looking for a master or Mistress

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By *omsubdevonCouple
42 weeks ago

Newton Abbot

Mr here. I am the Dominant and my wife is the submissive. She opened it up to me when we met. I just hadn't realised I was a Dominant. The whole lifestyle is very misunderstood at times. I always suggest people do some decent reading to properly understand the dynamic and not rely on hearsay and dodgy movies lol.

This is a good website: https://www.killingkittens.com/blog/exploring-the-world-of-dominants-and-submissives/

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